Recently, the pianist Lang Lang and his wife Gina Alice showed up at the airport. After the photos came out, netizens found that he did not help his wife with luggage, and thought that this was not gentle enough, which immediately sparked heated discussions and went straight to the hot search.
Gina Alice is pushing the suitcase on her hand and a bulging shoulder bag on her back. Someone complains directly about Lang Lang, how can she not help his wife with the luggage? Quite a few people have begun to hold grievances for his wife, and that is to say, more money is great.
See, netizens are teaching how to behave. In fact, whether to take luggage is not a sign of respect for his wife. His wife has the freedom not to take it, but also has the freedom to take it. As long as two people feel that there is no problem, it’s good, watch them The family is very happy, so there is no possibility of oppression, but his wife wants to take the bag.
Not long ago, Sun Yang won the championship, Horton refused to be on the podium, Scott refused to take a photo with Sun Yang, and Sun Yang was rejected. During that period, news about Sun Yang was sent to hot searches one by one.
Many people are very happy, but there was such a remark, "If Sun Yang hadn't broken the drug test bottle at the beginning, would there be something like today?" The FINA conclusion has not come out yet, and these people began to bring The rhythm is gone, and I really can’t stand up after I kneel for a long time.
These people are called keyboard men on the Internet. They always stand in the perspective of God. Regarding various popular events on the Internet, they stand at the highest point of morality, have a meal, and then swipe on their mobile phones. However, regardless of the impact on the parties and the incident, has long only pointed out the words in front of the screen on the Internet, but will not practice their own words with actual actions. This has been criticized by others, so they still There is another unique title called "Tanzi"
keyboard man
1 characteristics of network keyboard man
1) impose your own ideas on others
what you do must meet their standards, such as unlimited sympathy for the weak, even if they are In touch with porcelain, men must have a sense of gentleman and help girls with luggage, and they must also actively help.
On the evening of July 17, Liu Xin, the host of the English-language news program of China International Television (CGTN), posted on his Weibo that he “forced off the suitcase” when getting off the plane, but “no one reached out” and condemned “no The caring person is ugly".
In reality, if it's not the old, the weak, the sick, and the pregnant, you won't take the initiative to help, otherwise people think you have any intentions. If you have any difficulties, you can ask someone to help. This should not be ugly.
Helping is a sentiment, not helping is a duty. If you need help, you can ask for help instead of waiting for someone to help
like Lang Lang is scolded for not carrying a suitcase. In their thinking, boys are born to help girls. There is definitely a problem if you don’t take it, but you can’t girls like to take your own bag, and boys can’t feel uncomfortable and are not suitable for taking bags.
2) Use high standards to demand others, and never practice
. Use high ethical standards to ask people on the Internet, especially celebrities. As long as they have a little consumption, they can say why they don’t donate to Hope Primary School, why don’t they help difficult areas, as long as they show up Natural disasters and man-made disasters, the first time you leave a message on the celebrities’ Weibo, let them donate, if you don’t donate less, you will scold them, but you are just like a okay person.
Recently, the media in Hong Kong revealed that Koo Tianle bought a yacht for 50 million yuan. The reason why Koo Tianle bought the yacht was to bring his mother to watch the fireworks. Netizens who knew immediately said that Koo Tianle floated. As everyone knows, he also donated a lot after making money. Schools donate silently and never disclose that they are doing charity.
3) Based on a picture, or just a few words, draw conclusions, and even spread rumors
Relying on a few pictures, I feel that I understand the full truth of time, and I have come to a conclusion when I see just a few words, and let my thoughts be induced and controlled by others.
Now that you know, there is a saying that sharing the story you just made is based on a few pictures, and then make up the appearance and details, the ups and downs, regardless of the facts.
and somePeople also spread rumors. As the saying goes: " spreads a rumors, and dispels the rumors and runs off the legs ." If you let you say it, no one will read the rumors, so the person involved in the story is hurt.
Recently, Ningbo, Zhejiang. A male toll collector at a highway toll station saw him off with a smile and was nicknamed a "professional smirk." The director of the toll station said that the toll collector thought he was trying to smile, and he never wanted to make a mocking voice on the Internet, "he does not want to be an internet celebrity." People just want to do a good job and give a smiley face to the driver's friend, how can they become an internet celebrity.
