TV series "In the Name of Family" has come to an end. Several mothers in the play are more "horrible" than the other. In fact, of these moms in the play, I am most surprised by the moon mom.
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No doubt Ms. Chen Ting’s mvp status is unshakable, but as an audience I can scold her and hate her and hate her; Anna Mae in the early stage of
is also an irresponsible mother. Feel free to accuse her of sorry He Ziqiu. Both of the above
can express disgust without thinking.
But Mother Moon, she is really giving, doing her best to work hard, every act is for the good of the child, but every move is to push the child to the edge of the cliff again.
Qi Mingyue, this excellent good girl, is really distressing.
Qi Mingyue is a proper "child of someone else's family". She is beautiful and has a good personality. Not only does she have good academic performance, she is also very clever and sensible.
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is supposed to be confident and sunny, but she always keeps her head down and her body habitually arched, as if she had made some mistake.
is very good, she is shining all over, but she said: "I really can't do anything well, I'm really easy to make mistakes."
she looks very docile, but her heart is full of fear and entanglement. I dare not express my thoughts, do not know how to refuse, and are always led by others. Her words and deeds seemed so unconfident and lacking opinion.
invited everyone to eat ice cream. She was hesitant and didn't know what flavor to choose. In the end, she listened to the waiter and chose the vanilla flavor.
invited classmates to dinner, she flipped through the menu and didn't know what to order, so she turned around and asked her mother.
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on the way to school, someone hit her, the medicine in his hand was spilled, entangled to make her pay. Knowing that she was right, she did not dare to refute, and kept apologizing, thanks to Ziqiu's help.
She is a good girl in everyone's eyes, but she has become a tangled little twister.
Parents all want their children to be obedient, but the obedient and uninspiring children always feel that they are not good enough and cannot see their own value. They are full of fear and avoidance, strong dependence on mentality, and fear of taking responsibility. Gradually, he became pleasing everywhere, lacking independent judgment, and everyone said.
Seeing this, some people may ask: Qi Mingyue is already good enough, but why is he still inferior and timid?
In fact, a large part of the cringing bright moon today is caused by her mother.
Qi Mingyue's mother is very strong and always interferes with her in every detail.
When buying clothes, Mingyue chooses white, her mother said that white is not resistant to dirt, Mingyue chooses black, and her mother said that young people should wear bright clothes. Mingyue chose the pink recommended by her mother, and her mother had a look of disgust: "It's exactly the same as your dad, and has no idea at all."
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Mother's educational philosophy is: You can't owe your child materially, but Never dote on children in education.
She thinks Mingyue is the "second in the millennium" and asks her to take the first place, and the cram school is full.
In the eyes of Qi Mingyue's mother, her daughter always seems to be not doing enough, and there is always something inferior to others.
Doesn't she love her daughter? Of course not,
, like tens of thousands of ordinary parents, hopes her daughter will have a smooth life and a better life than anyone else.
As the old saying goes, "Hope your son will become a dragon, and your daughter will become a phoenix." This is how the mother of the moon thinks Qi Mingyue. But in line with the original intention of "being good for you", what he said was all negative and suppressed the children.
is really capable of deducing the love of your parents: hopes that you will live better than anyone else, but feel that you do worse than anyone else .
Because Moon Mom puts all her energy on Qi Mingyue's father and Qi Mingyue, her long-term expectations are too high, which puts a lot of pressure on Qi Mingyue.
makes friends, goes to cram school, buys clothes, works, buys a house...
Qi Mingyue is only allowed to live as a mother's good baby. Once she is revealed, she will be silenced.
Qi Mingyue and mother who have been depressed for a long time because of the purchase of a house and the examination of civil servantsMom quarreled.
Through this quarrel between Qi Mingyue and her mother, we discovered how rebellious Qi Mingyue has been. Because of her mother's long-term dictatorship, Qi Mingyue did not dare to resist and has been silently enduring it.
In the confrontation, we learned that Qi Mingyue's failure in the college entrance examination was not accidental, but something else. In order not to go to the University of Political Science and Law that her mother wanted her to, and the law major that her mother asked her to study, she just wanted to get rid of her mother's control and do what she likes, so she deliberately missed one answer sheet.
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At the entrance of the college entrance examination, Qi Mingyue chose such a "kill a thousand enemies, self-destruct 800" approach to resist the mother's overpowering love, which is indeed embarrassing. This kind of resistance of
, I have to say, the price is a bit too high, but it is suppressed to the extreme, it will be more normal to break out.
Qi Mingyue’s mother cares most about her daughter in her life, but it is her daughter who cares the least—she has never seen her own will but her daughter’s feelings. In the
play, Qi Mingyue confronts him directly because he can no longer hide it, but how many Qi Mingyues in reality will always struggle with lies and pain?
As the saying goes: "If you don't erupt in silence, you will die in silence." Qi Mingyue, who was obviously suppressed for a long time, wanted to live well for herself. In fact, when I watched this passage, I felt a sense of resonance. Many words that Qi Mingyue's mother said have indeed appeared in family life.
Many parents have too high expectations for their children, and they always want to realize their unfulfilled dreams through their children. In many families, children carry the hope of their parents for a lifetime. Due to the high expectations, few parents will ask their children what they need in the process of fulfilling this expectation!
The growth of a child, like the growth of a seed, requires sunlight, water and other nutrients. It not only needs material nutrition to protect the basic vitality, but also needs to be unconditionally accepted, valued, praised and recognized .
Children are born out of love, and parents should also use love to respect their children and give them trust and understanding.
The best protection for children is to allow them to think independently and choose their lives.
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