"He Actually Doesn't Love You That So" Lu Hao returned to China to find Ren Ran to reunite, but Ren Ran avoided him again and again. It's not that Ren Ran doesn't love, but it is precisely because of love that she has to hide her love to her heart. Because-not seen, not cheap.
Eight years ago, Lu Hao didn't notify or discuss, he went abroad directly because of a phone call in the early stage, and he left it at the airport waiting for his Ren Ran. In the days when we were together, Lu Hao refused to disclose Ren Ran’s identity to the public for various reasons, and even dared not accept the gifts given by Ren Ran. How much a man "loves" you, so he does not care about your feelings. Don't care about your emotions, or even his attitude towards you?
Lu Hao doesn't like Ren Ran? not necessarily. Does he love himself more? The answer is yes. But I believe even more that Lu Hao is not so fond of Renran. Just like the title of the play-he doesn't actually love you that much.
Women are very strange. I can love you, I love you better than myself, and when I love you, when I know you don't love me, even if I love you, I will choose to leave. A woman is a sensitive creature, she can be moved by the details, and she can also be defeated by the details. You say you love her, but what she values more is what you do.
Sam and Son Yehe are very happy together. The two are drinking wine, talking about the future, and planning the next trip. By the way, Sam just introduced in front of his sister." This is Son Yehe. When Son Yehe went to meet Sam at night and made fun of her as his girlfriend, Sam strongly denied it and called it just a "good friend".
have you found it? Ren Ran and Sun Yihe have one thing in common. Love this man to the bone, love them more than themselves, but these two men also want to "hide" them, they are just a "good friend" and "partner" "", maybe they can have any identity, but they can't be "my girlfriend".
When you can't stop yourself from loving someone, not seeing is the best choice. At least you can leave yourself the last dignity.
Just like Karen said, people nowadays like to arm themselves and disguise themselves as heartless and unloved.
Actually, the more you don’t love, the more you love. I just know that this love has no results, and I love it uncomfortably, love aggrieved, love painful. I am willing to be humble and dusty for you, but also ask you to bloom a flower for me, let me know that it is worthwhile, let me know that there is another flower to guard. If there is nothing, the dust will disperse eventually, and I will leave eventually.
There was a debate in "Qihua Shuo"-should it be changed to what the lover wants?
Some people think that if you love him, you should change everything for him, and some people think that if you change, you are not the original you, but an unrecognizable you. Among them, I particularly like a passage from Berbonnie:
When I became a big girl, I knew that love is not luck. In fact, love is a kind of ability love. Love does not let you find someone who is very suitable for you, but find a good person to gradually fit him. You will meet the needs of the other party to change and work hard. You will see a brand new word called "we".
Actually falling in love does not mean that you have to meet the right person at the right time, but that when you are willing to change, you meet someone who is willing to change for you.
A relationship requires two mature adults to work together, change together, and manage love together. In love, a woman who falls in love with a man will be willing to make many changes and make many concessions for him, even if she knows that he does not love her that much.
Love can never be clearly expressed in words, or even explained, just an empty feeling. In "He Actually Doesn't Love You That So", I think Ren Ran and Sun Yihe are both silly girls. Moth Fighting the Fire doesn't care about trying their best to love, but in exchange for the other side's "indifferent".
On a rainy day, when Ren Ran was in a heavy rain in a car that would not come, she did not dare to get in a colleague’s car for fear of saying bad things; hearing the word "Lu Hao" many years later was enough to make her collapse. Even if you meet for a few hours, she can face any project and anyone at work, except that she can't "face" Lu Hao.
Sun Yihe can go to the show with a faceless face, begging Chen Nan to appear on the show, but he has no courage to participate in Sam's press conference, let alone answer his call. Even throw away the phone. But she forgot, the phone was thrown away, the number is still there, and he is still friends on WeChat. How can you "not see"?
You can’t stop yourself from thinking about a person, reading a person, loving a person, but when you know that he doesn’t actually love you so much, at least leave yourself the last trace of dignity and let yourself do it-no see , Not cheap; no longer see, no longer cheap.