2 Why is there a network keyboard man
Voltaire said: "During an avalanche, no snowflake feels responsible." The keyboard man who appeared on the network, everyone thinks he is righteous, and no one thinks he is wrong. That is why there is a network keyboard man?
1) No responsibility on the Internet
There is no restriction on the Internet. Everyone uses a nickname and stares at an avatar. They are all strangers. If you have something to say, you just say
. But behind these nicknames, may be a cynical college student. It may be a small white-collar worker who is only a promise, it may be a big boss who usually pretends to force you, it may be a suave talent, or it may be a beautiful girl...
In reality, everyone knows that people are scolded by their faces. Will drop out of school, scolding leaders will be fired, scolding relatives will hurt feelings, scolding people casually will be despised, and even be beaten
. But once goes online, no one knows oneself and no one needs restraint. Everyone vents their usual grievances online. It can be entertained, and it can be decompressed.
You don’t need to be responsible online. Now there is no real-name system on the Internet. You don’t need to be responsible. No one knows. So you can support what you think is right and scold the things that you feel uncomfortable. Although it is only the support of the keyboard man, you feel satisfied. .
Jackie Chan said something like this in a documentary of his own. It probably means: never need to stand in for some high-risk actions (jumping from a building, jumping from a car, hanging outside the car, jumping off a cliff, not to mention one by one, too many) , Because he knew that those actions were dangerous, the doubles were human, and the pay was low, so he completed those particularly dangerous actions himself, especially the last jump from the cliff in "Dragon Brother and Tiger", which was directly taken by Hong Kong All insurance companies were blacklisted. No insurance company in China dared to insure this action. In the end, it was only after using the relationship in the United States that Jackie Chan completed that wonderful leap.
And the phrase "Never use a substitute", it was deliberately interpreted by someone deliberately that "Jackie Chan never needs a substitute" in filming. There is no substitute for filming, and there is a big difference in essence from dangerous actions.
A movie requires a lot of people’s efforts, and a stand-in is indispensable. Qian Jiale once replaced Jackie Chan to complete the whirlwind leg. Only Qian Jiale can do this action, Jackie Chan can’t, or what he did is not gorgeous or beautiful, in order to pursue perfection. , Jackie Chan definitely doesn't know how to kick that kick, so Qian Jiale was used, but many people spray Jackie Chan "never need a substitute" for this. As the memory of our generation, Jackie Chan is also the first Oscar for life-time achievements of the Chinese movie star. He is regarded as a god-like person by countless foreigners. This is our pride.
2) Satisfy the psychological requirements
According to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs theory, people then solve the problem of food, clothing, housing and transportation, and meet their physical needs, so they have higher standards, so the network keyboard just meets their third and fourth levels Layer needs.
The third level: social needs, people are grouped together, it is very scary to live alone without socializing, therefore, socializing is a very important point of human needs.
On the Internet, they express their opinions on hot issues, get others' likes, attentions, and comments, so that they find a group of like-minded people. These needs that may not be met in the real world have been met.
The fourth level: the need for respect. Everyone hopes to get the respect of others. This can be seen everywhere in our lives. It is also an infinite honor to be respected by others.
as a network keyboardXia, a touch of the keyboard gave pointers to the incident, so many people liked and commented, enjoyed the praise and respect of others.
, as a network keyboard man, just meets the needs of the third and fourth layers. People are social needs, people need to group together, people on the Internet, usually lonely, no one will give you feedback, opinions on time, publish So many people like and comment. For example, when commenting on Lang Lang’s Weibo, there are 2,314 likes and 256 replies, which just meets the needs of social interaction, and the positive feedback just meets the need for respect.
3) Show moral superiority
You can show moral superiority online, which is commonly known as the Virgin Bitch. No matter what happens, you have to forgive it. Guo Degang has a famous statement: At the time, I hated the kind of not understanding anything, just Advise you to be a generous person, stay away from him, it will hurt you when thunder strikes him.
saw the strong confronting the weak in the news, no matter who was right or wrong, he came up with sympathy for the weak.
