Author|Qiao Tangtang
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In recent days, various "Zheng Shuang Zhang Heng broke up", "Zheng Shuang court sued Zhang Heng", "Zhang Heng borrowed usury in the name of Zheng Shuang", "Zhang Heng intends to explode Zheng Shuang's black material"...
Although I don't I don't even know who Zhang Heng is when I chase the stars. All kinds of news about the stars are just treated as ordinary people who eat melons.
Until one day I saw a big V author I like and published an article. The content of the article is to analyze the reasons why Zheng Shuang has experienced ups and downs in love all the way. Her character, her sensitivity, and her pride in her bones, without a doubt, I think what she said is very reasonable.
But one thing that shocked me is that all her analysis angles are also from the perspective that Zheng Shuang was indeed smashed by Zhang Heng this time. Not only did she lose her love, she also broke her fortune, but she also made trouble to solve the problem through litigation. .
can’t help but wonder why Zheng Shuang’s love relationship was so vigorous at the beginning. After the breakup, each of her boyfriends was dissed into a "scumbag", and she became the poor victim?
With this curiosity, I went to watch the second season of the show "Daughters' Love" recorded by Zheng Shuang and Zhang Heng. They were very sweet at the beginning of the show
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The reporter asked the two of them who confessed first, and both of them replied in a tacit understanding that they came together naturally.
Zheng Shuang said that he met through a misunderstanding on the "I Am Armor" show, and then added WeChat to understand each other better, and then the two came together with a sense of conscience.
asked about the greatest feelings of being with Zhang Heng. Zheng Shuang said happily that Zhang Heng made his heart more powerful. Even Shuang's dad said that she became much more cheerful after being with Zhang Heng.
Zhang Heng also said that he would feel like he wants to go on with this girl on a whim.
In life, the two of them feed themselves sweetly from time to time, and even say all kinds of crooked and earthy love stories. Through the screen, they can feel their love is sweet and greasy.
Zheng Shuang said that he would not eat when he was fat. Zhang Heng expressed his distress and kept saying that he felt that Zheng Shuang was not fat.
Zhang Heng considered Zheng Shuang's place to live too far from work and the room was damp, so he helped her rent a new house with a simple and cozy layout and a large balcony. Zheng Shuang was very satisfied.
In fact, you can probably see from here that no matter whether they have broken up and tore each other, at least their relationship was a happy relationship at the beginning, and there is no situation in which one party deceives the other.
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How did the contradiction between the two appear?
Zhang Heng bought a bunch of new clothes for Zheng Shuang. Zheng Shuang tried it around and found that none of them liked them. Those clothes have a stronger sense of design and personality, while Zheng Shuang likes simple, capable and refreshing clothes.
Zheng Shuang directly said that the clothes were too bloated and not suitable for him. When he saw that all the clothes were rejected by Zheng Shuang, Zhang Heng was unhappy and said with anger, "I will never buy clothes again."
To make Zhang Heng happy, and said: "I must be that I don't look good enough for these clothes."
In fact, Zheng Shuang is still very proud and self-conscious, and all her thoughts are poured out to each other almost without scruples. , Only to the other side angry.
Zheng Shuang's self is also expressed in that Zhang Heng took samples of the company's clothes for Zheng Shuang to try on, but almost all of them were denied, and he also said that all the clothes can only be sold when he is satisfied.
Zhang Heng is really irritated this time. One point that Zhang Heng is very angry is that all the samples were moved forward with Zheng Shuang’s approval before, and they were suddenly overthrown by Zheng Shuang.It means that all the efforts of the entire team are scrapped.
Seeing Zhang Heng got angry and ignored him, Zheng Shuang cried silently again.
Zheng Shuang’s characteristic is that she can completely ignore other people’s contributions to her, and even take others’ contributions for granted. Her arrogance and self, in her bones, feel that she should always be treated as a little princess.
Don’t forget that people’s feelings are mutual. If one party feels that his efforts are not seen or cherished, he must be very hurt. Zhang Heng is like that.
However, the dramatic thing is that when Zheng Shuang found that Zhang Heng was angry and ignored her, she began to beg for forgiveness and forgiveness in a weak and humble manner.
