Some time ago, a Taiwanese reporter photographed the 60-year-old Taiwanese "godfather of music" Li Zongsheng and a 33-year-old girl named Qian Hui living together secretly for a long time. Upon hearing this news, I believe most people’s first reaction is: "Big Brother Zong Sheng opens a year-end relationship, which is equivalent to entering a flower bush when he is old. Does he still have the heart and strength to control his young and beautiful partner? Xie Xian for the other fourth brother?"
You can rest assured if you think so, because from the report, Qianhui is a real family girl. There is no generation gap between her and Li Zongsheng's elder brother. Instead, it is the love of old couples and wives.
Since the relationship between the two has long been public in the circle of friends, whenever Li Zongsheng went on a business tour abroad, Qianhui took Li Zongsheng and his ex-wife’s daughter out to eat together as a good mother. . During the period, the two of them even talked and laughed, so they looked like a mother and daughter. After sending her daughter home, Qianhui continued to be a conscientious hostess and took Zong Sheng's dog to go out for a stroll. After walking the dog, Qianhui went to the supermarket alone to buy daily necessities, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and went home to prepare dinner.
After seeing the simple life of the woman behind this elder brother, I can only exclaim: "What kind of confidant and charming girlfriend is this? It's more like a loyal nanny and a responsible butler." Maybe it is because of Qianhui Jiang Li The reason why Zongsheng’s family is well organized is that the friends around her are unanimously praised by her: "This is a very good girl."
However, the question is, why does Li Zongsheng like this? What about a "home-style little woman" who is neither independent nor self-improving, and who is completely man-centered? You know, Lin Yilian, his ex-wife, who loves him most, is the opposite type. And back then, when Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian severed their marriage relationship. He also once threatened that he "will not love anymore". In the future, he would choke several times when he sang the song "When Love Is a Past", which he made for Lin Yilian. Since
is so infatuated, why do you say that you change? Regarding this question, I can only say that Li Zongsheng has never changed. He has always been a music talent with well-developed lacrimal glands, rich emotions, and uninhibited indulgence. He is a straight male patient with terminal cancer through and through. In his worldview, love is only dopamine. Li Zongsheng’s love is not the one that Li Zongsheng loves, neither Lin Yilian nor Qian Hui, but he always loves himself and music.
Maybe everyone thinks that my judgment of Li Zongsheng seems a bit bitter. However, what you don’t know is that even if the love between Lin Yilian and Li Zongsheng is disguised by music and ideals, it can’t escape the ugly nature of "marital derailment and minor third involvement". Looking at it today, Li Zongsheng is a scumbag who abandoned his wife. It's a man. The story of
goes back to 1987, when Li Zongsheng was only a fledgling musical talent, and Lin Yilian had not yet become a powerful queen in the music scene. Destiny never arranged for this pair of golden boys and girls to get married. On the contrary, another woman appeared in front of Li Zongsheng by chance, and that was Zhu Weiyin, the wife of the chaff, whom Zongsheng married before he met Lin Yilian.
At that time, Zhu Weiyin was the host of Radio Hong Kong. Under the introduction of her friends, she met Li Zongsheng, a well-known talent in the music industry at that time. Originally thought that "talents are romantic since ancient times", but Li Zongsheng proposed to her in a very simple language: "Do you know how to play Taiwanese mahjong?"
As everyone knows, that belongs to the eighties of mom and dad. Girls love to marry honest people, who happens to have a little talent, which is even more irresistible. So the traditional thinking Zhu Weiyin immediately fell into the love net weaved by Li Zongsheng willingly, and resolutely gave up his career in Hong Kong and his native family. Followed Li Zongsheng to go to Taiwan to develop, and then became a full-time housewife to wash hands for her husband's family.
However, what Zhu Weiyin never expected is that her sacrifice and dedication will be the result of her tragic abandonment ten years later. It is the actual version of "The First Half of My Life". That's right, after the two finally had a long and long married life. The dopamine of love is slowly consumed by firewood, rice, oil and salt,No matter how much Zhu Weiyin does his best to manage the housework, she cannot restore the cruel fact that her husband and family are drifting away.
