watched "Half Comedy" for the first time, I smiled and cried. Laughing is because of the dramatization of the plot, the strong sense of conflict in the story, and the full dedication of the actors in the play, and the crying because of reality and love. Yes, it is very simple, because it raises a common question: How can reality and love be balanced? This problem makes it difficult for me to restrain my emotions.
However, I am a little disappointed that the storyline lacks persuasiveness, and some settings are slightly more absolute. This may be similar to the previous work "Donkey Gets Water". The story is adapted from the happy twist stage play with a strong stage style. . However, apart from the fact that it is not close to the movie style, the story selection of this film is very prominent, which is in line with the team's consistent style of making audiences laugh with tears.
"Half Comedy" is a love entanglement about polygamous love, which involves the use of friendship, real interests and the gray area of human nature. From a few farce before a marriage, it has triggered a discussion about the real life.
Today, let’s analyze the enlightenment that the movie "Half Comedy" brings us about love and reality: Too much compromise on reality and desire cannot water the beautiful flower of love, but we need to follow the inner arrangements.
01. [Love is like a mirror in front of anyone]: No matter how clever you are, there will be nowhere to hide when the light of truth comes in.
Before the wedding began, Gao Lu saw her through the mirror. The story of
started with Zheng Duoduo, who was holding a golden key since she was a child. She has already set the marriage date with Gao Lu, the daughter of the family, and the two are ready to get married. However, he is reluctant to stay on his own with his turbulent nature. Continue to pick up girls, and even want to fulfill his wish before chasing the goddess Momo in middle school.
Friend Sun Tong lives with Zheng Duoduo. Sun Tong has a crush on Gao Lu, but because he is timid and afraid to confess, he has been living in the shadow of Zheng Duoduo. While Zheng Duoduo was teasing Momo, Gao Lu, who was in conflict with him, came to care. In order not to make Gao Lu sad, Sun Tong concealed and lied for Zheng Duoduo.
had to say that the cooperation of the two was seamless, Zheng Duoduo successfully slept to the goddess Momo, and Gao Lu did not notice. However, the paper could not hold the fire, and no amount of tricks could withstand the sweep of the truth. In the end, it was seen through and the wedding was messed up.
Zheng Duoduo and Gao Lu’s chaotic wedding scene
shows that Zheng Duoduo is clever and witty, and courageous. Sun Tong happens to be the opposite of him. It looks honest, and only promises. Such a combination of two people can be said to be a scumbag and an honest man, it is invincible. However, the opponent of this combination is someone like Mo Mo, who dares to fight and listen to his heart.
No one can control love, no matter whether he lives in the sky or in a puddle, the mirror of love is the same, showing the truest side of everyone. Zheng Duoduo thinks that he can control the audience, indulge his lust as he wants, without restraint, which is disloyal to Gao Lu and irresponsible for his own love.
Similarly, Sun Tong does not hesitate to please and obey Zheng Duoduo for his job, household registration, and future. In fact, he knows in his heart that some behaviors are wrong, but he can't take care of it, nor is it his turn to take care of it. What Sun Tong can do is to take care of his own life. He relies too much on all the help Zheng Duoduo has given. This kind of price does not require much cost but can be accomplished only by conscience. Reality pressured him to lower his head, and after he passed it once, he never looked up again. He pawned himself to reality, together with his love.
02. [Love meets reality is not an egg collides with a stone]: People can make mistakes and can be forgiven, but the only unacceptable compromise is bottomless.
Sun Tong, who didn't have the courage to confess to Gao Lu, became a dog of Zheng Duoduo, which made Momo wake up Sun Tong by scolding him. The mistakes made for Zheng Duoduo cannot be a stain on Sun Tong. This is what Momo expects from Sun Tong. However, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Because the forgiven person makes a mistake again, it will be a merciless sting to those who expect him.
lied to Zheng Duoduo again and again, and Sun Tong realized that he could not help himself. Sun Tong fell in love with this straightforward girl, and she let Sun Tong find her heart. This is the first time in Sun Tong's life that he is in charge of himself. It has nothing to do with Zheng Duoduo or with real life.
Sun Tong in the barExpress your heart to Momo
"If I am not me, if the fish can sing, I will definitely be by your side, not to make you sad; if I am not me, if the trees can fly, I will be with you By your side, don’t let you hurt. Don’t be sad, my dear girl, don’t let my world be bleak.”
I have reason to believe that this song is for the love of Sun Tong and Momo. This is not a scumbag. The story of the abandoned girl being taken over by an honest person, this is true love. This girl let Sun Tong find her inner thoughts, and she is guiding Sun Tong's independence and self-esteem. As an older leftover girl, Mo Mo was forced by her mother to make a blind date again and again. Sun Tong is also Mo Mo's another love attempt. Mo Mo is not reconciled to reality, she is still longing for love.
Zheng Duoduo's pressure and Sun Tong's mother forced Sun Tong to face the challenge of reality and love again, and he once again compromised with reality.
Momo persuaded Sun Tong to listen to his inner thoughts
Sun Tongxiang's bottomless compromise with reality was his own decision. He thought of himself as the most difficult situation and wanted to get Momo's sympathy and comfort again. Mo Mo is a person who will not succumb to reality. She will forgive Sun Tong's previous compromise, but this time she will not.
"I want you to lean on my shoulders, but I can't do this, because I am still me, like a rock cannot bloom, so I can only look at you from a distance and be sad with you."
Love requires two Individuals understand each other, rather than needing one person to grieve with another. This is the sadness of Sun Tong. He only saw the difficulties of life, but he was already used to his compromise with reality.
