's recent " Hidden in the Dust " has attracted great attention from the audience, Haiqing 's disfiguring acting, Ma Youtie's true character, and the director's documentary-style calm and objective about suffering and love is really commendable point.
I come from the countryside, and there are iron-like people around you. They are honest, dull, simple, and kind. These are their advantages. Ma Youtie's phrase that often hangs on his lips is "one yard is one yard". The things and money they borrow have to be repaid. They don't owe other people's feelings, and they don't rely on other people's debts.
At the same time, they are also rigid, stubborn, pedantic, and stupid. They don't know how to adapt, don't see opportunities, and don't understand their own value. This is a deep-seated character flaw in their suffering.
People with these characteristics live in the suffering and self-impression created by themselves, like domesticated livestock, unable to escape the cage that locks them.
They lend you 10 eggs and give you 10 eggs back. It's called loan and return, and it's not difficult to borrow again; if they give back a chicken, it's called reciprocity. There is love in between.
The more love, the greater the power. One hero and three gangs, Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying have always built houses by themselves, just because they have not established feelings with the people around them.
And if you are still submissive to others who want to eat your flesh and drink your blood, it only shows that you are stupid!
Zhang Yongfu needed Ma Youtie's panda blood to save his life. They took it by force and had no gratitude at all; while the villagers' help and cruelty showed the selfishness and darkness at the bottom of human nature to the fullest. They used their rogues to kidnap Ma Youtie.
The third brother of Youtie Ma has never had the slightest brotherly love for Youtie Ma. He exploited him for half his life. When the third brother asked him to help his son pull furniture, he silently obeyed. In
Ma's dictionary, there is never the word "rejection" nor the word "self". They live in the malice of the wicked and never think of resisting.
Rejection requires great courage; seeing "oneself" requires great wisdom!
and the yogis don't!
They are weak, bully, and good people. They lack sharpness, self-knowledge and wisdom. How can they protect themselves and those they love? How to live this life?
Pity is the outward expression of superiority, and respect is the expression of noble emotion!
and respect, from your worth!
01 knows that asking for help is a kind of wisdom
No one remembers his name!
His parents died early. When he was a child, he had chickenpox. was left unattended. When it scabbed, it was unbearable.
lived with his brother-in-law and his sister-in-law. In those days, every family was poor, and there were not many wives. He was ugly, and no one wanted to marry a girl to him.
is in his 30s, and I don't know who introduced a girl to him - deaf and dumb, and a fool.
married a year ago and gave birth to a son who is also a deaf and dumb fool.
gave birth to another son in the third year of marriage. His speech is not very clear, and he is a little smarter. The whole family is very happy.
The land of fish and rice is full of ditches and rivers. The best way for children in rural areas to enjoy the cool in summer is to swim. No one teaches children to swim, but their partners swim together by the river.
adults can't handle it, so children drown every summer.
In that year, the ten-year-old Jia family's youngest son also went to swim with his friends in the river, but unfortunately, when the adults found out that they were fished out, they were no longer saved.
To this day, people still remember the silent, heart-piercing cry from the idiot mute mother, and even the air was bitter with grief and stickiness.
is still living day by day. Mazi is farming alone to support his mute wife and son. The family is so poor that they don't have a meal.
Later, the rural policy was improved, and his family was the first batch of approved subsistence allowances. With the subsistence allowances, their family's life was much better.
All the fees due in the village were paid in time; their clothes began to fit neatly. The eyes of the villagers looking at them are also different, and there is an emotion called equality.
Nowadays, Mazi's legs are not good. The villagers often see his mute son, pushing Mazi in a wheelchair, next to his mute mother. The family of three walks on the rural road, laughing and hitting people when they meet them. A greeting, the background is a piece of farmland, the quiet sunset stretches their shadows very long, very three-dimensional!
02 Making oneself valuable is a kind of self-improvement
Song tilted his head by nature, with a high hump on his back, he couldn't straighten his waist when he walked, and he was so short that he couldn't do farm work at all.
is also a bachelor who can't get a wife!
God closed too many doors for him, but still quietly left a window for him - he has a pair of clever hands!
There are willow trees everywhere in the countryside. The tender willow branches are flexible and slender. When Song tilts his head, he cuts off the willow branches, peels off the skin, and uses the white wicker to weave all kinds of baskets, baskets, baskets, dustpans...
His neighbors often ask him for help, and his popularity is very good!
In the new century, there are more opportunities in the countryside. Song tilted his head to find a young couple in the village who are e-commerce businessmen and asked them to sell his knitted products on a consignment basis.
The things he compiled are more delicate than others, and the sales are good. He also thought about some tricks and compiled them into beautiful handicrafts. The prices are good and the profits are optimistic.
Song Weitou, who was in his 40s, was introduced by someone and married a widow. The two of them cut wicker by the river. When they got home, the wife was in charge of peeling the willow bark and Song Weitou was in charge of editing. The two chatted while working. Lying on the side is a dozing housekeeping pastoral dog. In the yard of
, there are peppers, cucumbers, lentils, , Chinese roses, hibiscus, fruitful and prosperous.
All of this makes people see that the years are quiet!
03 Completely changing the kernel is a kind of redemption The family of
is so poor that even the mouse does not come, but the mother of the Sun family has been providing several children with reading, as long as they are willing to read, they will continue to read.
In the era when college entrance examinations required relationship recommendations, the Sun family had no chance to take the college entrance examination.
Sun Lintao is the eldest. With his high school graduation qualifications, he married a daughter-in-law who doesn't care about his family background and only recognizes his high school culture.
A good woman flourishes for three generations!
The couple of the Sun family firmly believe that knowledge can change their destiny. They wake up early in the morning and stay in the dark, work in the fields when they are farming, do a small business in their spare time, and work hard for their children to study.
They have upright personalities and don't know how to beat horses. They can't eat well in the rural environment where everything depends on relationships and shortcuts. They only have one belief: to let their children go out into a relatively fair environment and rely on them. Expertise to eat.
The son of the Sun family is the first college student in the village, and the daughter is the first female college student in the village. Now both of them have jobs in big cities, have houses and cars, and live a prosperous and stable life.
The old couple is in their 60s and they are still farming. Neighbors often say enviously: Why don't the old couple go to the city to enjoy the happiness, the old couple always smiles:
Our roots are there In this soil, it feels solid here.
Their sun-tanned faces, wrinkled like ravines, made people feel rich from the inside out.
wrote at the end
Many people doubt the authenticity of the story of "Hidden in the Dust", there is really no doubt that China's rural areas are really so bitter.
Ma Youtie is real, no matter who it is, suffering is not worthy of praise, getting out of suffering and obtaining happiness is the purpose of life.
Ma Youtie needs to see their own advantages and values. If the Ma Youtie in the film can apply for the minimum living allowance, in the face of Zhang Yongfu's requirements, put forward conditions (panda blood is a scarce resource and irreplaceable) to improve their situation and let them Make yourself stronger.
Only when he is strong can he have the strength to protect his Cao Guiying!