grows up, he understands: How heavy is the "good for you" that parents say?
"Dog Thirteen": Adolescent girl Li Wan's family conflicts through the loss of a dog reflects the relationship between education problems and youth rebellion, and vividly interprets the traces of growth through the psychological changes of the characters.
is a common little thing, but it is the youth of most people!
This film directed by Cao Baoping and starring Zhang Xueying was shot as early as 2013. The film was so real that it was sealed for 5 years and will finally be officially released on December 7, 2018.
In 2014, the film was nominated for the 64th Berlin International Film Festival-Crystal Bear Award-Youth Film-Best Picture.
After the show was released, countless people cried. How many people’s parents’ saying "for your good" became the saddest childhood?
Rebellious adolescence, Li Wan, who has grown up from a single-parent family when his parents are divorced, expresses the lack of education in his native family vividly.
The depressed youth, the youth that is nowhere to be released, the hottest heart of the teenager, are all doused by the strong father with a scoop of cold water.
Li Wan, adolescent, is worrying about reporting to the Physics Interest Group? Or should it be reported to the Astronomy Interest Group? After finally making a decision, Dad, on the advice of the teacher, gave Li Wan a report on the English group she hated.
Li Wan was very angry. She felt that her father didn't respect herself. He gave her money to coax her, but she pushed him away. Father always sighed and said: "I will know when you grow up, it's all for your good!"
In this way, the relationship between father and son has dropped to a freezing point, and if there is a difference of opinion, it will be tense.
To ease the relationship, my father bought a dog for Li Wan. At first she didn't like the dog, but gradually she realized that the dog was as pitiful as hers.
So the dog became her playmate and confidant.
Until the stepmother's younger brother was bitten because of beating the dog, the stepmother angrily urged the dog to be given away. Even though Li Wan was very reluctant, in order to take care of the family harmony, his father had to reluctantly give up his love and send the dog away.
After Li Wan learned that his dog had been sent away, he roared hysterically and ran out to look for the dog. Grandparents worried that she would also follow. She accidentally pushed down the grandfather who stopped her looking for the dog.
Li Wan was very sad after the dog was lost, but his family felt that it was no big deal!
The way adults solve problems is always compensated by other means, such as: giving money, such as: buying a dog.
Later, my father thought he was too naive, and pushed Grandpa down for a dog? Her father beat her violently, she hid in the bathroom in horror, and when she came out again, she saw her father hiding in fright. After
was beaten, Li Wan realized that no matter whether he knew something or not, he would not be making trouble, because he would be beaten.
One day, a bat flew in the classroom, and the teacher killed it and threw it out. This made her realize that if she doesn't fit in with the surrounding environment, there is only a dead end.
So, she began to constrict her character.
At a party, his father’s colleague picked up a piece of dog meat for Li to play. Dad looked at the embarrassing scene and thought she would make trouble again. But this time, Li Wan seemed to have learned to forgive. She put the dog meat in her mouth and ate it, and her father felt pain in her heart.
This is the first time Li Wan has grown up. She has learned to hide herself completely from adults and become a sensible child in the eyes of adults.
"There will be more things like this in the future"! A word of exclamation makes countless people feel the same: Isn't this the youth of most of us?
Seeing that his daughter is "sensible", his father held his daughter's hand in the car and shed tears: "Your father, not a good dad!"
Perhaps, most people's youth experience is: after a meal, they will become sensible.
However, behind the fight, what hides is the rebellion and anxiety of adolescence.
According to reality, how many people teach their children instead of "hit" to solve the problem? The pain of the original family of
is like a thorn in the heart, so much so that after many years of thinking, it will still be painful.
The play "Dog Thirteen", through the story of a girl who loves and finds a dog, fully expresses the shortcomings of the original family education. Perhaps this is also the imperfect youth of most people, but we have all learned to adapt to the environment, because we are out of place, we will be beaten...
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Author: Hou Mingxuan’s Growth Diary
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Today’s topic: The story is short and the meaning is profound. I hope that every child who is injured in the original family can not think about the past and fear the future.
hope that every parent can experience the harm caused by the disadvantages of family education in this film, and don't let love become a pity!
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