First of all, I really like to focus on small people like this, but in the end I didn't have a movie that everyone liked, and the reality was weak. The tragedy of pine nuts stems from childhood misfortunes, and the hearts of those who were unhappy in childhood really only need even a little care and love for them to fill the vacancy and heal the pain. They will desperately pursue the immediate ambivalence in their own way. After all, even the immediate ambivalence is better than the desolation of the past, and even if they are wounded with scars, they still believe that everything will be better.
Songzi’s father did not love pine nuts at all, but his love for pine nuts was too weak. If Songzi believed that her father loved her, then her fate would be very miserable, because her father really did not love her that much. Songzi is missing, life or death is uncertain, her father only missed Songzi at this time, and Jume’s little emotions would be missed by his father. In other words, it is Songzi's emotions. Her father would not care about Songzi's future. Only Songzi's life and death her father began to care (of course, strangers would not even care about life and death). Although her father did not dislike pine nuts at all, in fact, he did not like pine nuts at all.
does not mean that pine nuts' family loves pine nuts like other girls' families. Songzi does not need the love of many people, she just needs an intimate relationship that loves her very much. Love cannot accumulate a lot of quantity to qualitatively change. If her father loves her, he will not just record a sentence at the end of the diary, and for more than ten years She doesn't care about her life outside. Both the pleasing and giving personality are living behind a self who is trying to suppress themselves. Because I don't love myself, I project the desire to be loved on the person who gives and give. Every time I fail, my giving will be strengthened and transformed into resentment and despair. Everyone has such a shadow more or less. For Songzi, the end of life may be a relief.
In the relationship, although Songzi has never met the right person, every time the love affair ends, he will be angry or disappointed or wronged and ask the other party "why". But the pine nuts immersed in love are always singing happily, so beautiful and pure. Even the policeman who came to catch him said it was not like the singing of a murderer. This is because Songzi lives in love, and only love can nourish her and let her feel the meaning and beauty of life. This is her lifelong pursuit. The movie
is like a hurdle in my heart. If I really lack love, then I will try my best to make myself love everything I want to love rationally and calmly, because it's too easy to be presumptuous, but true Love requires awareness and restraint. Secondly, I feel that her love is in the wrong direction. Her kind of never-ending, surging love, regardless of return, should not be used for individuals, to love the world, literature, science, a certain industry, or a certain category. People, she will all become angels, but it is a pity that just put these on the individual, no one can bear it, tragedy is already doomed. The protagonist Matsuko in
is left out by her father, severed from relationship, abandoned by all the partners who have lived together for many years, deceived, and questioned. Matsuko seems to be rejected by the world, but she longs for warmth and love, so even if she is beaten and hurt by her partner , She still refused to leave, because "it is better to be beaten than to be alone." She must be afraid of being alone. I think Songzi is very warm, innocent, and persistent, making people happy and sincere.
