The fifth season of "Love Apartment" is expected to be released this winter vacation. From the first season to the fifth season, "Love Apartment" has gone through ten years. I think the commendable thing is that for ten years, it is very rare for the director to insist on not changing the leading role. In the memory of
, Lou Yifei’s Hu Yifei, Chen He’s Zeng Xiaoxian, Wang Chuanjun’s Guan Gu Magic, Deng Jiajia’s Tang Youyou, Sun Yizhou’s Lu Ziqiao, Li Jinming’s Meijia, Li Jiahang’s Zhang Wei...all impressed us so much that we are now watching When I arrived at Chen He, I still felt that he was Zeng Xiaoxian.
The leading actors in "Love Apartment" were once a smash hit, but their careers seem to be developing poorly. Although they have personally filmed a lot of TV series, they have never aroused any splashes. The most successful Chen He has no success in filming reality shows. That is, Wang Chuanjun, relied on the movie "I am not a medicine god" to brush a wave of existence. The final piece of ten years-"Love Apartment 5" I will definitely watch it, even if it is to draw an end to my youth.
To be honest, although 10 years have passed, I would watch "Love Apartment" every time I was unhappy or frustrated. Because it is relaxed, cheerful, funny, and open-minded, it can make people smile and forget their troubles. However, after watching "Dear, Loved", and then watching "Love Apartment", I suddenly discovered a secret that the director never told us. At the end of the first season of "Love Apartment", Zhanbo and Wanyu are ready. In the second season, they did not participate in the filming. It is said that they went to travel. In the third season, they returned from traveling around the world. Wan Yu refused, and went to Milan to study fashion design alone, and then the two broke up. The first couple in "Love Apartment" ended without a problem.
Wan Yu's reason for Zhanbo's breakup is to grow up and become a better self and not to rely on others, so she has to face the future alone. At that time, I believed it. But ten years later, I discovered that this was just Wan Yu's excuse. The real reason they broke up was that Zhanbo was not suitable for her.
"Dear, Loved" Zheng Hui likes Tong Nian, but Tong Nian doesn't like him. Tong Nian’s father once told his mother how boring his daughter married Zheng Hui. Similarly, we can also see that Wan Yu is with Zhan Bo, which is actually very boring. Zhanbo has a high IQ, graduated from a prestigious school, and a computer genius, but his EQ is too low. In this point, it looks a bit like Zheng Hui. He gave Wan Yu a gift, which was his collection of Transformers. Although it is a limited edition worldwide, few girls appreciate it. Wan Yu didn't appreciate it at all, and planned to sell it for money so as to pay the rent.
He asked Wan Yu to go to the movies. It turned out to be a Russian science and education movie. It is estimated that every girl is willing to go. Wan Yu decisively refused, but she found that after listening to Senior Brother Guan Gu's speech, she might as well go watch science and education films, actively go to Zhanbo and ask him to watch science and education films. However, Zhanbo refused Wan Yu in order to wait for a cake. There is no boy who is more straight than him. In the third season, he finally got the hang of it and planned to invite Wan Yu to watch a movie, but he wanted to watch "Transformers" and Wan Yu wanted to watch "Peach Blossom Man vs. Chrysanthemum Monster". More importantly, he wanted to propose in the cinema. I have asked to get married, but haven't learned how to make my girlfriend happy? In other words, he hasn't learned how to get along with Wan Yu at all. When they were traveling around the world, they were trapped in a church once. He told Wan Yu a story that was of interest to him all night. Don't say Wan Yu doesn't like a boy like
, you won't like it for any girl. The most important thing in love is a common language. There is very little common language between Zhanbo and Wan Yu. Wan Yu worked hard for this relationship, but Zhanbo didn't seem to improve at all, so the two had to break up. What Zhanbo needs is people who have the same hobbies as him. Together, she can understand him, appreciate what he likes, and support what he wants to do. It is really difficult for Zhanbo to change for a girl. Therefore, he is suitable for people who are willing to change for him.
As a rich second generation, Wan Yu needs people who can enrich her own experience, broaden her horizons, and see a higher world. What she calls growth is actually breaking through the cage and living out of herself. She ran away from home and refused to accept the marriage and future arranged by her parents. She chose to study fashion design because she wanted to live for herself. But Zhanbo is not the one who can support her to live out herself. He doesn't even know how to live out himself. In "Ode to Joy", why would Qu Xiaogang like Dr. Zhao? Isn’t it because Dr. Zhao gave her a different feeling? Qu Xiaogang has money in her family, and her material comforts simply cannot attract her. Dr. Zhao led her to improve herself and feel the beauty of the spiritual world, so she was so obsessed. The ultimate meaning of love is to let you get out of your own world and experience the beauty of another world.
"Dear, Loved" Korean Commercial Dialect is to let Tong Nian experience the beauty of another world and open the door to a new world of Tong Nian, and this world is especially fond of Tong Nian, so the two talents are so compatible. And Korean businessmen have high emotional intelligence. But if it were Zheng Hui, Tong Nian would be trapped in his own world forever. In "Love Apartment", Zhanbo cannot bring Wan Yu into her own world, nor can he help Wan Yu improve her own level. He even doesn't understand what the world Wan Yu wants and what her dream is. . Therefore, after experiencing that round-the-world trip, they saw their relationship clearly and chose to break up.
In love, the two can go hand in hand for a period of time; in marriage, the two cannot live together. This relationship, for them, is growth. Really good relationship is growing up with each other and working towards the goals of two people. In the process of joining hands, encourage and appreciate each other. Never, give up oneself and fulfill others. Finally, I want to add that men with low emotional intelligence should not ask for it. Because it is difficult for you to transform him. Look at Zhanbo, look at Zheng Hui, you will understand.
