Before, I wrote a film review of "Three Lives III Pillow Book", criticizing it for many unreasonable points. I was planning to give up this script, but later I found that it became sweeter.
Of course, the most fascinating thing is the interaction between Feng Jiu and Dijun, which can almost make people ignore all the bad things.
When all the domestic dramas can be pissed off, this drama can be regarded as a clear stream. When watching the drama, the aunt laughed throughout the whole process. It was really sweet, so sweet and so sweet.
can now see the finale in advance on demand, but it will take two weeks for VIPs to see the finale. I bought the VIP without any promise, and also bought advance on demand.
Ifis so good in front of the show, it won't be scored so low, and it won't make many people feel uncomfortable. The first dozen episodes are really not good.
Compared with "Three Lives Three Worlds Ten Miles of Peach Blossom", this drama is a bit sweeter, even if it is the abuse part, it still feels sweet. Anyway, as long as you see Feng Jiu and Dijun together, no matter how sweet it is.
all say that women chase men's interlayer yarn, but Fengjiu's road to chase the emperor is really long and tortuous. Fortunately, he finally caught up. The emperor really spoiled his wife. It's no wonder that many female fairies want to marry him.
The emperoris really an ideal candidate for her husband. He has a high level of cultivation, is responsible, and the key is not easy to approach female sex. He is a particularly principled person with a high bottom line.
Of course, Feng Jiu is also worthy of such a good man, because she is very good and has many advantages, which is why the emperor will be tempted.
In the process of chasing her husband, Feng Jiu did a few things very well, which is worth learning from the girl who loves her.
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Don’t complain when paying, learn to stop loss in time
I wrote an article last time, saying that in the relationship, the most important thing for is to either don't give or complain. At that time, also took Feng Jiu as an example, saying that she silently paid a lot for the emperor, and the people around her were worthless for her and often complained in her ears.
But she never complained.
She can digest these negative effects well in her heart. She didn't get the response from the emperor for her efforts. What she thought was that since the emperor saved her anyway, she was meant to repay her.
Therefore, even if she paid a lot for the emperor, she almost took her life several times, and the emperor did not respond, she would not feel that she was wronged.
Jiheng is exactly the opposite of Feng Jiu. She didn’t give anything at all. The emperor had always been doing things for her, but her love for the emperor did not get a response, and her heart was full of resentment. Not only was she unhappy, she finally used her dead father. Come to threaten the emperor, and let him not marry the emperor.
The behavior ofcompletely angered the emperor, and he never felt disgusted with her.
The reason whyhas such a radical behavior is actually unwilling. Why do you ignore me when I love you? Why can't you see me?
Many people hate because of love, but that's how they actually came.
But, who stipulates that if you give, others must accept, and if you love others, others must love you as well?
If someone pays for you every day, why don't you drive him away and force you to love him as well, will you feel terrible?
Thinking about it in this way, you will understand that it is normal that love cannot be desired. You have to let others love you too, to be really annoying.
In the process of chasing love, calculate your tolerance. If the worst result is that you pay a lot and the other party does not respond, do you still want to pay? Give if you can accept, don't give if you can't accept.
Before giving each time, Feng Jiu considered the worst result. She felt that she could accept it, so she did it.
In this way, even if the pursuit of love fails, you will not become a grudge, you will complain when you see someone, and you will speak ill of the other person.
Of course, you must pay with a degree and know how to stop losses in time.
Fengjiu has never received a response from the emperor. He was still scarred, so he withdrew in time, decided not to pay any more, and gave up the delusion.
later became the emperor running after her. If it wasn't for the emperor to chase her back, maybe the two of them were really cold. After all, one person keeps givingUnrealistic, it is important to stop loss in time.
When you have been paying for the other party without responding, the most likely reason is that he has no intention of you at all, so don't be persistent, otherwise the result may be miserable.
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own things don’t get rid of the pot
Emperor has a good impression of Feng Jiu. Feng Jiu said that she is Qingqiu Emperor Ji. She has to be responsible, and she has to take care of everything she should do.
Although Feng Jiu is playful, he will definitely do well in his own business.
She wanted to save Ye Qingti, but did not ask Dijun for help. She met Ye Qingti because she accompanied the emperor to the world. To be honest, the relationship between the emperor and Ye Qingti was better, and Ye Qingti died to save the emperor. It is reasonable and easier for the emperor to help this.
But Feng Jiu felt that this was the favor she owed herself, and she needed to pay it back. So she took part in the competition, practiced day and night, and wanted to win the championship and get the pinball fruit.
Even if the emperor has fallen in love with her later, she is willing to share everything for her and is willing to help her, she still has to do it herself.
The sword box used in the military collection ceremony, Ming Ming Emperor can easily make it for her, but she must make it herself. Others didn't understand, and asked her why she didn't act like a baby with the emperor and asked the emperor to help her. She said that she didn't want to become a waste because of the emperor.
There are many things, she accepts the help of the emperor, but will not completely leave it to the emperor.
For example, if she wants to win Pin Poguo, she accepts the emperor's guidance on the cultivation level, thought about the military collection ceremony, and accepts the emperor's guidance. But she would not think that the emperor should help her do all this.
The downside ofis that she will get a little tired, but the benefits are obvious. She keeps improving her cultivation and has won the respect of many people on her own.
Once a lot of people have a boyfriend, they feel that they should do everything for themselves, and they can't help but make things happen. However, life is your own, and many things must be done by yourself.
Doing housework and caring about you should be what you should, but in other aspects, especially in career, he can guide you, but he can't do it for you.
If he did all of it, the result would be that you have less and less right to speak and stop growing.
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Fengjiu has many friends and many hobbies. The advantage is that there are people talking at all times. Even if she encounters setbacks in love, she will not remain addicted. When the emperor left, she would not feel that life was too difficult.
She has her own things to do. Even when she is sad, she doesn't use wine to seduce her sorrows, but does what she should do.
On the contrary, the emperor was more hurt when she saw her so calmly.
The thing that many people admire Feng Jiu most is that she has a lot of love, and she has been loved by love since she was a child. This kind of environment generally creates two kinds of people, one is the solo princess, and the other is Feng Jiu, who is willing to take care of the feelings of others, can accept others' shortcomings, and is willing to express love.
Whether it is with friends or with emperor, she is a more loving person and can make others feel.
For example, she makes a lot of sugar foxes, not only for the emperor, but also for all those who have good relationships. She will use practical actions to express love and speak out.
People likewill of course get a lot of love feedback.
Many people express the opposite way. They obviously like someone, but they are very harsh and critical of him. This will only discourage others and dare not approach.
