In the show business world, what I fear most is to be identified as a vase, with only appearance and no acting skills.
Once a person is defined, they will be seen by people with colored glasses. Even if they try their best, they may not be able to get rid of the stereotypes of others.
Fortunately, some people are born with no resignation and do not want to be defined. They just want to break through with their hands and create a new image for themselves.
People who don’t admit their fate will only be sad for a while, not for a lifetime, when you go all out, you will have your own sunny day.
is like, Korean actor Lee Jun Ki.
38-year-old Lee Jun-ki has a hot search: a person who refuses to admit his life will never lose his life.
01.
On September 3, a video of Lee Jun-ki's cover of Jay Chou's "Confession Balloon" in Chinese was popularly searched, and netizens admired:
"looks like a beautiful boy, I am envious", "My God, I always thought he was in his 20s", "I suspect that Lee Jun Ki took preservatives."
all say that the years make people old, but the 38-year-old Lee Jun-ki can maintain such a good state, which is really enviable. In addition to praising Lee Jun-ki’s appearance and status, netizens also highly praise Lee Jun-ki’s acting skills:
"Brother is so handsome, I believe it in twenty, and the flower of evil looks absolutely beautiful",
"I When watching "The Flower of Evil", isn't this guy's most attractive acting skills?",
"Too handsome, when I watched Yizhimei, I thought this man was so handsome."
Anyone who knows Lee Jun-ki knows that Lee Jun-ki’s 19 years of debut, the same thing is the face of the beautiful boy, but the acting skills beyond the label have changed.
Just as a netizen said: "It's beautiful and able to fight, juvenile, charming, and plasticity is too strong." Who can say that
?
Lee Jun-ki filmed "The King's Man" in 2005, Kong Ji is beautiful and pitiful,
"My Girl" Xu Zhengyu has a feminine temperament, and fascinates thousands of girls (and boy, back then, my male netizens liked him very much. ).
"The King of Man" has brought Lee Jun Ki many newcomer awards and super popularity,
, but not long after being happy, a basin of cold water poured down.
Lee Jun Ki filmed "Fly, Dad" and "First Snow", Waterloo at the box office, rave reviews, feminine "flower beauty" appearance, Lee Jun Ki was attacked and abused:
"vase", "flower beauty boy" "", "sissy", "looks like a woman, really unappetizing", "forever can only make dramas of beautiful men"...
These critiques with colored glasses, and narrow definitions, are for one For the actors, it was a fatal blow.
When he first started, Lee Jun-ki, like everyone else, fell into self-doubt and inexplicable fear.
However, there is a kind of person in the world who, in the face of suspicion and criticism from the outside world, has strengthened his direction.
Lee Jun Ki is no longer depressed by the bad reviews of netizens and people's prejudices. He decided to cheer up, Jedi fight back :
The more people think he is a beautiful man, the more he must prove his plasticity.
After 2007, most of Lee Jun-ki’s movies and TV series were "solitary heroic action scenes with deep hatred",
Moreover, the more rare thing is that no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired it is, no matter how dangerous it isDifficult, Lee Jun Ki never used a stand-in.
Almost every scene is filmed "risking his life". Almost every scene will be physically challenged.
For example, in the filming of "Time of Dog and Wolf", in order to be able to photograph the face, the airbag was directly removed and the scene of the car accident was photographed.
In the scene of driving in person without a substitute, Lee Jun-ki also laughed and said, “Because it is too real, the acting skills are very natural.”
In the variety show, Lee Jun-ki was asked "Why not use a substitute?"
Lee Jun-ki said "The reason for not using a substitute is because it will break the emotional line , , I think I should try my best to do what I can do. "
uphold a dedicated attitude, Lee Jun Ki in "Time of Dog and Wolf" and "Ichimae In ", he contributed superb acting skills and wonderful martial arts scenes, and with the latter won the best acting award, his acting skills were finally affirmed.
Lee Jun Ki's play road has also widened. When he thought he would develop better from now on, he did not expect that as a friend's agent, cheated all his savings.
is really a double whammy.
Just when many people thought that Lee Jun-ki would sink into the theater, he was depressed for a while, cheered up again, and refreshed people's impression with actions again.
02.
Lee Jun-ki first enlisted in the army. After he was discharged from the army, he refused to take shortcuts and chose not to make romantic dramas. Instead, he chose one after another martial arts drama:
action history drama "The Story of A Niang",
" "Two Weeks", various escape dramas,
and then "North Korean Sharpshooter" , "The Night Traveler", "Scary Step by Step: Rei", "Martial Law Lawyer", " Resident Evil 6" and so on. In all martial arts scenes of
, Lee Jun-ki personally went into battle, refused to use a substitute, and also learned Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for "Martial Lawyers".
is also holding the enthusiasm for acting, and the spirit of seriousness and dedication, Lee Jun Ki finally used his hands to work out a new way of acting, and created a new self for the audience.
is now hit, Douban 9.2 points "Flower of Evil",
The role played by Lee Jun Ki, the role played by the heart-warmer and the murderer, the acting skills are sufficiently convincing.
Obviously you can rely on face value, but rely on strength; obviously you can easily play idol dramas, but you can work hard to make action and play; it has been defined by people as "vase" and "flower beautiful man", but with strength to keep others closed mouth.
This is Lee Jun Ki's original intention: "I really want to get rid of the image setting of beautiful males, beautiful actors, and so on. Therefore, when choosing roles, priority is given to those who are tough, vicissitudes, or those who can show the inner heart of the characters. "
personally tore off the label of "Beautiful Man", breaking the prejudice, not being defined, and creating life with both hands. --he made it.
