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Recently, "Actors Please Get In" has gone viral.
This is a reality show for directors casting roles. Four directors Chen Kaige, Li Shaohong, Zhao Wei and Guo Jingming were invited.
50 actors of different ages played on stage, and the off-stage director commented on the spot, and selected their favorite actors. In the first episode of
, Guo Junchen and Dong Li acted in "Sadness Goes Against the River", and Li Chengru directly gave a negative comment:
A scene of the show makes people "like a man on the back, like sitting on needles, and like a throat."
In acting, the lines of the three people were vague. The
work itself is also questioned: is this a bestseller?
"Are we young people now watching this kind of high school students fall in love?" The atmosphere at
instantly dropped to a freezing point. Before the result of
waited for the host to save the field, the original author of Guo Jingming came back with a clean and neat counterattack. :
was divided into three steps:
1, a wave of sympathy , and the smashed pot back to himself , Full score for responsibility.
2, "Ming logic" crushes -you say it's not good, but you don't know how to appreciate it.
""Sorrowful Against the River" is China's first serious work that seriously discusses the issue of campus bullying."
went further.
3, put golden sentences to create memory points : "You can never like what you don't like, but please allow him to exist; you can continue to hate what you hate, but please allow others to like him."
The mood was stirred up, and the audience in this battle sentenced Director Guo to win.
was conquered by eloquence:
even turned black:
, Guo Jingming, who had been silent for a long time, took advantage of this hearty response and went out of the circle again, which set off a hot search:
was invited by the whole network to go to "Wonderful Talk". Want to see him "arguing".
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Through this incident, many came to a conclusion: is good at eloquence, it is too important, and is not at a loss wherever you go.
is not difficult to understand.
Whether it is in the workplace or in life, we are criticized and denied and can only listen. We are often full of enthusiasm and intend to let go of it. After a eloquence, we find that our mouth can never keep up with our brains, and countless regrets afterwards "have failed to play well".
Therefore, Guo Jingming's three-stroke response was like giving a sigh of relief to the masses of people who would not quarrel. It was very happy.
But the follow-up of things was not perfect as imagined.
Director Guo's supernatural operation, apart from consolidating his position in the "quarrel world", did not have any positive influence or effect.
even lost a lot of goodwill.
Because many people want to understand one thing, 's quick tongue is very refreshing, but it is useless. The main problem with
is that when you calm down, more people think that Mr. Li Chengru is very pertinent despite his heavy words. There are indeed elements of "school violence" in the
movie, but it is not a serious discussion.
catered to the market's "love drama for middle school students" even more dilute this theme. The best-selling original work of
does not highlight the "school violence", but the popular "Youth Pain Literature".
Not to mention the four bad Chinese movies that everyone ridicules: Little Era 1, Little Era 2, Little Era 3, Little Era 4.
can't be washed white.
The audience's aesthetics is also changing. Li Chengru's "family and country feelings, loyal and righteous" is more in line with the current market trend.
Especially in the interview, the teacher also added that love stories are good themes, but they oppose "cheap brushwork."
can face criticism, not everyone can put aside emotions and just listen to the content.
looks like some people in the workplace.
is obviously not doing very well, but you just can’t tell. The performance is not hard, but the mouth is particularly hard. The leader of
said, he can top ten. Some people at
concluded that such people can’t provoke or confuse:
they only talk about the phenomenon but not the essence.
Because you talk to him about professionalism, he talks to you about feelings;
you talk about feelings to him, he tells you toTolerance;
When you shut up, he will confirm with you "Actually you don't understand anything".
is more advanced than quarreling, sophistry with reason and evidence makes people fall into a logical trap.
just slipped into the explosion, just can't stand scrutiny.
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When talking about sophistry, I really want to talk about Luo Yonghao.
Two days ago, Lao Luo, who had already started his e-cigarette business, indirectly confirmed an unreleased Hammer phone on Weibo. He violated industry taboos and provokes his former colleagues. Shameless person."
