Hello everyone, this is Amy.
friends who are familiar with me know that, I wrote a book: "100 Secrets You Must Know in Love", which talks about some tips for daily love.
In fact, there is a love master in the United States who wrote a similar book: "How to Make the One You Love Fall in Love with You". This book has changed the love trajectory of thousands of young people. Today I will share with you one of the contents inside, three ways to make your loved one fall in love with you.
has a general term called self-esteem massage. If you have done a physical massage, you will know that your body will feel very comfortable during the massage. Self-esteem massage is when you get along with the other person, you give him a mental massage to refresh him. Let him feel that he has become a better self with you.
How do you make the other person feel a self-esteem massage through language or non-verbal?
The first move: the worship of eyes.
People say that you can’t hide your eyes when you like someone. If you look at a person of the opposite sex with appreciation and affection in your heart, as long as he is there, your eyes will always follow him. When he had to separate, he showed a reluctant look from him, making the other person feel particularly attractive and comfortable.
The second trick is called the ability to empathize
The famous screenwriter Liao Yimei once said: It is easy to meet love in a person's life, but to meet sex is easy to meet
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When people meet someone who understands themselves, they feel that they have met a soul mate. A very important way to understand is the ability to empathize, through empathic language to let the other person feel understood.
When the other party complains to you about something sad, he doesn't need you to give a solution, what he needs is your understanding. Then you can tell him: This thing is really sad, it is indeed not easy for you, I understand your loneliness for so many years and so on. As long as you express your understanding to the other person after a few sentences, the other person will feel that they have met the right person.
The third trick is to praise and worship in language.
mentioned in the book "How to Make Your Lovers Fall in Love with You" that a couple has a particularly good relationship. After many years of marriage, they are still like a new marriage. How did the couple get along before, and what are the secrets?
Once the author went to their house for dinner, he found that this woman could not work in the kitchen, but she was very good at talking.
When the man was tearing mushrooms in the kitchen, the woman admired him by the side and said: Wow, you are too good to tear the mushrooms so evenly. She can express her appreciation and love for such a small thing.
So we must remember that when we love someone, we must appreciate and respect that person. You have to find the shining point on him, and then express it in your language, the other party will find it particularly useful. And this kind of positive words will inspire the other party to do better.
Above are the three tricks we talk about: expression of eyes, the ability of empathy, appreciation and praise in words. Finally, don't forget to say from time to time: You are the most beautiful person I have ever met. Remember, you are the most beautiful person I have ever met.
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