When you complain about why life is unsatisfactory, you should also ask yourself whether you have been "ruthless" with your life? It is not terrible that others are better than you. What's terrible is that people who are better than you are still working hard, but you choose ease. In life, only by learning these three kinds of "ruthlessness" can you stand stronger and stronger, and the road will be wider and wider.
1. Be cruel and treat yourself.
Do you often complain about the current poor living conditions and low work pay? Do you want to escape the world and live your perfect self? You have to think about whether you have both ability and political integrity, standing on Zhuge Liang's straw boat waiting for the east wind. When
meets with friends, you see that they can sing and dance, kind and humorous, do you just sit on the side and laugh happily and then force a smile. Perhaps, you will bow your head in silence, secretly feeling in your heart, if yesterday, I was "cruel" to myself, that would be great!
be cruel, to yourself. It's not that you want to slap yourself severely every day, but that you want to set a direction and fight unswervingly. The so-called "cone hanging beams, piercing bones, gou Jian lying down for salaries, three thousand more can swallow Wu, is willing to let oneself exhausted, in the youngest years, hard work for school, in the age of wealth, for career Roll up your sleeves and do a great job.
regards every day as a subject three examination, and regards every day as a "life and death battle." Before we have accumulated enough strength, we will not relax a bit and fight hard. To touch the world, to work hard to do nothing.
Dong Qing said: "I always believe that all the books I have read will not be read in vain, and it will always help me perform better on a certain occasion in the future." The same
, I believe that every time you make a solid contribution, you will achieve your extraordinary life.
2. Be cruel and treat others. The ideal interpersonal relationship of
is: "If you respect me a foot, I will respect you. The grace of dripping water will always be rewarded by the spring.” But the real society tends to go against the trend. You are good to everyone without reservation, but you can’t get the same good.
be tough, treat others. First of all Learn to distinguish others. Some people hide a knife in a smile, a fire in the open, and a knife in the dark. Some people seem approachable, but they are actually caressing about others; some people appear extremely enthusiastic when you are profitable; When encountering setbacks, I immediately turned around, ignored them, and even became the person who "fallen into trouble", such as Jia Yucun in "A Dream of Red Mansions". If you are good to me, I will treat you twice; if you are not good to me, I will not A tooth for a tooth is not polite; life is not to please anyone, nor to accommodate anyone.
be cruel, to others. Secondly, you must know how to say "no." For people who look down on themselves, absolutely can't be a superficial "Unity and amicable" and blindly be an "good old man" and flattery. Since you are arrogant, why should I keep my breath?
Be cruel, to others, but also to know how to retaliate against those who hurt yourself. Revenge is not Fists and feet hurt people behind you, but you have to live a more exciting life through your own efforts.
3. Be cruel, to yesterday.
No matter how beautiful yesterday is, you can’t go back in a hurry. No matter how embarrassed yesterday, No matter how big the matter is, it has become a story today, and the hardships and difficulties have been stepped underfoot.
Yesterday’s past, like a cloud of smoke, has long been floating in the wind. "The wind has lived in the dust and the flowers are exhausted." Let yourself miss again and again.
be cruel, forget yesterday, from today, I officially worship life as a teacher. Be cruel, forget yesterday, because there is only one way left for tomorrow! Fate will give you a chance, destiny It will give you a chance. Be cruel. For yesterday, you can turn around gorgeously.
The road you choose, even if you kneel, you have to walk, as long as you stand up one more time than you fall down. Life, too Will usher in life in the turn of the game.
