was exposed by the media last year that Cecilia Cheung gave birth to a third child. Everyone was very curious, who is the father of the child? But the father of the child has never been exposed. It's not just ordinary people around who wonder who is the father of the child? Even Cecilia Cheung's youngest son asked his mother curiously, who is the younger brother's father?
Cecilia Cheung had no choice but to tell the child that the younger brother’s father was himself. The child asked Cecilia Cheung such a question out of doubt, but for Cecilia Cheung himself, such a question was quite embarrassing.
As a woman from a divorced family, taking care of her children can be said to be both father and mother, trying to make up for the child’s missing paternal love to the greatest extent.
Most people talk about single-parent families, and most of them have negative words in their minds. It is believed that children who grow up in single-parent families are more radical, emotionally fragile, very sensitive to changes in the outside world, withdrawn, and negative towards marriage.
In the social environment, the pressure of young people is getting heavier and the care of emotions is getting weaker and weaker. Therefore, the probability of divorce is increasing year by year, resulting in a lot of single mothers and single fathers around them.
With the increase in the divorce rate, the number of single mothers around has also increased year by year. Many times you can see single mothers working hard to take care of their children, while still busy fighting in the workplace, working hard to support their families.
The life of single mothers taking care of their children is very tiring. No one around them can listen to them telling them the distress in their hearts. Single mothers can only suppress their helplessness in life. In life, these single mothers have to do well for their children. Role model, while living a positive life, but also struggling in the workplace.
How do single mothers after divorce educate their children?
1. How does Cecilia Cheung take care of children after divorce?
01. Turn off all jobs and accompany the children to grow up. After divorce, Cecilia Cheung vests all the custody of the children to herself. After all, the life of female stars in the entertainment circle is very busy. Cecilia Cheung has turned away all work for the children and stayed at home to accompany the children to grow up.
When Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse divorced, Cecilia Cheung’s two children were still young. Cecilia Cheung was worried that her divorce from Nicholas Tse would affect the child’s physical and mental health. Therefore, Cecilia Cheung turned off all the work and spent time at home with the children wholeheartedly. The effort can improve the impact on children.
02. Return freedom to the child
Cecilia Cheung respects the children's opinions very much, and Cecilia Cheung will seek the advice of the two children whenever he does anything. From when the two children were very young, Cecilia Cheung treated them like little adults. Cecilia Cheung's education methods are very beneficial to the growth of children.
At the same time, the media previously photographed Cecilia Cheung taking two children out to buy vegetables. When buying vegetables, Cecilia Cheung would ask the two children to help them carry the vegetables. An approachable family education environment like Cecilia Cheung can cultivate the social adaptability of two children, which is very useful for the children's future development.
03. Getting along with her ex-husband and becoming friends
Although Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse were not very happy when they divorced, as time went by, Cecilia Cheung told the children that Nicholas Tse loves children because of parental relationship problems , They just separated.
and Nicholas Tse still maintain the habit of seeing children every period of time. This kind of education is very beneficial to children. Under this kind of education, it will help children form a correct family outlook.
2. How do single-parent families raise children?
01. Raising children with love education
Both parents are divorced, most of them divorced because of irreparable cracks in their relationship. A very common phenomenon is that one party to a divorced family will often complain to the child about the other party's health. This kind of family education is very wrong. Children from divorced families are very sensitive to emotions.
Therefore, single-parent families should use love education to educate their children after their parents divorce. Don't tell the child that the other party is not good, it will make the child have a wrong family perception. And always tell the child that the other party’s bad will make the child feel repulsive towards marriage.
single parentParents in the family should adjust their emotions and use love education to tell their children that parents are separated because of their own problems, but even if the parents are separated, both parents love their children. This is the correct family education.
02. Parents of single-parent families should not spoil their children.
Many parents of single-parent families will spoil their children very much after they are divorced. They think that spoiling can make up for the love lost by their children. This perception is wrong. For children There is no way to make up for the lack of love.
What parents should do is to let their children realize that they love their children regardless of whether the parents are separated. At the same time, parents of single-parent families should have a correct way of pampering their children and meeting their children's reasonable requirements appropriately. .
03. Guide children to communicate with others correctly
Children from single-parent families have an obvious characteristic, that is, they are very sensitive to others. Therefore, when parents are educating their children, they should guide their children so that they can correctly understand how to communicate with others.
also helps children communicate with others correctly and encourages children to communicate with others while carrying out correct family education.
3. How do single-parent families communicate with their children? Children are more willing to accept their parents' remarriage and childbearing.
01. Ask for the consent of the child
When the parents of a single parent family communicate with the child, the child should be placed in the same position as the parent. Treat the child as a part of the family. Before making any decision, consult with the child and ask for the child’s consent before doing it.
Parents can use this kind of education to let their children understand that parents value themselves, no matter how things change, whether parents are divorced or not, parents love their children.
02. Do not force the child to accept the remarriage or re-birth of
single-parent family parents do not force the child to accept. Children are not required to oppose. Children accept changes in things, not as fast as their parents. It takes time for them to accept new things. Therefore, parents of single-parent families need to give their children a certain amount of time to think, so that they can get along slowly in the future. Take it slowly.
Parents should adopt an attitude that does not force or force. Let the child slowly accept it in the future.
03. Show the child that no matter how they change, their parents love him.
Remarried or re-pregnant parents must make it clear to the child that no matter how things change, parents love him. At the same time,
should use guiding language to tell the children that they are not required to accept the other party, but to tell the children that the decision made by the parents is just one more person in the world who loves her the most, and it has no other meaning.
In this way to let children accept, it will be easier for children to understand parents' intentions.
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