Lao Luo responded very sternly: "Well, let's post a long paper at ten o'clock tomorrow morning and officially tear it up."
withdrew the "tearing invitation" the next morning and apologized to the old colleagues.
is clearly wrong, the first reaction is still to be forced. The hard-core style of speaking is very "old Luo".
Luo Yonghao has caused countless wars of words since his debut.
fought against Fang Zhouzi, criticized Yu Minhong angrily, and asked ZEALER founder Wang Ziru to open a live debate.
criticizes mobile phone brands other than the hammer, and is very arrogant:
"Lei Jun is too earthy, Huang Zhang is too stupid, and Jobs is the same."
People who like him are deeply trapped in reality distortion and are inspired by him;
In the eyes of people who don't like him, he is just a "brainwashing master" who can speak eloquently.
But in the end, no matter how beautiful the words were said, they still lost to reality.
also used the Apple mobile phone, although it still does not forget to complain. If the bull blew by
cannot become a reality, it will become a flicker, and it will be useless for anyone to win.
In fact, is perfect because no one is born. You have to step on the pit all the way to find a correct way .
In 1996, Jack Ma asked for a visit to Beijing to a certain national committee for the China Yellow Pages. He explained for a long time: "What we do is on the information superhighway, put China's sports industry on it, so that the world can understand." The reply that
got was: "You should make an appointment for this matter first. If you don't make an appointment, it is difficult for me to give you a satisfactory answer." The communication with
failed and was not on a channel at all.
He can complain about the lack of vision of the staff and even have a fight.
However, Jack Ma chose to adjust his strategy based on feedback from others.
finally had the classic brand promotion, "let the world have no difficult business".
does not easily accuse others of not understanding, but finds ways to make others understand, this is what smart people do.
Many times, I am not afraid of seniors, big cows, leaders, and bosses who speak hard. What I am afraid of is that they don't say anything, but they still don't approve of it.
and listen to it.
Those who habitually refute others will go from not hearing opinions , to not hearing opinions , and eventually become knowing nothing about .
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"Xiaohuanxi" has a very classic "connection theory".
"Contacts don't mean how many business cards you send out. The real estate agent who always sends out business cards is engaged in sales." The real strength of
never needs to explain much.
Ma Yun, Ma Huateng, Huang Bo... The name is the brand, it is the influence, and no business card is needed.
So, "Don't say who you know, you have to say who knows you."
Many things "selling and boasting" do not work, and it is more important to get the approval of experts.
Once people want to win too much, too want to prove themselves and show their cleverness, they have already lost.
In the previous "Talk Show Conference", Li Dan complained about the agent's "too fake". Once
, the news he got from his agent was:
, the director who wanted to make a movie, would have me starring, and it wouldn't work without me. Director
got the news from his agent:
Li Dan is about to act in his movie, and even wrote the script himself.
As a result, after the two people met, they didn't know what the other was doing. They were very embarrassed and couldn't match up with anything.
looked at his agent at the same time, but the two agents cooperated seamlessly and began to "commercially blow each other."
makes people very helpless.
" can talk about " is very important in today's society.
, but is not as good as . When a person is left to speak, either his strength is flawed, or he will be considered unreliable.
"Although you are not people in the entertainment industry, you have to be careful when you encounter such kind of people in the workplace who are particularly good at talking and dedicated to . Their ability to do things is very poor ."
, Like action pie.
A hundred nice words are not as good as one useful one.
only rely on speech skills to help because it understands and does not do professionally, and the product is not good, so it relies on packaging to save the field.
is even obsessed with past achievements, and can no longer accept any negative comments.
can only be regarded as a kind of "exquisite greasy".
So, no matter how good it is, it is better to do a good job.
When you appear as a director, people do not expect you to make a good film, but only want to watch you fight.
itself, it is ugly to lose.
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