Chinese classical vernacular novels have a long history of describing the love between men and women. The plots are basically fools' eyes. Thousands of stories are all out of one set. Hope, after careful calculation, only the love of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in " A Dream of Red Mansions " is out of this cliché.
No matter " The Story of the West Chamber " or " The Peony Pavilion ", the love between these talented and beautiful women always seems inexplicable, and it is love when they meet, and then in order to fight for love, they start to talk about the story, and the core is nothing more than putting a handsome guy , When a beautiful woman gets together, it becomes the so-called love.
Before the emergence of the Red House, this literary phenomenon has been going on for a hundred years, and readers have also formed this habit of thinking, and it is the same to this day.
In my previous articles, I used the principle of realism to evaluate Baodai's love, and uncovered the real factors behind the love between wood and stone. For example, the two grew up eating and living together, living together, which resulted in the two being closer than other sisters.
Another example, Jia Baoyu is a typical "appearance association", Lin Daiyu's appearance is more attractive to Baoyu than Xishi's appearance; and Lin Daiyu respects Jia Baoyu's ambition, never forcing Baoyu to engage in official business, So Baoyu's attitude towards Daiyu is also different from others...
But is this really the whole of Baodai's love? No, the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu is irreplaceable. Even if there is a woman who meets the above-mentioned practical conditions, it cannot replace Lin Daiyu's position in Baoyu's heart, because Baodai is a true soulmate.
gives an example, in the twenty-eighth episode of the Red House, Lin Daiyu was saddened to bury flowers on the hillside, and he recited a few lines of poems, which became the famous " funeral flowers ". Jia Baoyu heard this poem from a distance, and he The reaction went like this:
didn't want Baoyu to hear it on the hillside, so he nodded his head and sighed, and then heard "Nong is buried in flowers today, and he knows who he is when he is buried in the new year", "When the spring ends, the flowers are old and the flowers are old. I don't know if you fall and die." He fell down on the hillside without realizing it, and the flowers in his arms were scattered all over the ground. Just imagine Lin Daiyu's beautiful and moon-like appearance. In the future, when there will be nowhere to be found, I would rather not be heartbroken! Since Daiyu can't be found after all, it can be pushed to others, such as Baochai , Xiangling , Xiren , etc. When treasure hairpins and the like are nowhere to be found, will you be safe again? And I still don't know where I am going, so I don't know whose surname is Sichu, Siyuan, Sihua, and Siliu! Therefore, one and two, two and three, after repeated deductions, I really don’t know why I want to wait for a fool at this time. I don’t know what to do. ——The twenty-eighth chapter
Different readers have different feelings about this description. Rational readers of
can't help but feel that Daiyu and Baoyu are too hypocritical, living in the Rongguofu where food and clothing are not worrying about, and worrying about these illusory things all day long, it is better to work and study hard and contribute to the society in the future;
Sensitive readers, From "The Song of Burial Flowers", I think of Daiyu's life experience when both parents died, and I feel pity. I only feel pity and sigh for and , how can I blame her for being hypocritical.
Whether it is rational or emotional, these emotions are not enough to feel Daiyu's psychological state. At best, it reflects the readers themselves through "Daiyu's burial of flowers". Only Jia Baoyu can empathize with Lin Daiyu. In the original work of
, Baoyu has a paragraph of Jiaxu eyebrows, which is written as: does not speak or refine sentences, words and expressions are clumsy. True frown's confidant, there is really no one outside of Yuxiong.
Lin Daiyu's burial is not a flower, but the eternal sorrow of the entire human race.
Jia Baoyu was brought in immediately after listening to "The Song of Burial Flowers", and he began to think: Lin Daiyu is a beautiful girl now, in a few decades, she will be full of white hair, and she is currently living in Grand View Garden , but in a few decades, hundreds of years, this so-calledWill the Grand View Garden still exist? At that time, the former Baochai, Daiyu, Xiangling, Xiren, these women, have long since become memories of the past, and their bodies have long since turned into ashes and smoke.
This is a tragedy that all human beings cannot avoid. For example, think about the parents, lovers, and children who are still alive, but in a few years, where will these people be? The family who used to laugh and laugh always have to leave this world one by one. This indescribable sadness, when meditating at night, is always like a sharp silver needle, piercing the heart.
Jia Baoyu became deviant because he saw this layer, always saying: "I will turn smoke into ashes, I can make girls' tears flow into a river, float my body up, and I will die in the right place. ".
But this kind of sadness is not accepted by the world. The society requires everyone to live a positive and optimistic life. If everyone is immersed in this kind of sadness, how can society progress and how can human beings survive? Xue Baochai , Hua Xiren , Shi Xiangyun , they may not understand the sadness behind Jia Baoyu's deviance, but they understand that they cannot truly understand.
The same is true for our readers. Even if we can deduce what Jia Baoyu is thinking, if we really want to be like Baoyu's "do not go crazy and live", we can't do it, only Lin Daiyu is an exception.
Lin Daiyu's understanding of Jia Baoyu is partly due to the acquired environment. Daiyu once watched her younger brother, mother and father leave this world one by one. At every funeral, Daiyu witnessed it with her own eyes. Coffins are put into the ground, and the relatives in the bottom of my heart are emptied little by little. In the end, only an empty person is left, living with a heart full of emptiness. What kind of torture is this, no one else can understand it .
The psychological foundation of Jia Baoyu's stupidity and sluggishness is based on this eternal sadness. This feeling is understood by others, but Lin Daiyu knows it better than anyone else. In the whole Jia Mansion, everyone was persuading Jia Baoyu to study hard, to become a champion in the future, and to inherit the family business. Only Daiyu never persuaded him, because only she understood Jia Baoyu's heart.
Lin Daiyu's grief is not under Jia Baoyu in the slightest. On the 32nd time, Daiyu heard Baoyu's words outside the window, " Sister Lin has ever said these bastards, if she said it, I would have had a divorce with her already", Daiyu's reaction was: You and I In order to be a confidant, I have a bad fate;
Chapter 78, Baoyu and Daiyu revised "Furong's Daughter", Baoyu changed the word to: Qian Qian screen window, I have no fate; in the loess ridge, Qing He has a bad fate. After hearing this, Daiyu's face changed suddenly. She found that this ode to Qingwen was slowly changed by the two to pay homage to herself. This ominous omen made her uneasy.
Lin Daiyu's outlook on life seems to be higher than Jia Baoyu's sadness, but she is not like Jia Baoyu, she is not like Jia Baoyu, she talks about "sad" moments, this kind of delicate and long sadness lingers in her heart for a long time , until the tears are gone.
Baodai's love is different from simple and rude, talented and beautiful women. Their three views are in harmony, and they are close to God. It can be called love in an ideal state. Lu Xun commented: After the release of "Dream of Red Mansions", the traditional thinking and writing method are all broken. No matter what else, just looking at the definition of love, "A Dream of Red Mansions" really deserves its name.
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