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Yesterday was the tenth anniversary of selina's burn. As usual, Ren's father sent her a long message. In the message, Ren's father and recalled all the pain and forbearance of the year. Hidden deeply in his words. More importantly, in his heart, he still gratefully expressed his gratitude to everyone who had helped him, and God. How serious was the burn of
Selina? Forty-five percent of the burns on his whole body, Dad Ren described as “the picture is really horrible.” In front of the ward, he was given several critical illness notices. As the pillar of the family, he had to be strong and gave her in front of his daughter. Cheer up, share with her the story of Dr. Huang Meilian with cerebral palsy, and her philosophy of life: "Don't dare to ask God to give me a smooth life, I hope God will give me the perseverance to face life."
Selina once heard this sentence. She cried bitterly. She was crying not because of moving, nor because of hope, nor because of optimism. When she and Dad Ren cried, it was actually a deep despair at that time.
In the future, how much perseverance will it take to go strong?
If you are not burned, you don't understand the kind of despair, just like I am writing here at the moment, and I can't empathize. All she knows is that after leaving the hospital bed where she had stayed for three months, Selina faced more painful and long rehabilitation. Repeatedly face the same actions every day, but did not see the results that I hoped for. It's been ten years since
, Selina came over, although she was full of scars, although she experienced psychological reconstruction, rehabilitation, marriage, divorce and other life courses, but now she is like Ren Dad once said: "running, Swimming, climbing, and bathing, 萱萱 you have done it." If
said that the previous ten years were the highlight moments of her career, I believe that the next ten years will really achieve the real selina.
is just about this, I will never black out Selina for life. Ten years later, I have also become an adult, and I understand the true gentleness of Selina. Her gentleness is powerful. I used to think she was weak, but in fact, a person with real power can be like her. tender. The message of
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touched many people. Under the comments, most of them are very inspirational and encouraging people. There are also many people who have been burned or are experiencing burn pain like Selina. Because of Selina, they have more power.
But there is a comment below, which makes people confused: " Yu Haoming is rarely mentioned in public, admiring it."
This is not the first time someone commented on Selina in such a strange tone. After reading this sentence In other words, I am really surprised at the coexistence of this world, and there are people with such narrow thinking. I really can't understand why such words can attack a person who has experienced such suffering.
After Selina burned, in fact, for several years, many people in the outside world did not know the severity of her. People thought that she was just a normal burn, because you see that she can still post on Weibo, and sometimes she is optimistic to share her. life.
I used to think that, when I saw her appearing in front of the public to give a speech after she recovered, I also thought that her injury was not high.
But later, people learned that it was 54% of the whole body burns. What extent is this? I have been notified of the critical illness several times. Even if she was discharged from the hospital later, you can see the injury on her leg. Many people looked at her leg and thought she was wearing stockings.
has a comment from a netizen, and said what I think:
is a strange human being. You have to nakedly see other people’s pain to understand. In fact, previous reports have already said that she was burned to the extent that she was lying down as a star. It took a long time to know that it was very serious, and after coming back, the chin was obviously very unnatural, and the makeup was also very heavy, all of which can be inferred how severe she was.
But there are still people who simply and rudely say that she loves to cry and sympathize. She has to wait for her to be completely naked, short-sleeved shorts without cover, divorce, and to show it in the most unmodified, fragile and ugly appearance, and then give some understanding. Say oh, she was wrong.
Yes, human beings are really weird, do we have to see each other's most embarrassed appearance in order to give her tolerance and love?
Susan Sontag once said in "About the Pain of Others":
"Because the signer in front of the pain is "others" and not "mine" or "ours", so there is a past The state of time, a kind of news of death, a sense of distance, a convenience to watch, a kind of non-cutting pain, a kind of spectacle, a kind of self-protection, a kind of watching fire from the shore, gloating over misfortune, a kind of excessive and insatiable."
After all, it’s not our own, so of course we don’t expect everyone to pray for the pain of others, but hope not to deepen the pain of others. The sharing of
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Selina has inspired many burned people. Selina's strength is seen by everyone. The comparison between before and after the burn, the appearance of the princess has changed, and her soul has also become taller.
She went to run a marathon, and the photos taken by the media were moving. Those "ugly" scars are now the most important part of her body.
She re-entered the stage to sing, lost something and gained something again.
After the burn, she still loves to laugh. The magical voice in variety shows can infect others more than before. Such selina, I never had the heart to criticize her.
does not say that she did not exaggerate her pain, on the contrary, she has endured a lot of pain and did not say all of it, just say, even if she is really what people call "to gain sympathy and consume the public", but if this is her One of the windows and ways to vent my inner distress, I am also willing to tolerate her, and I am willing to give her such a window to let her vent her sadness.
In recent years, I have become more and more in love with people who can share their true self with you. They never conceal their happiness or pain, but they never share it because of showing off or gaining sympathy, neither, they just love to share, and then through the path they have traveled, to inspire someone with the same experience people.
You never know how many people who are on the verge of collapse can be helped by a certain time of sharing and a certain motivation.
Those who ridicule and ridicule under the selina incident are afraid that life is mostly depressed. Only depressed people are unwilling to bless others and unwilling to tolerate others.
Those who can truly perceive happiness in life are mostly those who can respect life. They know well that happiness is not a coincidence or easy. When facing the suffering of others, they are more able to fear life.
Only such a person can have a broad heart.
And among those who turn a blind eye to the pain of others and ignore the cynicism, I saw the most ridiculous and cruel side of human nature.
was born as a human being, I wish you kindness.
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