Wang Han's spoiling wife and his wife collapsed? Behind Yang Lele's tears is the sorrow of all women

Many women are so touched when they see this! In the role of mother, she firmly connects herself with her children, and she always puts her children first when encountering things.

Although other people also bear the corresponding responsibilities, they are not like mothers and never leave their duties within 24 hours.

There is another moment of tears when I talked to my husband Wang Han.

She said that Wang Han had complained:

"You are a good mother, but you may not be a good wife."

Yang Lele's eyes were red: "I did not do well enough, thank him for his tolerance."

paused for a long time, and she added:

Now in Yang Lele's heart, there is also a ranking, that is, the child is first, and the husband can only be ranked behind the child.

So she felt guilty and couldn't help apologizing, hoping to get Wang Han's forgiveness.

But let’s think about it, is Yang Lele really not doing well enough?

After giving birth at the age of 36, Yang Lele returned only two months after giving birth because she wanted to take care of the child while also taking care of her work.

can be busy at work, Yang Lele goes on business trips, and often needs to breastfeed her children in the car on the way.

netizens left a message:

clearly feel wronged, but also thank her husband for her tolerance;

It is too difficult for a woman to take care of her children and her husband.

Working moms are bearing the double pressure of

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said the highest praise:

I hope he will be a "full-time husband", I will go to work to support the family.

Full-time mothers are simply omnipotent supermen, and their time schedule is full, and the dad who works outside can not only have his own time, but he can also relax when he comes home. Compared with

, ​​the efforts of mothers can be seen.

Similarly, the recently hit drama "I Really Love You" has aroused heated discussions among netizens.

, ​​especially the role of Chen Jiaorui, is a complete interpretation of how difficult it is for mothers to return to the workplace.

has not only lost his position in the workplace, but has also been constantly suppressed by competitors. Work doesn't go well, and I can't relax back home, because there are still young babies.

feeds and sleeps every day, takes care of the child's head, and many things add up to aggravate postpartum depression;

is in the mother-in-law’s eyes, but blames her for being selfish and not loving the child in the morning, so she always gets angry at her, even in confinement. I urged her to raise her body and have a grandson as soon as possible;

and her husband, she fell asleep every day when she came back from work, and complained that she knew how to cry every day and didn’t want to go home deliberately working overtime...

z5 kinds of oppressive families and workplaces. , So that she gradually lost her original self-confidence and sharpness, and became compromised everywhere.

But even so, working mothers still work hard, because they are afraid of being abandoned by the workplace, afraid of being rejected by their husbands, and afraid that their children need more money to grow up.

Papi sauce once said in "The Heartwarming Offer" that a friend of her bank manager had been pregnant for more than seven months and was flying around the world. In order not to be replaced by the company,

promises that every message will be returned as long as it is awake just before production.

and these are things that husbands don’t have to face. Their work situation and rhythm don’t need to change drastically because of fertility problems.

In this era, the demands on women are very high

A survey report in May this year shows:

are almost 70% of their parents who bring their own babies during the day; Income, which can account for half of family income, becomes an indispensable and important part.

Choosing to return to the workplace after childbirth and bear double the hardship is for mothers to support their families and survive.

Some people may say that not all working mothers are to earn a salary, but which mother does not have their own difficulties and sadness?

Do you still remember the movie " found you " starring Yao Chen , Ma Yili ? Just tell us about the difficulties faced by mothers of three different classes. Although

is a movie, every shot of it directly pokes reality.

Ma Yili plays a rural woman named Sun Fang, who has suffered from her husband’s domestic violence for a long time and is eager to improve her family's situation after having children;

but the house leaks in the evening rain, the child has liver problems after the birth, and family difficulties. Let her whole life fall to the bottom again.

She has no money, but she cannot watch her child die.

Her husband left her behind, and the child was waiting for money to help her life in the hospital. She couldn't leave it alone. She was willing to do anything for the money.

But in the end the child died of illness. In the majestic rain, a mother hugged the child who died and knelt down on the street, crying, full of despair.

The second mother is Zhu Min. She gave up her career for the family and raised children at home. When she thought she had a happy marriage, her husband had sex outside, and the divorce even wanted her to cleanse her body. When you go out, you will not even be given custody rights.

and the protagonist Yao Chen, the lawyer Li Jie, seems to be an excellent woman who meets the requirements of modern society. Both career and family are both enviable!

But this is such an all-around mother, her child was abducted by the nanny. The huge blow made her instantly become hysterical and desperate from the glamorous self-confidence that a Kochi woman has.

Until the end of the film, she begged for mercy from this babysitter, who had a lower social status than herself, and all her self-esteem at this moment turned into a desperate motherly love.

Many people think movies are cruel, but reality is reality, and it’s more heartbreaking than the movie.

At the end of the movie, Yao Chen said something:

"In this era, women are very demanding. If you choose to become a working woman, someone will say that you are a bad mother regardless of your family. Zz

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Some people will think that childbirth is a woman's duty, not a profession."

looks like this, it seems that mothers do nothing right, no matter how they do it, they can’t get a result that satisfies everyone. .

When a woman becomes a mother, if she does not have her own job, once she meets a scumbag, she will not be able to give herself and her children the life they want. Others will scold you for your incompetence, and you will feel guilty for it;

and if you want to be independent Choosing to be a woman in the new era requires working hard, but the society may say that you are a woman who does not consider your family, and you cannot give your children enough company. Maybe in the end, even your children cannot understand you.

Women in this society are really too difficult!

Now, let’s go back to what Yang Lele said at the beginning: "I hope he (husband Wang Han) can understand me." This is not the voice of all the mothers in the world.

The female is weak, but the mother is strong.

Every mother, who is brave for life, still works hard even in difficult situations.

For this reason, I hope the society and family members can give them more understanding and tolerance, and less blame.