One of my most impressive classes in college was when a teacher played a documentary about domestic violence. Most of the women in
went to prison. After being abused and tortured by their husbands for more than ten years or even decades, they finally went to extremes.
In places where the percentage of female violent repeat offenders killing their husbands is high, more than 70%. Behind every figure is a person-a man, who is dead; a woman who lives is a felony, with a reprieve, a reprieve, and life. Indefinite...
Someone made a statistics, every 7.4 seconds, a Chinese woman suffers domestic violence. Some of them are ordinary housewives, some are executives, and some are celebrities.
Some time ago, in the hot search on Weibo, there was a female musician who posted a long post pointing to the domestic violence of her cohabiting boyfriend. The details are chilling. The TV series
pioneered the problem of domestic violence, because it was too hot and the roles were too bright, the male lead An Jia and that hideous face cast a shadow over many people.
Now when Teacher Mei Ting thinks of this play, she feels a little bit scared.
Teacher Feng Yuanzheng even joked, “I’m afraid that if you continue to shoot like this, the earth will not dare to let him stay.”
The male protagonist An Jiahe is a good man in the eyes of everyone. His career is successful and he is gentle and he will soon marry a beautiful one. The hostess is even more enviable. It is a perfect family no matter how you look at it.
The first day of marriage was destined to be an uneasy marriage. His wife Mei Xiangnan was raped by Gao Bing in junior high school. Gao Bing escaped from prison on the day of her marriage and wanted to avenge Mei Xiangnan and repay his so-called shame.
His method is simple and effective, using An Jiahe's suspicion to plant seeds and shadows in his heart. The development of things was as smooth as he expected.
Once things started, they couldn't hold back. An Jiahe made a move on Mei Xiangnan for the first time.
Like all domestic violence men, An Jiahe regretted it the first time he did it. He begged his wife for forgiveness and promised that there would be no next time. Mei Xiangnan felt soft.
has the first time, and soon there will be a second time, three or four times... countless times, each time An Jiahe is begging for forgiveness after starting his hands, even kneeling and wiping tears, Mei Xiangnan also forgives again and again Give him countless opportunities.
An Jiahe during the day is well-dressed and decent. In everyone's eyes it is the embodiment of perfection. The income is not cheap, the status is not low, and there is even an enviable beautiful bride Mei Xiangnan.
However, An Jiahe at night is another face. Violence, suspicion, jealousy, hypocrisy, human-faced animal heart, beast-dressed and other unbearable words to describe him cannot be exaggerated. An Jiahe's ex-wife also committed suicide because he could not bear domestic violence.
Violence has become commonplace. Mei Xiangnan couldn't escape when she was pregnant. He was beaten to have a miscarriage, broke his ribs, and was almost paralyzed. When someone exposed his hypocritical face, he would kill him.
Mei Xiangnan’s sadness is more than one side. She chose to forgive after her husband did it again and again. She hurt herself and her family. Her brother was raped because of Mei Xiangnan. She beat Gao Bing and went to jail. Mei Xiangnan was killed by An Jiahe. The ending of the
TV series An Jia and Fufa, Mei Xiangnan successfully got rid of An Jia and started a new life, but the price was too great.
There are countless Mei Xiangnan women in real life. They cannot get effective help after suffering domestic violence. Most people think that they would rather demolish ten temples than destroy one marriage. Outsiders can’t control the internal affairs of.
interviewed eleven murderers in Chai Jing’s book "Seeing". They suffered inhuman or even sexual abuse by their husbands. They could not get help from the outside world. Even if they complained about their husbands’ behavior, they finally got More cruel beating and revenge.
How can we understand their pain and helplessness.
is sad! Killing husbands is like their last life-saving straw. In the end, they lost their lives. Maybe when they lived with such a man, they had lost their lives.
Domestic violence is a social issue. China’s Domestic Violence Law was issued in 2016. Domestic violence is also unbearable by the society. I believe that our laws will get better and better, and women who are struggling can stand up bravely.
