We don’t know how many people we have to meet to meet the right person. There is a saying that goes like this: Love is not the whole of life after all. We have to survive and have all kinds of things to do. After all, love is a luxury, and it can't be met. Some enter into marriage, while others choose to be single or temporarily live single.
Many people have rich experience in love and can be called "love players", but there are also many people who have zero love experience, which is a "white paper of love". After all, diversity is the essence of life. At 21:10 this Sunday evening, Jiangsu Satellite TV’s "New Blind Date Conference" had a lively discussion. What is the experience of having too many loves? If there is no love experience, do you mind if the other party speaks out?
According to the survey data of Zhenai.com, nearly 70% of single men and women want each other's love experience "no more than 5 times" when choosing a spouse, while the remaining 30% said they would not "choose and choose" on each other's love experience. People who don't have any love experience are more strict, they all set the "maximum". The data shows that nearly half of people with zero love experience expressed their hope that their counterparts would have "no more than 3 love experiences."
When you fall in love more often, you will meet more people. You will meet all kinds of people with different personalities. As a result, you will know more and more people. You will know when the other person is angry. You will know when the other party needs you, and you also know how to make the other person happy, but because there are too many loves, you don’t want to spend too much time loving each other, and you don’t want to pay. You mind if you love too much person?
But on the other hand, whether you are a man or a woman, if you haven't talked about a relationship after adulthood, it will definitely attract others' attention, or it will make others think it is unusual. It is very tiring to interact with people with zero love experience. The two are likely to be out of sync and not on the same channel. For example, facing special anniversaries such as Valentine's Day, Chinese Valentine's Day, and birthdays, people who have never been in love may not take it seriously. Whether
will fall in love is not directly related to the number of dating times. A person who cares about emotions understands what love is when you have a relationship with someone. People who don’t care about emotions will not understand what love is even if they are in love with 100 people 100 times. Devotion, determination and respect are the most stable cornerstones of love.
The famous British writer Wilde once said: "Many people will never meet the true love of their dreams in their entire lives. They will only choose to find someone to raise each other because they are afraid of dying alone."
is the most basic factor in the hearts of most people. It is sincerity. Without sincerity, everything else cannot go on. In the world of emotions, faced with complex personalities and different people, they will get along with a different relationship history, so your own inner choice is the most important, not the question of whether it is long or not.
At 21:10 this Sunday evening, what are the opinions of the male and female guests at the "New Blind Date Conference" on Jiangsu Satellite TV on this issue? Are you willing to choose "love players" or "love white paper"?
Yangzi Evening News reporter Zhang Yan