In Zhu Weiyin's opinion, what makes her most unbearable is not the tedious household chores, but the "living widowhood" life. After getting married, she helped Li Zongsheng give birth to two daughters. While pregnant with his little daughter, Li Zongsheng was busy producing the album "Dream Time" for Chen Shuye. Almost every day he arranges with his colleague Li Zhengfan, so he simply left behind his pregnant wife for ten months.
Everyone knows that pregnant women themselves have a little hormonal imbalance and can suffer from depression at any time. Under the shadow of depression, there is still a lack of love from her husband. This kind of day is simply worse, like suffering, so the ten-month "living widowhood" day has become a psychological shadow that Zhu Weiyin cannot kill in her life. However, Li Zongsheng not only couldn't understand his wife's pain, but he even had some verbs and complaints, which were all reflected in his songs.
For example, in 1989 Li Zongsheng's "My Future, My Family, My Wife" wrote: "Since I got married, she has been asking me when I went home every day." Another example is in 1992 when Li Zongsheng wrote a song. There is a sentence in "Ghost Mind Aperture": "I used to really think that life is just like this, and a calm heart refuses to have another wave." These lyrics all express that a married man is uneasy about his ordinary marriage life, desperately trying to break free from the siege. The shackles of love, the restlessness of looking for a new and exciting feeling of love.
But as mentioned earlier, Zhu Weiyin is a traditional woman. There is only Li Zongsheng left in her world. Without Li Zongsheng, she would have nothing. Therefore, no matter how restless Li Zongsheng's Huahua intestines are, she chooses to close one eye. It was not until Lin Yilian appeared that she had to wake up from pretending to sleep.
Speaking of the love between Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian, it can be summed up in one sentence and that is, "Music together, and music divided." It is the classic song "When Love Has Become" created by Li Zongsheng and sung by Li Zongsheng. past". When this song was released, Li Zongsheng’s love for Zhu Weiyin was a thing of the past, and his heart flew to Lin Yilian. At the beginning of
, Zhu Weiyin was killed and refused to divorce. Like all traditional Chinese women, she smashed her front teeth and swallowed blood. She wished to believe that if there is no trouble in a marriage, and biting her teeth, everything will be fine.
However, a man who has changed his heart is like splashed water. What he brings can not be rain, but a thunderbolt. In 1994, Li Zongsheng held a farewell concert in Taiwan. As the godfather of music, this concert also invited all singers who have worked closely with Li Zongsheng to attend. It also included Lin Yilian, who was rumored with Li Zongsheng about the scandal.
In order to show his wife the bloody facts she did not want to face, Li Zongsheng was in front of all Taiwanese fans at this concert, pulling the ambiguous object Lin Yilian, and sang "When love is a thing of the past." . For Li Zongsheng, this move is dare to love and hate, crazy for love. But for Zhu Weiyin, it was a shame and heartache.
So after that concert, the entire Taiwanese entertainment circle condemned Li Zongsheng's ignorance. Perhaps due to the pressure of public opinion, perhaps because he wanted to escape the suffocating wall as soon as possible, Li Zongsheng simply abandoned his wife and daughter, and ran away from Taiwan to live in Canada.
has been running for three years. In three years, Zhu Weiyin's only channel for receiving news from her husband turned out to be the album by Lin Yilian from her childhood. Yes, in the next few years, Lin Yilian ushered in a small career peak because of Li Zongsheng's songs for her. Two of them worked together, "Blowed by the Cold Wind for You and Me" and "It's Dark at Night" are works during this period.
Under the baptism of repeated rendering of these excellent songs, the love between Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian was also successfully whitewashed and accepted by the world. So in 1997, after experiencing the heart-wrenching pain of the death of her parents, Zhu Weiyin suddenly became clear, agreed to divorce, and released Li Zongsheng from then on.