In the news last year, Mr. Zhang from Changzhou took his wife and children to an Audi 4S store to see the car. Unexpectedly, his 10-year-old son started playing in the store while his parents were not paying attention. The toy with sharp edges and corners rubbed against the show car. Including A3, A6, Q5, Q7 in the exhibition hall and A4, A5, A8 and TT outside the exhibition hall, there are 16 scratches in total. After the incident, the staff of the 4S shop found these scars and immediately called the police to find the parents of Xiong's child and claim more than 200,000 yuan. After three court trials, the two parties reached an agreement that the parents of the bear child should compensate the 4S shop for various losses totaling 70,000 yuan. Someone on
said "Bear kid, forget it", you should forgive me, anyway, you don’t have to pay for it yourself, just install it, and say something for help, and it feels like you have moved to someone on your
Weibo everywhere. There is a group of people who are outraged and filled with indignation. They are slamming down on what they think are the so-called bad guys and they are screaming for social ills.
But these people who seem to have a strong sense of existence can't find them in reality.
Someone jumped in the line when buying food, but they pretended not to see it; someone shouted to catch a thief on
street, and they were selectively deaf; someone fell into the water at
, and they first took a video on the shore and posted it to the circle of friends to get attention. Do you still remember last year's scolding group, fancy scolding group sweeping the Internet, and its popularity even has the saying that "if you don't add it, you are not a gangster". In these groups, they scold if they don't agree with each other, and there are various large-scale insults.
And this year, the development department is now in the Kuaiququn, which shows that the young people not only need feedback, but also positive feedback, which is encouragement and comfort. The development of the
mobile Internet has given us more convenient means of communication. Wechat is full of acquaintances, and everyone is afraid to be presumptuous. Many people have not updated their circle of friends. The development of Weibo and Douyin has given us more opportunities to communicate with strangers, but these platforms have satisfied our onlookers, but have not given us feedback. No matter which platform, the more fans, the more comments, likes, and other feedbacks.
Who has more fans? Celebrities, Internet celebrities, all kinds of big V, in short, all have thresholds, but as an ordinary member?
Take Weibo as an example. Stars have millions and tens of millions of fans who send a Weibo, and people reply and forward in a few years, while ordinary people post a Weibo, which is basically no one cares about.
So when you browse Weibo, play Douyin, watch live broadcasts, or watch headlines, you are all consuming content and passing the time, but there is no feedback, let alone positive feedback, so you feel lonely when you play.
Life and work are unsatisfactory. Looking for a sense of presence on the Internet, whether it is to criticize or exaggerate groups, is for the sense of existence. As a keyboard man, as long as you comment on popular events, you can get a lot of praise. Comment and brush up on my own presence.
can also vent one's dissatisfaction. In real life, if you are wronged, you can swear casually on the Internet, which solves the problem of "no way to vent". As the saying goes, "slaps people without slaps in the face, curses without revealing shortcomings" exactly reveals the weakness of human nature. In real life, if you openly scold a stranger, you will definitely be looked down upon, but online scolding is a solution.Solving this problem has met the instinctive needs of many people.
5) This has become a business
Of course there are also people who rely on these words to gain attention, have a sense of presence on the Internet, and make these into a business. Their eyes are only traffic, no right or wrong, can bring The flow is good. The
network has given us convenience, but it has also become a weapon they use to create gimmicks, various hype tools, using the network keyboard man, to stir up topics, attract fans, and then harvest.
3 How can you not be a network keyboard man
Goethe once said: " all opposition will lead to negation, and the result of negation is nothingness. If I see bad and say bad, what benefit can I get? If the good is said to be bad, the harm can be great. If you really want to achieve a career, don’t curse, don’t worry about things that are upside down, but should always do the right things, because of the need It’s not destroying, but building. Building will make human beings feel pure happiness. " All the opinions expressed for opposition are ultimately nothing. So how can we not be led by others and become a cyber keyboard man?
1) Attention is both righteous and influential.
For popular incidents, we need to pay attention. Only when we pay attention can we have a chance to solve them. Many big incidents are paid attention to by a large number of netizens. solve.
