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In the latest hit variety show "The Happiness Trio", Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang have many fans. Especially Xu Fuxiang's performance on the screen, almost every married woman dreams of her husband. Before the show was broadcast on
, netizens were wondering why Chen Yihan married Xu Fuxiang, who was old and ugly. Even Ruby Lin teased that Xu Fuxiang was not good enough for Chen Yihan. She said in the show: ", I don’t think Xu Fuxiang will catch up. Such a upright female star." After the show was broadcast on
, the style of painting suddenly changed.
Some people say that Chen Yihan saved the galaxy in his previous life; some people say that Xu Fuxiang is the treasured husband; others say that I don’t want Jiang Zhishu, just give me Xu Fuxiang.
Chen Yihan also said in the program: I am honored to marry him. Every time I wake up in the middle of the night, I just have to think: Oh my God, I can marry Xu Fuxiang, it is the happiest thing in my life.
Everyone is envious of Chen Yihan's finding a husband who loves and tolerates him infinitely and makes him a daughter.
Actually, Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang's mode of getting along is to show the importance of ritual in married life.
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In the first episode of the show, when they opened their luggage and packed the new home prepared for them by the show group, from the surprise degree Chen Yihan opened the box to see the shower head and soap, Xu Fuxiang packed the luggage. From rice cookers to soap, they all brought them from home.
Chen Yihan explained: is because both people like the sense of life, so no matter it is taste, things, bed sheets, lotus, everything I have to look like I am used to, I will feel very comfortable.
They want to paste full group photos on the refrigerator, wear nice bibs before meals, and decorate the table with placemats of the same color. Before the meal, there will be a "blinking spoon" ceremony like a toast, and after the meal, it will say "Thank you for the reception".
said in "The Little Prince" that the sense of ritual is to make one day different from other days and make a certain moment different from other moments. The sense of ritual of
is to use these habitual shower heads and the familiar soap taste.
People who love life can live every little thing in life with a sense of ritual, this is the highest standard of ritual.
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In the second episode, Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang rode bicycles to visit two other groups of guests. Before ringing the doorbell, Xu Fuxiang would first think about the process, what to say, and tidy up his appearance.
You should wear a bow tie when listening to Lang Lang's performance, and even walked to the hall and exited when Lang Lang's house was not open because he felt impolite.
Once, Lang Lang and Gina gave an electronic piano to Chen Yihan’s house as a guest. The couple assembled the electronic piano together. Lang Lang also performed a section along the way, playing like a child to Xu Fuxiang, and even planned to uncover the apron to listen to Lang Lang’s play .
Some people say that Xu Fuxiang is a principled person, and he is very polite in front of dogma.
Actually, it is these rules and regulations that fill the monotony and repetition of life and make life more beautiful and fulfilling. These rules and regulations are the sense of ritual of life. The more
pays attention to these framed rituals, the more passionate life is.
-04- is not only Xu Fuxiang who pays attention to the sense of ceremony, but also Chen Yihan.
Chen Yihan, who loves sports, takes at least 88 kilometers every day to participate in marathons and stand upside down all over the world.
Persistence itself is full of a sense of ritual, which is often important in Chen Yihan's life.
Before she arrived at the age of 30, she had a birthday full of ritual. Do 5 things to challenge myself: braids, tattoos, nude swimming, jumping into the sea, kissing strangers.
Chen Yihan chose to marry Xu Fuxiang, not just because of Director XuThe tolerance and love for her, as well as the consistent attitude towards life, made them finally come together.
They are all people who love life and have a sense of ceremony.
The sense of ritual is not the formal things like flowers and candles, but the heart behind everything, and heart is the core key to the sense of ritual.
Care for life, care for each other, and live life full of ritual is the standard for a happy marriage.
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