The current Lee Jun Ki is no longer a "flowery man" in the eyes of others, but an acting, capable and dedicated actor Lee Jun Ki.
Lee Jun Ki's failure to admit his fate, fail to admit defeat, and not be defined by others, let me see the possibility of someone rewriting his fate.
"Nezha" once said: Prejudice is like a mountain, no matter how hard you work, you can never move it.
Once people recognize a thing, it will form an inherentArbitrarily evaluate and define the lives of others.
It takes great courage and perseverance to break prejudice.
I admire Lee Jun-ki. From the beginning, I was surprised by his appearance, and later attracted by his acting skills, and finally moved by his perseverance.
When being questioned by the outside world and defined by people, without self-defeating, bravely breaking discrimination and prejudice, and breaking out of your own life, people like
are worth learning and admiring.
Andy Lau When he was young, he started from running a dragon, diligent and hardworking. Later, he was appreciated by Zhou Yun and was recommended to make the movie "To the Wrath Sea" .
debuted for 40 years, Andy Lau made more than 140 movies, more than 1,100 songs, more than 500 concerts, and 500 awards.
is such an excellent person, and he has been carrying somersaults.
In 1991, Andy Lau invested in filmmaking. Because of lack of business ability, the investment failed in 1995 and he was forced to debt 40 million. If
is an ordinary person, I am afraid it will be difficult to withstand such a big blow, but Andy Lau chose to go head-on and continue filming. It only took 5 years to pay off his debt.
Some media interviewed Andy Lau: "Do you believe in fate?"
Andy Lau replied decisively: "I believe in fate, but do not accept fate, because the trajectory of fate may be like a wavy line, if you recognize it, it may be more Low, if you don’t recognize it, it will go higher."
People who don’t recognize their fate, even at the bottom of the valley, every movement of his is upward.
As long as you don't succumb to fate and bravely accept the challenge, you can change your life.
A person who does not admit his life will only be sad for a while, not for a lifetime.
Don't doubt or deny yourself because of temporary encounters, and don't feel sorry for yourself because of the prejudices and definitions of others.
recognize what you want, bravely resist outside harm, and write a new life with action.
If fate is unfair, fight it to the end.
Just like what Nezha said: "My fate is my destiny. It is the devil or the fairy. I have the final say."
Therefore, he not only saved the people of Chentangguan, but also saved himself and Ao Bing. fate.
People who don't admit their fate, who have fought hard, will never lose for a lifetime.
03.
I know a friend who got divorced, and brought a son, neighbors in the neighborhood, all pointed to her, what to say:
"a woman, what divorce learns, this is fine, lost her parents "Face", "That's it, divorced with her son, no one will want it", "I think she will be like this in this life, what did a woman do?" This friend's ex-husband does not have a fixed job, so I look everywhere. Friends drink alcohol, and the child wants her to take it after work, and the ex-grandmother blames her for not being able to control her husband.
friends also endured for a long time before divorcing, but the worldly vision was another serious injury. Everyone concluded that she was ruined in this life, and she could not have a good life with her children.
But she just didn't believe her fate, and took a stall in the nearby market. Because of her popularity and sweet mouth, the business was booming. Not only did she take the child well, but also two men pursued her.
Those who read the jokes and those who looked down on her gradually shut up.
In real life, how can we notHave you been subjected to such prejudice and definition?
You were born in a bad environment, you must have no prospects. You are not outstanding, who would like you?
You are not married at the age of 30, there must be a problem. You were divorced and no one wanted you.
You must not be able to marry a wife at the age of 30. You haven't bought a house at the age of 35, so don't want to buy it in your life. …
We are already living a difficult life. After being hammered by reality, we still have to fall into secular prejudices and doubts and struggle.
In the definition of others and under scrutiny, we seem to be useless, no matter what we do is wrong.
then doubted himself, denied himself, became stagnant and frightened.
However, there are many people who use their experience to tell you that as long as you don't accept your fate and are strong to the end, fate will take care of you.
As a man, Lee Jun-ki was laughed at like a woman, so what? He used his strength to prove that other people's definitions are wrong, and only he can define himself.
Andy Lau suffered debts and fell to a trough, so long as he did not accept his fate and worked hard, he could reverse the situation and turn defeat into victory.
Ordinary people do not have a car or a house, are not married at the age of 30, did not buy a house at the age of 40, or are divorced at the age of 35, are born in a bad environment and are looked down upon by others, so what?
Don’t do what others say, your own destiny is in your own hands, don’t be unhappy because of others’ discussions, don’t deny yourself because of others’ suspicions.
If you believe in fate too early, you lose. If you care too much about the judgment of others, you cannot live for yourself.
The so-called fate is half in the sky and half in the people. Only by refusing to admit his fate can he fight back.
destiny is the same as that of people, deceiving good and fearing evil, as long as you are stronger, it will be afraid of you, convince you, and be rewritten by you.
People who don't admit their fate will only be sad for a while, not for a lifetime. People who don't admit their fate will never lose as long as they work hard.
success belongs to a stubborn soul and a heart that will never admit defeat. Failure to admit one's fate is the best counterattack to fate.
Jia Pingwa once said: The biggest "willfulness" of people is to insist on doing what you like desperately. Only in this way can people say that my life is worthwhile.
Have you worked hard for your own destiny? Have you ever fought for it? If not, stop complaining that you have nothing.
Now, are you willing to give it a go for the one-time life? I want to hear your answers.
Today’s topic :
Do you believe that fate can be changed?
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