A person named Zhou Zhenglong took a photo of a South China tiger (South China tigers are rare now, very rare, and if you can take a photo, it’s amazing. Zhou Zhenglong also received 20,000 from the state for this photo. Yuan reward), who knew that the tiger in this photo was cut from the New Year picture, which means that it was synthesized by Zhou Zhenglong himself. The fake photos and the laughter and curse of the keyboard men can indeed affect the public more or less With regard to the incident's attitude, the acne-like idiom "Zhenglong beat the tiger" appeared. This fraud time attracted a lot of attention from netizens, and finally a group of fraud-related personnel were dealt with. The
attention has had an impact. Under everyone’s discussion, the matter has attracted attention, and there will be more follow-ups, and the matter may be resolved.
2) Let the bullets fly for a while, wait for the truth of the matter, do not rush to conclusions
For popular events, do not rush to stand in line, do not rush to express opinions, so that there will be no reversal, reversal, and reversal of the face. Things . As the truth of more and more things are exposed, you must understand the whole truth. You can have your own opinion instead of being carried away by emotions on the Internet, or taken away by the big V, without thinking about it. Followed the forwarding and swiping the screen, but was beaten by various inverted and inverted views.
Independent thinking is to have one's own opinions, not everyone's opinion, and can be established systematically to express one's own opinions and opinions. Independent thinking power determines a person's competitiveness. Without careful thought of opinions, you can neither gain the trust of others, nor influence, nor achieve any results.
Regarding independent thinking, you can refer to: Establish critical thinking and become an independent thinker, so that you will not blindly follow blind faith. People say
3) Put down the keyboard and make more friends
Whether you are looking for a sense of existence on the Internet or venting in the online world My dissatisfaction is actually nothing but nothingness. The best sense of presence should be to put down the keyboard, make more friends, and find your own presence in the exchange and collision with friends. Go out and chat with friends more, so you can vent your dissatisfaction, these are better than online.
4) Remember, morality is to demand oneself, and the law is to demand others'
morality. In the connotation of the word
morality, there is a law called the "law of freedom", that is, all freedoms that do not violate the freedom of others should be protected. As long as it has nothing to do with others and does not infringe on the freedom and interests of others, it should not be considered immoral, evil, shameful, and should not be subjected to any violent interference orPublic opinion condemned.
Regarding morality, this is to demand oneself, not to judge others morally, hold the mentality that oneself thinks oneself is moral, and look at others superiorly. Whenever others do not meet the moral standards in his heart, they will accuse and attack from the height of morality.
A man who ate instant noodles on the high-speed train was angry with the woman in the same compartment. "You can't let you eat it, right?" The staff said that instant noodles are generally not sold on high-speed trains and high-speed trains. If you bring them yourself If there are no regulations on high-speed trains and high-speed trains. On the high-speed rail, if you are hungry for more than 4 hours and don’t want to eat cold bread, and the fast food on the high-speed rail is expensive, instant noodles are the best food to satisfy your hunger. If you think instant noodles taste great, you can skip it, but you can’t stipulate others. can not eat.
Mr. Hu Shi once said: "A dirty country, if everyone talks about the rules instead of talking about morals, it will eventually become a normal country with a human touch, and morals will naturally return; a clean country, if everyone Talk about ethics without rules, talk about nobility, talk about ethics every day when nothing is wrong, everyone will be selfless, and eventually this country will degenerate into a dirty country full of hypocrites. ” So don’t judge morals, just follow the rules.
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on the Internet, in popular incidents, we have seen a variety of comments, one of which is the keyboard man's comments, they stand on the commanding heights of morality, or they are partly indiscriminate, and directly scolded , We can just look at it as a joke and laugh it off.
Of course, we must always remind ourselves not to be an online keyboard man. We must pay attention to events. Attention is influence, which can promote social progress. But don't stand in line when you come up, think independently, and don't be led by others. Morality is used to demand oneself, not to examine others. Put down the keyboard and make more friends, you can experience poetry and the distance, and you will not become a keyboard man.
Finally, Goethe’s words come to the end: " Don’t say that reality lacks poetry, the world is so vast and wide, and life is so colorful. If you don’t hold the world in your heart, you will always be a blind man. All research and experience will only be laborious. Reactive, waste of effort. Light exists and colors surround us; but if we don’t have light and color in our own eyes, then we won’t notice such things outside of us."
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