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Many people follow "Perfect Relationship", saying that Chen Shu is the only reason they keep watching.
, Stella, played by the goddess Chen Shu, is a powerful and resolute woman. She acted decisively, calmly and calmly, exuding the courage of a career elite in her gestures.
Her husband "endures hardships and stands hard work" and "safeguards himself", is an out-and-out "wife-eater" and "soft rice man", not only relying on Stella to improve his work performance, but also raising other women outside.
After Stella found out by accident, she did not cry or make trouble, and staged a wave of hardcore divorce operations.
first smashed his own car window glass with a fire extinguisher, and got the driving recorder and evidence that was beneficial to him. Then find someone to accurately locate, track her husband, and take a picture of him and Xiaosan together.
domineering to collect evidence. Faced with the sophistry of the junior three, angered, "Divorce is uncomfortable, right? You don’t look like an uneducated person. You are a woman. The sadness and pain you have experienced yourself must be experienced by another woman. Is it?"
decisively counted personal assets and asked her cheating husband to leave the house. "I can't take care of the future, but right now, I must go out of the house." Husband
rushed into the company and knelt down to Stella begging for forgiveness. In the face of his pleading, there are only two words: divorce.
is unfaithful once and will not be used for life
Some people may say that Stella is too strong and domineering. But I admire Stella's courage and admire this woman's determination, not pretentious, not artificial, not panicked, not messy, firm, and self-confident. It can be described as a textbook-like high EQ. The true high EQ of
is always calm.
The current Stella is not the kind of truly happy woman Suhei said, at least she has not managed her marriage well. But she is emotionally stable, has the ability to think independently, has a full spiritual world, is financially independent, does not rely on others, is aware of and manages her desires appropriately, which is worth learning for every woman.
A smart woman who knows what she should do, what she should not do, and what she can do without, she is financially and spiritually independent.
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Mentioned "Iron Lady" Dong Mingzhu, she is a special existence in the corporate world. Although
's life before the age of 36 was unremarkable, after the age of 36, she used her tenacity and perseverance to create an admirable workplace legend and walked out a path that others could not replicate.
Dong Mingzhu originally had a stable administrative job in a chemical research institute in Nanjing. After her husband died of illness, Dong Mingzhu lived alone with her 2-year-old son. In 1990, she resolutely quit her job, went south to work, and joined Gree Electric's predecessor Haili Air Conditioner Factory.
Dong Mingzhu, who doesn’t know what marketing is, started as a salesperson at the most basic level. With tenacity, diligence and sincerity, he recovered the debt of 420,000 yuan left by his predecessor in 40 days. In the second year after joining the company, his sales reached two. More than tens of millions, contributing one-eighth of the company's total turnover, her personal sales once soared to 36.5 million yuan, creating the sales myth of Gree.
In Gree's most difficult moment, she took up the post, and managed with an iron fist, through all the way, breaking into the global top 500, and becoming the "boss" of global household appliances.
Many people are aware of Dong Mingzhu and Lei Jun's "one dollar bet". In 2013, Lei Jun said that within five years, Xiaomi's turnover will exceed Gree. If it exceeds, I hope Dong Mingzhu can compensate him by one yuan. Dong Mingzhu responded domineeringly: "If it exceeds, I am willing to pay 1 billion." There was no suspense in the result of
, and Dong Mingzhu won.
The confidence that crushes everything comes from proper strength. As long as you have sufficient strength, you can still live well even if you are not attached to anyone.
Dong Mingzhu once said: Women who work hard in the workplace must first be able to be human. What is a human being? I have to do my best to do my best in my post. This is the goal.
If you want to be recognized by others, you must first recognize yourself, stick to your own principles, and think you are right.
A wise woman who knows how to exercise restraint, knows Zangfeng, and then plays a counter-attack brilliantly.
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My roommate Xiao, when he graduated from university, he went to Shanghai with his graduate student.
There is less and less contact between us. Until the endAfter ten years of classmates gathering, I saw Xiao again and listened to her ten-year story. In the first few years of
, she said that she lived very humble.
rented a house near her boyfriend's school in the first year to continue preparing for graduate students. Unfortunately, she failed again. Reluctantly, I found an accounting job in a small business, and I was preparing for exams while studying with me.
Rising rents, high consumption, limited wages, and betrayal by her boyfriend made this girl in a foreign land want to cry without tears.
She still chose to stay in Shanghai, and used the saved salary to study for an on-the-job graduate student majoring in accounting. After work, she took a certified public accountant and moved to the current accounting firm.
She said that in those three years, I had to get up to study before 5 o'clock. After a busy day at get off work, I continued to study after work and rushed to school on weekends. There are no holidays, no parties, only books, titles and papers to accompany you. The exhausted life once disappointed me, and I also thought about giving up, but what about it? I gave myself two choices, either continue to be a bear or become my own hero. In the eighth year of
graduation, she became a partner of the firm. Today, he is a senior partner of the firm.
For ten years, she has lived a small universe that is powerful and gentle.
There is no definite number of people. Be sure of yourself in an uncertain world, know how to be dazzling in the scenery, and know how to live in humbleness.
is not powerless, only not cruel enough to himself. Everyone starts to compete with himself from birth, and when he becomes better, other things will get better. The only one who can compete with himself to the end is always himself.
A wise woman, never entangled, spends her time on enhancing her experience, expanding her knowledge, and improving her skills, quietly topping out, and then amazing everyone.
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Speaking of a model of outstanding women, Yang Lan is definitely the first. She combines charm, intelligence and elegance, and is the embodiment of "beauty" in the minds of almost all women.
At the peak of her career, she chose to study abroad and start her own business. Nowadays, both careers and marriages have a good harvest. From CCTV host to China's elite female representative, it has infected two generations and also led two different screen eras.
Yang Lan once said that instead of living in a role assigned to us by others, should set its own standards, explore and create its own happiness.
Nowadays, with the advancement of society and culture, women are given more roles. Going to the hall and going to the kitchen is no longer the standard for measuring ideal women.
More and more women are not only more independent and resistant than men, but will also strive to develop in an all-round way, subvert conventions with mavericks, accept challenges with firmness and calmness, and rewrite their perfect images with a hard-core attitude.
There are often two paths in life, one is what you have to take, and the other is what you want to take. Only by taking the path that must be taken beautifully, can you have the opportunity to take the path you want to take.
Now if you don't work hard to live the life you want, you will waste a lot of time living a life you don't want in the future.
Women never need to rely on obedience to others to gain a sense of security, no need to belittle others to gain a sense of superiority, and no need to be seen to gain a sense of existence. Accumulating enough ability is the last word.
Learn to reconcile everything that appears in life. If you are a piece of rough jade, not only do your best to sculpt yourself, but also tolerate yourself with gravel and gravel. After all, strength is the biggest trump card.
hope that every woman is steady, down-to-earth, sober, independent, and informed.
May every woman be in a well, with stars in her heart, poetry in her eyes, and aspirations in the distance.
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