Reality is not the enemy of love. What really prevents love is our own inner choice. Facing reality and the choice of love, you and I may both be embarrassed, but please listen to your inner thoughts, because that is the correct answer.
03, [Love crystals need to be guarded by both sides]: The ending is perfect, don't take it too seriously, explosive changes are not a long-term strategy for chasing love. At the end of the
story, Sun Tong’s conscience was awakened again. He bravely uncovered Zheng Duoduo’s lies. He said that he wanted to live like a person. Zheng Duoduo’s wedding was not completed. Although the friendship between the two people ended, Sun Tong would lose the lie from Zheng A lot of everything, but Momo's return gave Sun Tong another life, a life of his own.
Momo and Sun Tong finally reconciled
But, what I want to say is, the ending of the film is perfect, don’t take it too seriously, even if this happens in life, Sun Tong and Momo’s love will not last long, because it has been buried. An invisible bomb, that is, the three views of two people are different:
"I have no way, people like you have no way to understand the situation of people like us, you are born in the sky, you are born with everything, I am born with water It's in the pit." Sun Tong accused Momo.
"I don't live in the sky, and I want to live a better life, but let me do this kind of thing, I can't do it." Momo said in tears.
This is a dialogue between the two in the hospital between facing reality and the choice of love. Sun Tong and Momo chose reality and love the other. In addition, in life, Zheng Duoduo may still marry Gao Lu. As long as he insists on apologizing and admitting his mistakes, people who love Zheng Duoduo like Gao Lu will feel soft. This is the reality we want to think about: Can explosive changes make love last? Not the perfect ending of the film.
"Half a Comedy" is a comedy staged by four people. More important than a comedy, it reveals the different attitudes of each person towards real life and love. In the city full of neon lights, and we are walking forward with our reality backpacks, how can we balance the relationship between reality and love? The answer is self-control, listen to the heart, work together, and not fear the reality.
①, first start from learning to reject reality and desire, and be a self-controlling person.
In the play, Sun Tong’s mother suggested that Momo said to Sun Tong: “Doing this kind of thing once will do this kind of thing for a lifetime. Today you can do it for work, tomorrow you can get promoted, and the day after tomorrow you will go to school for your children. Always make excuses for yourself to do disgusting things." Yes, in reality, once we let go of a hole and taste a certain sweetness, we will fall into it and cannot extricate ourselves.
Bernard Shaw once said: "Self-control is the instinct of the strongest." Facing the temptations in life, when we grow up, we must first control ourselves and prevent ourselves from becoming slaves of reality and desire. Many young people now say that love is hard to find, but they actually put a lot of labels on love, such as cars and houses. It was originally a pure love, and it had to be filled with material breath, not to say that material is not needed, but that it is unnecessary to compare with better material. You must know that desires are endless and there is nothing that people do not want.
②. Secondly, follow your own inner arrangements, not afraid of reality and future difficulties.
In Sun Tong's personal world, he has many concerns, including his career, survival and mother. The sorting of these things in his mind is higher than his own thoughts, because he has worked so hard to make this step from his hometown to Beijing. In the eyes of the 30-year-old Momo, she knew that the society was unclean, but she insisted on being the white pigeon detective. She had to speak out when she encountered something wrong, and was daring to try, not afraid of being hit.
You might say that reality is terrible, yes, it puts everyone in a dilemma. But the inner desire is the cruelty that can defeat the reality. Just like in the book "Listen to Your Inner Voice", Jobs gave us the advice of life, that is, to listen to our own inner voice.
Maybe, we can’t be another Jobs, but as long as we listen to our heart and release our true self, we can also reap success instead of fearing reality like Sun Tong. Excuses.
③. Finally, in the long bridge of love, only by encouraging and guarding each other can we go on.
Love is like a red rose, only if two people take care of it carefully, the feeling will be full of fragrance. In the play Zheng Duoduo did not consider Gao Lu's feelings, and Sun Tong did not consider Mo Mo's thoughts. How could such a love last?
emotional expert Tu Lei said in the program: "Love is about considering each other from the perspective of each other, understanding each other's behavior, don't be too stingy and praise, two people encourage each other to get along with each other." Momo has been encouraging Sun Tong From the heart, she looks forward to the change of Sun Tong, which is her cherish and guardian of this love. Finally, Sun Tong understood Mo Mo's words, expressed his thoughts bravely, got rid of the shackles of life and family, and gained love with Mo Mo.
How long have you not complimented your significant other? Just do it! Two people encourage each other and face difficulties together, believing that the rain of love will become more and more brilliant.
Love to take advantage of the present, be brave. Ending:
In fact, "Half a Comedy" tells only a small fragment of life, and there are countless similar stories. From the previous classic works of the happy twist team "Donkey Gets Water" and "The Unknown Man" to the current "Half Comedy", I have to admit that they are good at analyzing human nature in reality.
"Half a Comedy" tells us: watch a lively, don't be too big, maybe the next protagonist is us.
Life is half a comedy and half a tragedy. The more you want, the more things that bind you; the more lies you tell, the more thoroughly the dream will be destroyed. Like Zheng Duoduo and Sun Tong in the play, overly compromising reality and desire is actually an expression of irresponsibility for love, which will ultimately harm others and self. Now, let us re-examine ourselves, bravely listen to our own inner thoughts, and don't let love become a cowardly victim of your fear of reality. When
writes this, I can’t help but think of my brother’s widely circulated classic song "A Cut Plum": "Snowflakes flutter, the north wind whistle, standing proudly in the snow, only for the Iraqi people. , Love what I love without complaint or regret." Even though life is hard, my heart will not change.
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