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I don’t know if you still remember the variety show " Dad is back "? There are many lovely cute babies in it. Among them, the sister flowers , Oli and Tianxin are everyone’s favorite. The two are 8 years old this year, but the fathers of the two children have very different parenting ideas. .
Jia Nailiang is actually "poorly raised" to Tianxin . Compared with other celebrities raising children, Jia Nailiang pays more attention to Tianxin's spiritual enrichment. At a young age, she speaks Northeast Chinese, Mandarin and English. It's pretty good. doesn't spoil children on weekdays, so after growing up, Tianxin has a cheerful and lively personality, and she has frequent golden sentences, which is especially popular with everyone. The opposite of
and Jia Nailiang is Li Xiaopeng’s educational philosophy, Li Xiaopeng is very fond of his daughter, so the practice is to "rich" , as the daughter of gymnastics champion, Oli has shown it when she was very young With a talent for gymnastics, can also do a lot of gymnastics now. On weekdays, Li Xiaopeng also pays attention to Oli's studies. Now Oli is like an elegant little princess.
has to say that is under the completely opposite parenting concepts of Li Xiaopeng and Jia Nailiang, the gap between Oli and 甜馨 is really very big , but whether it is rich or poor, Parents must grasp the right sense.
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What is real fertility?
Raising a child rich is not as simple as it seems to be, piling up children with materials. Sometimes what a child lacks is not money, but the company of the parents to the child. The true enrichment is that the parent accompanies the child to browse the world, increase the child's knowledge, and water the child's heart with love. "There are poems and books in the belly", this is the richness of the child's spiritual world; "will be the top of the sky, looking at the mountains and small mountains", this is the richness of the children's vision; "The dark night gave me black eyes, I use it to find the light." This is the enrichment of the child's soul. The real affluence is that no matter what the economic conditions are, what it raises is a person's sense of satisfaction and security, as well as love for the world and the courage and determination to face the world.
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The pros and cons of being rich and poor
1, rich
Rich children will be more generous and confident. They can face it more calmly because they have seen it and are not guilty. Know it without being timid. But the disadvantage is that education is prone to deviations, and children may become arrogant, self-righteous and unable to keep their feet on the ground.
2, poorly raised
poor children understand the hardships of life better, they also know more about self-improvement, relying on others rather than relying on themselves, and are more able to face the difficulties and setbacks in life. But the disadvantage is that if the education is not good, the child tends to become short-sighted, just looking at the present, and become a caregiver and submissive person.
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How should parents educate their daughter correctly?
1. Enrich the child's spiritual world
Parents should work harder on the spiritual level of their children. Let girls read more books to improve their temperament, and at the same time take them out more to increase their experience and knowledge, broaden their horizons, and enrich their spiritual world.
2. Cultivate the independence of children
Parents should cultivate the independence of their children, especially girls, so that they will always have the confidence to live alone and will not be easily defeated by the sufferings of life and walk out of their own future.
3. Respect children's hobbies
Parents should respect their children's hobbies, allow them to learn and develop in their fields of interest, and mobilize the children's enthusiasm to the greatest extent, so that they can have skills and be able to make great achievements in their favorite fields development of.
Summary: is not reallyIn the process of cultivating children, parents must pay attention to the richness of their children’s spiritual world and their material needs. In fact, every parent creates an environment for their children to grow up at ease. Enrichment is the self-insight and rich inner world of the children. The
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