"Beauty rolls up the bead curtain, sitting deep with frowning eyebrows. But seeing the tears wet, I don't know who I hate."
When I saw this poem, the figure of a woman gradually emerged in my mind. She was independent and talented. She was willing to give her whole world to the one who once "held her hand and met for the end" the man.
She is the wife of Alan Tan Yang Jiewei (English name Sally), the woman who insists on first reading.
The beginning of sweet love
Yang Jiewei , English name Sally, the wife of "Hong Kong music talent" Alan Tam, has worked as a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company, has his own unique aesthetic vision, and later, in order to improve himself, he devoted himself to "support" His beloved, then learned dance design, choreography, lighting scheduling, and became a professional art planner for a full set of performances.
She and her husband met at Wei Mo. At that time, he was not a well-known "Principal Tan" in the music world, and she was just a beauty consultant for an ordinary cosmetic company.
Yang Jiewei has a gentle temperament, and she is beautiful and beautiful, which naturally attracted the attention of Alan Tan. In this way, the beauty and the gifted know each other and love each other, so they fall in love and are out of control.
became the woman behind a successful man
for her lover, she resolutely resigned from the job that was pretty good at that time, and only took care of Alan Tan, and became the woman behind him. As the lover’s career gradually emerged, she resolutely resigned. She chose to enter dance design, stage choreography, lighting scheduling, and turned into a full set of expert art planners with her diligence and intelligence.
Her gaze follows the man standing in the spotlight and attracts the attention of all people. In order for Alan Tam to appear in front of the public in the best image, how many days and nights have been sitting in front of the computer screen, thirsty for a drink The boiled water on the table was already cold, and when she was hungry, she picked up half a bag of biscuits and stuffed it into her mouth. During this time, she never left the cold screen. She organized all the concerts and records of her lover. Image design for advertisements and movies.
all said that "good wives and husbands have less misfortunes." Although they are not true couples at this time, in Yang Jiewei's heart, Alan Tam is already regarded as her husband. Therefore, Alan Tam has invested in various industries and contributed to society. Charity donations are all handled by Yang Jiewei. It can be described as a perfect combination of "lover + manager", which also relieves Alan Tam's worries about developing his own business.
Which woman does not want to have sweet love, a dedicated lover? Which woman does not want to marry her favorite person in her best years holding flowers and wearing white gauze?
Yes, after a long wait year after year, finally in 1981, Alan Tan and Jiewei Yang secretly registered their marriage in Las Vegas, and then began their hidden marriage career.
husband Alan Tam made it clear that he wanted DINK for his career, so Yang Jiewei gave up the right to be a mother, had repeated abortions, and injured her body by miscarriage, eventually hurting her fundamentals and becoming barren.
In 1993, when Yang Jiewei lost her father, many media in Hong Kong appeared in the newspapers of the four characters "Alan Tam". Yang Jiewei stepped up for the first time and took the responsibility to protect her husband. During this period, Alan Tam did not show Any gesture of taking responsibility did not begin to face the incident squarely in the media until Yang Jiewei's family angered him.
One wave of unsettled waves, the turning point of fate
However, fate did not favor this beautiful and infatuated woman.
"The sunset sees the dusk in the screen window". In 1995, two years after the death of Yang Jiewei's father, her husband, the man who kept talking about DINK, had a son with the young and beautiful lover outside. She seemed to hear the sound of tearing her heart.
Alan Tam, in order to keep her "tethered" by her side, firstWith his billion family property representatives, I sincerely hope that his wife will forgive me, and then move out my elderly parents. The filial and kind-hearted Yang Jiewei naturally cannot withstand this wave of offensives, but chooses to forgive and accepts the existence of mother and child .
is just a knot in the heart, which seems to have become a gap between them that can never be crossed, Yang Jiewei used all her strength to carefully maintain the marriage that began to fragment.
After finishing work, Alan Tam seems to forget that there is still a "wife of chaff" in the family who is looking forward to the return of Jun. He went straight to his lover to linger with his lover, and to tease his beloved son. In other words, it is really beautiful.
and even the father and mother Tan, who once praised Yang Jiewei, slowly turned their hearts towards Zhu Yongting's mother and son, and Yang Jiewei, who was the original partner, was more like a stranger besides this big son.
Finally, after Alan Tam’s father died of illness, he couldn’t wait to give the mother and son the status of entering the house. What's more, Alan Tam threatened to have no feelings with Yang Jiewei in front of media reporters. What kind of pain and sourness was in Yang Jiewei's heart upon hearing these words?
The man who once told her sweetly that he loved her, but in the end told everyone that he didn't love her, and that he loved a lover who was twenty years younger than him. What kind of irony is this?
In the 2007 winter solstice, Alan Tam brought his "favorite" Zhu Yongting mother and son, and her 90-year-old mother to the Causeway Bay to have a meal. Three generations were in the same room, having fun, and never stopped laughing.
"Flowers flow from the sky." The home that made Yang Jiewei happy has long since become an empty shell, and she is the only one who walks alone in the huge world.
Finally, in the following year, she discovered that the man who used all the property to ask her for forgiveness had secretly transferred one billion property to his son's name. Her persistence for so many years seemed to be meaningless all of a sudden. Smiled, smiled tenderly, smiled bitterly, she didn't make a big noise, only the frustration after the passage of time.
She broke her hair with tears and escaped into the empty door. From then on, the Buddha robe was added to her body, and she ignored the world.
"Some people are alive, he is dead; some people are dead, he is still alive". Perhaps the humble and tough woman who used to be loved is dead, but now only the nuns who have enlightened human affairs and are completely washed out are alive.
Maybe she is no longer young now, and years have left traces on her beautiful face, but the gentleness of her low eyebrows and light smile, the clear and bright eyes, and the dignified and elegant expression deeply penetrated her. In the bones of her, timelessness is new, the breeze blows, and the distant and quiet Buddhist music sounded, she is still the most beautiful orchid that flourishes in the world.
Not all women who accompany their husbands to "take down" the country will have the right to "sit on" the country, but in a great river and mountains, they are still their own "queen", graceful, and not lost due to trivial matters.
I don't know if Alan Tam could still dream of a person, with crooked eyebrows and a faint smile, holding a bowl of hot noodles, and whispering "You are back" softly.
But in any case, Yang Jiewei finally buries the loess for her marriage with her own hands, frees herself from transcendence, and becomes who she once was.
Although the world is weak, I hope that all women like Yang Jiewei can seek the truth, in the chaotic world, find a clean world, live up to the Tathagata and live up to the Qing.
