I have seen a lot of movies about the true love of father and son, such as Hollywood classics "The Perfect World", "When Happiness Comes Knock on the Door", "I Am Sam", "Big Fish" and so on. The aftertaste is still fresh in my memory.
"Bad Dad" is also a film that records the true love of father and son. Compared with Hollywood movies of the same type, the Chinese family affection in "Bad Dad" is more grounded and more life-like. Especially between father Xiao Dahai and son Xiao Hanyi's "love and killing, love and hate" parent-child violence, family love and warm current, even more people cry. After all, I have also experienced that time, that time. To tell the truth, to me, who has lost my parents, I am very envious of Xiao Hanyi in the film, at least he has the love of my father. Even if it is a scolding, it is because Dahai Dahai, father, has a wish of "becoming a dragon" that is like a mountain and father's love, and a feeling of "hate iron is not steel".
"Bad Dad" takes the complicated parent-child relationship between father Xiao Dahai and son Xiao Hanyi as the main line, telling the touching story of how a father and son returned to family from their enemies, and how the iceberg of father and son melted into a warm winter current. Xiao Hanyi wants to become a professional racer. This dream obviously has a huge conflict with the life plan designed for him by his father Xiao Dahai, and the contradiction between father and son is thus manifested. Because of his love for racing, Xiao Hanyi was naturally obsessed with online games, and was sent to the internet addiction school by his father Xiao Dahai. Adolescence's rebelliousness, unrestrained spirit, and super stubborn temperament made Xiao Hanyi tortured, beaten repeatedly and even disabled in the Internet addiction school. And this greatly deepens the emotional gap between father and son, and parent-child conflict. The father and son were extremely jealous when they met, so they almost drew their swords. How to resolve the seemingly inexcusable barriers and irreconcilable contradictions, Xiao Dahai has made unremitting efforts.
"Bad Dad" is a restoration and finishing of Chinese family affection. In the movie, the father Xiao Dahai is always tough and powerful. His son must obey Lao Tzu's thoughts and run through it all the time. Until his son resists adversity again and again, Xiao Dahai realizes his own mistakes. Xiao Hanyi is not bad in nature, and even said that he has a sense of justice and is a good man who is very persistent in his dreams. Speaking of loyalty to his friends, super doting on his girlfriend, and serious about his work, he is cold and angry with his own father.
When such a man-made father and such a man-made son meet in a scene, a parent-child war will naturally occur in the scene. The family relationship between father and son that should have been harmonious and warm will naturally become like an iceberg and glacier, with the chill and the cold light.
Obviously, this is not only the plot in the movie, but also the true portrayal of real life. It is the original and epitome of Chinese family affection and domestic violence in China. After careful analysis, whether it is Xiao Dahai or Xiao Hanyi, as far as the starting point is concerned, neither of them is wrong. Is it wrong for Xiao Dahai to hope that the child will get better and better? of course not! Does Xiao Hanyi have problems pursuing her dream? There is nothing wrong. To be wrong, it is that Xiao Dahai did something extreme. Not only did he forcibly impose his will on his son, he also sent the child to the Internet addiction school, which caused the ultimate intensification of the contradiction.
What is the root of father-son hatred like Xiao Dahai and Xiao Hanyi? The key is that there is little communication between father and son, and there is little communication, especially equal communication and few opportunities for communication. The two spoke in different ways, they used different words. If they didn't agree with each other, they scolded each other, fisted each other, and even fisted. This would only intensify the contradiction and it would be impossible to solve the problem. The value of "Bad Dad" is that the film not only puts forward the root cause of communication difficulties between father and son in the real family, but also provides practical and feasible ways and methods for solving problems. As a father who has more experience and experience than his son Xiao Hanyi, Xiao Dahai took the initiative to change the way of speaking and communication, and tried every means to get his son's forgiveness. The hidden love of a tough guy is like a mountain of father's love, like the warmth of water, which makes people admire and warm.
"Bad Dad" starring is Shao Bing, a well-known tough guy in the mainland film industry. As the father of two children, Shao Bing played Xiao Dahai with ease. When he is fierce, he is a fierce father, and when he is soft, he is a warm dad. It makes you laugh and tears. The fortitude and gentleness walk together, and the toughness and tenderness fly together, so that Xiao Dahai is both authentic and fresh.
