What should a perfect woman look like?
has a nice face? Have a good love? Have a promising career?
In the era when feminism prevails, Carina Lau reinterprets this.
——I don’t live for her, I am my own antidote.
Independent
"On the road of life, it is better to manage yourself than to rely on anyone. Learn to manage yourself, every age is the best age"
"No economy If you are independent, you lack self-esteem; if you don’t have independence in thinking, you lack autonomy; if you don’t have independence in personality, you lack self-confidence." Tony Leung. There is a report about Carina Lau in a talk show. When she bravely told her own experience, the article was named: "My antidote, Tony Leung". While observing Carina Lau’s life horizontally, it is inevitable to live a happy life, and the root cause of all this, I think, should be attributed to her.
Women at the moment, as Carina Lau said, overemphasize their age. If the reality is that women only have good years when they are 20-30 years old, that would be a big mistake. Carina Lau has spent half of her life, and the impression she left us is still graceful, confident, and feminine. In my opinion, these character traits coveted by many women should be derived from one of her characteristics-independence.
What does the independence of women mean? First, it is economic independence.
was born in Suzhou and grew up in Hong Kong. Carina Lau has survived the living environment of sleeping and sleeping, and has survived the cold-hearted treatment she received as a "mainland girl". Before achieving those admirable achievements, she, like us, was just an unknown person, an ordinary niche. But she keeps on learning and adds to her skills. This first brought her film career to a flourish. Carina Lau achieved economic independence, which made her never dependent on anyone because of money.
Someone asked Carina Lau "I heard that you are worth 800 million?" She replied: "More than 800 million? My whole person is priceless." There are always people who say that this world is unfair to women, whether it is life or career, women are always As the weakest link in the food chain. Therefore, people's hearts are deceived and deceived. In this era of the weak and the strong, women can only rely on their dependence on others to be independent.
But this is not the case. The independence of women comes from the self-love that she realizes. This kind of self-love is not only responsible for oneself, but also a yearning for life. Learn to manage yourself, learn to discover your own value, and learn to understand life.
Carina Lau experienced the ups and downs of life alone in the age when talented men and beautiful ladies were born in large numbers. She started acting in movies in 1986, and she was just a "runner" at the beginning. But she is obsessed with discovering her own value. She reads poems and books, is full of economics, and improves her clothes and cultivates temperament. This allowed her to get the precipitation of life, and also allowed her to shape a strong heart. Finally, with her aura and indifferent, it is convincing.
For Carina Lau, women must have a strong heart. We do not live for others, we are independent individuals. "We are all used to weighing others with our own outlook on life and morality, but each person is unique. Living environments are different, opportunities and circumstances are different, and the ways of living are of course different, and should not be the same." With the accumulation of life , She achieved independence in thinking:
such independence, after experiencing consideration, finally came to personality.
It is said that Tony Leung loves Maggie Cheung even more, saying that Carina Lau is less dignified than her. In my opinion, such a comparison is really meaningless. Why do we have to use Tony Leung to define her value? Why does Tony Leung have to be mentioned when she is mentioned?
We first attract others as independent individuals, and secondly, we are dependent on others after letting go of disguise. If Tony Leung is the antidote for Carina Lau, it is better to say that she is her antidote. She is independent and has her own value, which does not require anyone to be her foil; she has deep thinking and a different insight into life. Love is only an additive to her life, but not the master of her world. ; She can be gentle like water, but also firm and strong, she loves herself enough, this is her personality independence.
Persist and don’t give up
"I will not give up, I will win tomorrow"
——Carina Lau
wants to talk about Carina Lau's most eye-catching traits, and she has to mention the "stubbornness" in her bones.
In 1980, she came to Hong Kong with her parents to make a living. When she came to the modern city for the first time, her communication was not smooth due to the closed language environment of the mainland. In addition to her simple temperament and plain clothes, she was called "Mainland Girl" when she first arrived. ". After that, she practiced Cantonese painstakingly, and finally entered the wireless artist training class.
was a gymnast who had excellent talents and skills, but she was still not satisfied. While honing her acting a little bit, she finally showed her strength to the public in the 25th year of filming through reading books and newspapers and practicing language hard—" Di Renjie: The Empire of Heaven", and won the Hong Kong Film Awards for Best Actress.
Under the circumstances of a smooth career, no one would have expected that Hong Kong movies will one day lose their glory and go from bad to worse. And she, who stood out among many Hong Kong-style beauties, has come to today with perseverance and persistence. She is mature, graceful, and radiant with the years.
Her perseverance is also reflected in her lifestyle. She loves mountaineering and sports, and the persistence in maintaining her body also reflects the "stubbornness" in her bones. After this, she embarked on a fashion journey again in her 50s. After overcoming many difficulties and frustrations, she brought Anirac.
is brave and open-minded
"The greater the test and the greater the suffering, the more helpful it is to your life. Only by accepting some of the unfairness and setbacks in your life can you truly know the meaning of life and walk more strutting. ."-Carina Lau
In an interview on the show, Carina Lau talked about her previous experience of being kidnapped.
In April 1990, Carina Lau was kidnapped and the humiliated photos circulated wildly on the Internet. The pictures were unsightly, and the city was full of storms. know. Such an experience is a fatal stimulus for any woman. This is a great shame and a trampling on personality and self-esteem.
After a few years, the kidnapping case is still vivid, but she said it frankly in the media. What's even more shocking is that she said that she had forgiven all of this, "Because of that incident, I grew up, and then my whole person suddenly became clear." In her opinion, the frustration of
has become a consideration for her in life. As a public figure, she readily faced such difficulties. She bravely confessed and spoke bravely. This also makes her a spokesperson for contemporary female images.
No one can stop me from moving forward, no one can make me stop loving myself.
