First of all, this movie does not actually give the audience a set of values. The movie just presents three story lines, three different classes of mothers with different perspectives. What the film wants to express is only "women of different classes have different three views, but the essence of maternal love in any social class is the same", "Mom loves you, and mom must give you the best." Zhu Min, Li Jie, Sun Fang, three women in completely different situations, they have different attitudes towards raising children and treating families, and they didn't understand each other.
For example, when Li Jie chased Zhu Min out to question her, "You are also a mother, how do you say it", Li Jie's answer was stylized and indifferent. What the film wants to express, I think, is just a scene for the audience to think about. I just hope that people of all classes and people of different perspectives will understand each other and have a certain degree of empathy. So for this society, for different people (the film mainly expresses the mothers in the society), I hope that everyone, like the senior intellectual Li Jie, can quickly understand the diversity of the world and be more sensitive to other people. Maintain a certain understanding of the Three Views, instead of ignoring, contemptuous or even contemptuous when encountering a different angle from your own approach.
Sun Fang is a rural woman. Her three views are that women should wholeheartedly revolve around their children. Li Jie did not do this. So Sun Fang thinks that Li Jie is not worthy to be a mother of a child. It's reasonable for Li Jie to admit his mistake. Her child is still in Sun Fang's hands. It is normal to comfort Sun Fang to ensure that her child will not be harmed by Sun Fang. Later, Li Jie admitted that she might not be a good mother because of her perception after going through the whole process. She thought that what she did was right. Later, when the child disappeared, she realized that she cared too little for her child. She felt that she didn’t. Being competent is thinking about yourself.
In the end, Li Jie's reversal really discredited the profession of lawyers. The film can express opinions in another way, and the effect may be better. Also, from the beginning to the end, the film did not admit that "because I am a mother, I can..." "Because I am miserable, so I can be forgiven..." and other viewpoints, Sun Fang should only abduct her children. I think I am not wrong, because in the eyes of Sun Fang, Li Jie is incompetent and Li Jie can't take care of his children.
And she can replace her dead child with Li Jie's child, she can start a new life again, she knows all this is illegal, but does a person in hell care? Sun Fang's revenge and accusation were just venting, venting her own grievances, and Li Jie had nothing to apologize to her from beginning to end. And the last one who defended Zhou Min. I think I didn't think about it at all. Can a mother who has mental problems and been unemployed for many years can bring her children a good education and life?
In addition, the author arranges countless coincidences to balance Sun Fang's lack of morality and strengthen the rationality of extreme events. However, a few clips in the film do make people feel empathetic. Sometimes I really want to make the maternal love in reality complicated and full of logic, but reality often shows crazy and incredible power, just like a mother fighting for custody, you can hardly say her Love for children will make her crazy like Sun Fang, and if this kind of craziness is positive, she may become a strong and financially capable woman like Li Jie.
