little girl: Dad, the little yellow flower outside the train is so pretty! Look! Look!
Dad: Yes, a lot of little yellow flowers! The female passenger beside
: kid! It's a pink flower, not yellow, it's so big, why can't we tell the difference between yellow and pink?
little girl: Oh!
Dad: This is the first time my daughter has seen flowers. She was a blind boy before, and just after the operation, she could see some blurry light and shadow.
This is a true story in my memory many years ago. The end of the story is very simple. No matter how dad coaxed the little girl, she never laughed again and she was depressed and speechless.
lives clearly, and can't tolerate "ridicule" directly at people's hearts! Because it's not "true" at all! Even hypocritical and terrible! The "truth" of standing on the sidelines of unknown reasons is not another kind of silent "hostility"!
is a fable, and you will appreciate it together.
A pig, a sheep and a dairy cow are kept in the same corral. One time, the shepherd caught the piglet, and it fought fiercely.
Sheep and cows said with disgust: Shepherds often catch us, we don't yell.
Xiaozhu heard angrily and returned: He catches you only for your hair and breast milk, but he wants my life to catch me!
has different positions, so how can you feel the same. Your so-called "strong, courageous, unconcerned" publicity, in the eyes of others, is a life-threatening catastrophe. Not at one level of comparison, why do you "talk about it"?
Life is a kaleidoscope. There are the "worldliness" that you are familiar with, and there are also "absurd things" that disturb and disturb the flowers! There are too many people who can "stand on the sidelines" because of the affair! I dare to ask, "Did you get a face today?"
The entertainment industry is really a magical place of "no play, no fun". Every day, the stars of all walks of life, the gods and the gods, "gather into battle" like a battle, really make people "eye-sighted" Open", "Can't laugh or cry"!
The entertainment industry in April continued the past "freaks and fires". Before, there was the president’s wife, who was to prove that the "palace position" was torn apart by the public. Later, there was a 9-year relationship that turned out to be just a "wishful thinking" "slag man's appearance". After you sing the rhythm of my debut, everyone who eats melons will also sigh! "Well! This time is a bit busy!"
Counting down these news, no matter the parties involved or the parties involved, it seems that they have been prepared to "win people's hearts". However, as an unqualified junior spectator, I prefer to sort out the internal cause and effect of the development of things to this point. After all, in my opinion, it is an outsider, even a senior spectator, that is always appropriate to learn from others and discipline myself. Identity position!
Don't persuade anyone to be generous, you are not him, and you can never experience his sadness! There is also no need to "hunt down", there is a "party" who condemns before, and a "self-prestige" who has "law" behind. Why bother, let your so-called justice be contaminated with "hostility"? !
Another true story that happened in Taiwan more than ten years ago, I will share with you.
An ordinary family of four in Tainan. The mother lives with the two brothers and the eldest daughter-in-law. The eldest son is away for business all the year round, so the "uncle and sister-in-law" who get along day and night secretly pass the tune. One day, the eldest son went home to save his relatives. He happened to ran into the "snap" between his wife and his younger brother. Then the two brothers fought. During a fight, the younger brother missed and killed his brother. The police came to investigate, and the mother who saw everything in his eyes, said, "It was my eldest son who accidentally hit the iron gate in the back of his head and died. It has nothing to do with my younger son!" The daughter-in-law also answered from the side repeatedly. The ending of the
story is self-explanatory. The youngest son married his widow’s sister-in-law, and the old mother lived with them, and soon she was holding her grandson who was thinking about it.
just saw this storyAt that time, I was still young, and I only remembered that my heart was frustrated at that time! Blame the mother's "unreasonable" partiality! The sad experience of poor eldest son! However, as I grow older and experience more abundantly, my heart's understanding of the mother in the story becomes more clear and profound. Yes, as she said when she was critically ill, "What if I have lost a son, do I have to let the other die too?"
There are too many "mother" dilemmas and positions in life. Meditate and meditate, are all our standpoints of justice that we think "yes" really right? Still difficult to judge by right and wrong? Standing by, is it a kind of "blindness" in itself? !
"The earth does not give birth to nameless grass, and the sky does not fall to useless people." We have our own missions, and easily become others' "people in the game". It will be difficult for us to have reason and sobriety again! Be the "master" of your own life, without distraction and morality, and without censure and humor. Time is merciless, and lives in return!
Xu is getting older and is no longer as sensitive to the "rights and wrongs" involved in human affairs. The distraction of "Zhanjian Tianya" is missing, and a little more, the peace bestowed by the years. Due to the limited life experience, the interpretation of "Qingqi" has also reduced a bit of attachment, or in other words, "breaking attachment"!
is not a "person in the game, ignore the affairs"! Time is the most fair, give time and time, and then look back, everything will be the same. Not standing on the sidelines is not to let you know what is right and what is wrong, and there is no emotional ups and downs, but to change to a more suitable position to see the most true people, the most true things, and the most true feelings!
Years live up to Tianxin, life live up to its beauty! Live to understand! With relatives and friends and sentient beings!
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