may be because the old carts and horses are too slow, so the correspondence takes too much time, so that lovers only have time to love someone with their hearts in their lives, but now the convenient communication makes the world smaller and smaller, people The distance between them has shortened and life has become so long. This may be one of the reasons why we have time to love a few people in our lives. The popularity of the telephone makes us disdain to write letters. Maybe now we have to use voice to complete a message, let alone writing, maybe even a lot of words have to become known to me but I don't recognize it.
In the old days, people could judge a person’s mood and physical condition through the handwriting and wording of the writer. "Seeing the word as the face" would also be the beginning often used. Perhaps it is all nonsense in our opinion. Talking about it, because we have long given up on observing others through some details, but ask the other person to directly say what they are thinking about. In name, we like this kind of heartlessness, but in fact, we just don’t bother to guess. The mind of others. Although Chinese characters can vividly express the state of mind at the time, there are indeed some emotions that can only be understood and cannot be explained. Jiao Jiao in the
movie had an unhappy childhood. When other children were still enjoying carefree at that age, she had already started walking around the casino. Childhood habits have been deeply ingrained. Gambling seems to be the whole thing in Jiao Jiao's life. Losing is because of bad luck, and you can come back. If you win, luck comes. Naturally, you have to take advantage of the victory. If it hadn't been for that letter, she wouldn't know that she had another side. Each of us has many aspects, but which kind of performance has the upper hand, maybe this aspect is not what you like, but this aspect may be the one that allows you to mix in the environment the most. . If it is not a change in the environment or a sudden external factor, we may continue to live with this side of ourselves, without the opportunity to meet a better self, nor the opportunity to meet those outside our social circle.
Luo Daniu, as a good real estate agent, has a deep attachment to Chinese poetry even though he is abroad. In order to achieve his goal at work, he took advantage of this to get close to an old couple. Maybe we are all doing this in order to achieve some of our own goals, and we are still able to justify ourselves. Who does not want to get more? We have such conditions, and we should make good use of it, even if it is our own ministry. If you do this, in the end, someone else will do it. Instead of letting others do it, you might as well do it yourself.
Not every couple can maintain a marriage for decades. Now the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. It is not that two people do not love each other when they get married, but that they gradually lose patience in the temper of the marriage. Because we feel that we still have time to love other people, why bother to reform a person who doesn't accommodate ourselves. No one is born to be completely suitable for another person. They all need to be in harmony with each other, but we who are accustomed to fast food advocate the doctrine of use. Whether there is fate in this world is still inconclusive, so I still hope to have a suitable person in a limited time.
Now we pay more attention to intuitive feelings, and more attention to appearances. Few people are too extravagant to find a soul mate in their relationships. Because we can't even see what our heart looks like, how can we ask others to see ourselves clearly. In this face-to-face world, if you are not attractive enough, no one wants to understand how noble your soul is.
is lucky or a mistake. In short, Jiaoye and Luo Daniu are people on different life trajectories because of their beliefs. They can share their feelings with people who have never met before, because You don't need to see the other party's response to adjust your words, suppress your emotions, and express your thoughts more completely. The text flowing out of the pen tip is more memorable than what you see on the screen. In fact, what you can see in the letter lies in the mind of the reader. If you have to be confused, you will always realize some truths that are different from others in the words that may be unclear.