But this kind of interaction is quite torture after all. The paying party is ignored and beaten more often. I believe that everyone will lose patience. Everyone is just a mortal, not a saint.
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Is Zhang Heng a scumbag? In the
show, there is an episode of Zhang Heng in order to take Zheng Shuang out to relax. He specially took her to Wuhan, saying that she would know more about the place where he was born and raised him, and he also took her to meet her own hair, which can be said to be very hard. Up.
Zhang Heng also helped Zheng Shuang organize a mobile dining car fan meeting. The ice cubes were gone. Zhang Heng stared at the scorching sun to fetch the ice cubes alone, while Zheng Shuang only needed to interact with fans beautifully.
Zheng Shuang’s birthday, Zhang Heng personally spent 2 months writing songs and singing to Zheng Shuang as a birthday present.
Traveling to Hangzhou Qiandao Lake B&B, Zhang Heng braved the hot sun and rode alone to pick up eggs, while Zheng Shuang could stay in the house leisurely.
I think these details are very precious, especially in today's impetuous society. Many people are looking for a quick career and talking about a quick love, and they rarely treat a relationship so sincerely and with all their efforts.
was actually affected by the rhythm of various media at the beginning. I almost watched the show with the mentality of seeing how bad Zhang Heng was, but I saw that Zhang Heng was actually the one who paid more.
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What about Zheng Shuang?
watched so many episodes, it seems that I haven't done anything special for my boyfriend.
Zheng Shuang accompanied Zhang Heng to Qiandao Lake. He was motion sick on the road. He felt that Zhang Heng hadn't taken care of his emotions and became upset. He got out of the car and slammed the door and left a sentence: "No one will come to coax me."
felt that it took two hours to go to Qiandao Lake, and I was so wronged and put on a cry.
cooks together tonight, Zheng Shuang all kinds of love to answer, can suddenly enter the house and close the door, leaving Zhang Heng blank.
After Zhang Heng finished the meal, he called Zheng Shuang to eat. In the middle of the meal, Zheng Shuang suddenly left again and went into the house to eat sunflower seeds. Zhang Heng was at a loss.
Zhang Heng had to go back to the house to accompany Zheng Shuang to eat sunflower seeds, trying his best to make Zheng Shuang happy.
Zheng Shuang asked Zhang Heng, how do you feel when you see me angry.
Zhang Heng answered honestly, I sometimes don't know why you are angry, and I feel at a loss.
has to say that Zheng Shuang’s princess is still very sick. She hopes that she will always be the center of the other party, and that all her small emotions can be noticed and taken care of by the other party.
But how can one know all the thoughts and emotions in another person? This is a very absurd and unrealistic fantasy.
Zheng Shuang’s self-centeredness, with the broadcast of the program, almostOverwhelming everyone's cognition. Early in the morning on the last day of the recording of
, Zheng Shuang packed up his luggage and left alone, leaving only a piece of paper: I am considering whether our relationship is too heavy.
then disappeared, leaving Zhang Heng panicked with a dazed face. Zhang Heng never answered the phone or WeChat.
even papi sauce said that is "out of the scope of making fun".
When Zhang Heng was so anxious to find people, what was Zheng Shuang doing? Zheng Shuang actually said with a smile that it was fun that Zhang Heng was anxious to find himself.
Seeing this, Sanguan was really broken, and she squeezed a cold sweat for Shuang's "playing" mentality.
It would be too hypocritical that a girl has to rely on this kind of "acting" behavior to win the attention and attention of the other party.
Even if you are beautiful, how many people can allow you to play again and again?
Everyone will be tired, upset, and tired. In this world, even parents cannot spoil themselves all the time, let alone a boyfriend?
To deal with the immaturity of intimacy, Zheng Shuang is beautiful, cute, and real. As a woman, she can’t help feeling pity for her. I sincerely hope that Zheng Shuang can become more mature and not be like a child, and there will be less princess disease. Tsundere, learn to take responsibility in intimate relationships.
Actually, in the final analysis, facing the passage of time, each of us should be sober and independent. We should learn to review and reflect on the mistakes we have made and the hardship we have experienced before.
Time not only empowers us to grow older, but also empowers us to grow, making us a better version of ourselves! Instead of
, time gives us only consumption!