Yes, at the stage when the two of them "cannot love", Li Zongsheng was attracted by Lin Yilian's independent self-improvement, perseverance and courage. So when he first got married, he was inspired to write a song "The Sonny Rose" to Lin Yilian. However, what Li Zongsheng did not expect was that although the rose was beautiful, it was full of thorns. Especially for him, a "straight male patient with advanced cancer", the thorns on Rose's body can even hurt him completely.
Yes, after getting married, Li Zongsheng once asked Lin Yilian to quit the music scene, and from then on he washed his hands and made soup and became the woman behind him. Lin Yilian felt that this kind of full-time wife's captive life was quite new at first. However, within half a year, she was immediately unable to withstand the depression caused by the lack of self-worth, and decided to return to the music scene in 1999.
is a hundred years old just looking back, but Lin Yilian's comeback unexpectedly broke a new world of her own in the Hong Kong music scene. On the other hand, Li Zongsheng was experiencing a bottleneck in his career due to stagnant creativity. In this way, Lin Yilian and Li Zongsheng, one developed in Hong Kong, and the other stayed in Taiwan in despair. Under the factors of gathering less and more, and psychological imbalance, both of them issued divorce declarations without warning in 2004.
may be the reluctance of the relationship that was still cherished at the time of the breakup, maybe the pretentiousness of the music talent is constantly fermenting, and it may even be for hype and consumption of this relationship. Anyway, when he was just divorced, Li Zongsheng frequently said in public that Lin Yilian was his most unforgettable lover. After bidding farewell to this love, life has since lost the ability to love. In order to prove his infatuation, Li Zongsheng did. After breaking up with Lin Yilian for more than ten years, she has not dated again, and even devoted herself to composing "At least You" for her ex-wife to show her feelings. However, compared to Li Zongsheng's true or false true feelings, he waited hard. Lin Yilian, who is known as the "Clang Rose", was simply not at all nostalgic for this relationship. When she fell in love, she was completely devoted. When she felt that Li Zongsheng was not the kind of "beloved" who was considerate to herself and could circle around her. She immediately wielded the sword of wisdom, cut the love silk, and walked out. After the divorce, she started a relationship between a young lady and a little wolf dog with the Asian drum king Gong Shuoliang.
It can be seen that Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian are both of the same type. All have a strong heart and talents, making themselves a shining little sun, so that everyone has to live under their own aura. If the two suns insist on staying together, they will definitely hurt each other. Only by separating and finding their respective earths can we live a smooth and long life.
So seeing Lin Yilian and Gong Shuoliang fall in love, sweet and sweet, Li Zongsheng, who has been indulging in the "heart-wrenching love illusion" created by herself, also ushered in the waking time. Decided to let go of that unforgettable but irretrievable old dream, and found the confidante Chie who was able to take care of and accompany him in a down-to-earth manner.
Back to the beginning of the article, Li Zongsheng also put aside his arrogant talent in order to manage this "year-old love". Every time I stay in Taiwan whenever I have time, I drive my little girlfriend to the supermarket, buy food, and cook. He even took the initiative to hold his girlfriend's hand to help the woman drive the door with her bag. In the words of the Taiwanese media: "The romantic talents are finally reborn and transformed into a warm uncle."
However, no matter how Li Zongsheng changes, I always feel that he is going around and going back to the origin of love. It's about this Qianhui is full of the shadow of Li Zongsheng's wife Zhu Weiyin, the same virtuous and virtuous, the same gentle as jade, the same traditional simplicity. I want to come to Li Zongsheng to live for this reason to figure out what kind of woman I am suitable forLive a lifetime.
So back to our real life, maybe most men are like Li Zongsheng. When I was young, I didn't know what I wanted, but I wanted everything. Not only covets the beauty of the white moonlight, and does not eat the fireworks, but also likes the charming and charming red roses.
Maybe you now see that Li Zongsheng is able to find a young and beautiful wife and mother in a young age, and feel that there is nothing wrong with this kind of "greed". However, most men do not have the talent and fame of Li Zongsheng. The result of the word "greedy" often can only live as a lonely widow. So fellow males, please respect yourself. After all, in marriage and family, not only love, but also responsibility and obligation.
