The plot of "He Actually Doesn't Love You That" has come to an end. The four different 30-year-old women in the play have different attitudes towards love, which makes people constantly think about what kind of attitude should be used to face emotions.
especially Sun Yihe.
She is obviously independent, enthusiastic, kind, and considerate, but she is so insecure and humble when facing her boyfriend, which makes the audience hate her.
There is a plot in which Sam tells Sun Yihe that he is going to Shenzhen on business, and Sun Yihe drove him to the airport early in the morning. During the business trip, Sam told Yihe that the weather in Shenzhen was good, but Yihe accidentally discovered that it was raining heavily in Shenzhen. There were more and more doubts in his mind, but Yihe did not dare to ask.
Suddenly one day, Sun Yihe ran into Sam across from the "Deep-fried dough stick shop" she used to go to, called a taxi and followed until he saw Sam enter the hotel. Sun Yihe walked to the door of the room, but in the end he didn't have the courage to knock on the door.
After many days of struggle, Son Yihe finally decided to showdown.
Sam said that his ex-girlfriend encountered difficulties. Leaving her at the beginning caused great harm to her, causing her to marry a man casually and being raped by her husband. Now she needs help and he has to stand up and help her. He looked like a good man.
Sam kept apologizing and admitting his mistakes, saying that he would give him another chance and would never lie to her again. Sun Yihe only said "I don't know". Within five minutes, Sun Yihe forgave Sam and planned how to travel.
Son Yehe was really temperless. From the beginning Sam was reluctant to publicly admit the relationship between the two, but when he lied to others later, Son Yehe didn't really get angry, so he forgave Sam so easily.
In feelings, women must have a temper so that men will not think you are bullied.
I still remember the "The Temptation of Going Home" I watched many years ago. Pinru served her in-laws and husband like a nanny at home. She was considerate in everything, but the family didn't wait to see her. Five years later, after she turned into Shanshan and returned, she was wise, strategic, and temperamental. The man who once abandoned her was fascinated by her again.
has no temper, which means catering to men everywhere, swallowing his anger everywhere, putting himself in a low place, forgetting who he is.
In a relationship, you must first love yourself before you can love others. During this relationship, Sun Yihe completely forgot to love herself, only cared about Sam's feelings, lost herself.
Sophie Marceau said: "The saddest thing about a woman is not getting old, but the self-lost in marriage and flat life."
Sun Yehe is the one who lost himself in this relationship. She wears a dress that her boyfriend finds good-looking, even if that dress doesn't suit her at all, even if she is not interested in watching the literary movies she is bored with. Like Chen Nan said, her relationship is really problematic.
Being temper does not mean making troubles unreasonably, nor does it mean making a fuss, but when you face injustice or feel wronged, you must show your "powerful" side.
As the saying goes, people are good at being deceived, and horses are being ridden by others. If you are in a relationship, you will only tolerate, and the other person will only get an inch. This is also the weakness of human nature, and people are greedy.
Zhihu has such a question: "What kind of woman is the most attractive?"
I like one of the answers the most: The most attractive woman should be the one who has attitude, temperament, is not spoiled and arrogant, but is not bullied.
In fact, people are like this, the more you indulge, the more forbearing, the other party will often form inertial thinking and feel that everything is right.
Women, when they should have a temper in front of men, they should show their own attitude, so as to be more dignified.
I think Wei Yingluo in "The Story of Yanxi Palace" is just such a woman.
She was very sharp when she first entered the palace, and everyone targeted her everywhere. She immediately showed her own posture to let others know that she was not an annoying person.
Sun Yehe is too bully, Ren Sam forces her to wear skirts that she doesn’t like and don’t likeWhen watching movies, everything has to follow his wishes. Is this Sun Yehe still herself?
Being temper does not mean being arrogant and domineering, being temper only represents one's bottom line.
In feelings, if you lose your temper, you lose your bottom line.
