Author|ajing editor|Xiao Xiao
There is a popular saying on the Internet: "Don't be afraid of the sky, and the earth is not afraid, I am afraid that Li Jiaqi will call OMG!" A lipstick brother can bring 3.5 million goods in a live broadcast. Behind this amazing number of
are countless girls who click to pay without blinking.
I don’t know when, as a girl, I am always reminded to be exquisite and be nice to myself. For lipsticks, you must buy a few of the latest shades, skin care products must use big brands, and bags must carry limited editions.
seems to have a brand-name addition, the whole person has the confidence, walk with wind. With material pride, oneself will make others more respectful.
However, when the financial strength cannot afford to buy the desire in the heart, many girls still sacrifice others to fill the current desperate desire.
Hao bought it for a while, who knows who is poor.
Swollen face not only can't fill the fat man, but it also hurts
A few days ago, I saw a friend go to Japan, her exquisite literature and art in her circle of friends, the full screen of beautiful food, everything looks beautiful, which is really enviable.
I commented below: "Yes, life is petty bourgeoisie!"
Not long after, she sent me a WeChat message: "What petty bourgeoisie! Look at my circle of friends, I'm worried. Why are you still spending next month! I’m going to eat soil. Woo..." I don’t know how to reply on the
phone, so I comforted her: You have fun over there, and money is spent anyway. Just go back and work hard to earn it!
There are many girls like Yingzi.
Some time ago, Qiqi said Li Yang Chaoyue said frankly: bought herself a dress of more than 700 when she had a monthly salary of 800, and the remaining 100 yuan was used as all the remaining living expenses.
was very happy at the beginning, and felt that I finally bought my beloved skirt. The feeling of wearing it seems to have the whole world.
However, when the landlord starts to urge to pay the rent, when he can't afford what he wants to eat, and when a simple item wants to pay for it seems too stretched.
discovered that the skirt on her body had deprived her of her basic quality of life, and when she looked at it, she didn't look so good. The
brand may give you a moment of glamour, confidence and satisfaction. But if you don’t want to match your financial ability, I suggest you don’t choose the desire for overdraft.
Some time ago, a new word called "exquisite and poor" appeared. As the name suggests, it roughly means that while living a refined life on the surface, the quality of life is actually very low.
I have such friends around me: I often go to high-end Internet celebrity restaurants to take pictures, and then order a table of extremely cheap food that I don't even want to eat, just to punch in the circle of friends.
Several hours of taking photos, editing pictures, and a beautiful circle of friends, showing outsiders their quiet time.
In reality, they hold more than 3,000 monthly wages, overdrafts and credit cards. They save money in their lives and make up for the wall. On the
social platform, the petty bourgeoisie, carrying LV and Starbucks in his hand, is reluctant to take a taxi when it rains in order to save money for buying big brands.
Since when, we need to use a delicate mask to disguise ourselves, rather than the generals we live but we must show others a particularly beautiful appearance.
The rest of your life is very expensive. I hope you have enough power to live your life.
Lu Xun once said: “As a woman, you should strive for economic independence first, and then you can talk about what you should strive for.”
In a rapidly changing world, no one can become your permanent Umbrella. In order to survive decently, there must be a number of assets to defend oneself. Why do
girls work hard to make money?
is probably to stop worrying about medical expenses when the parents are old. In order not to look at the faces of others, to be respected by everyone. In order to see something you like while shopping, you can buy it immediately regardless of the price.
In order to leave as soon as you are in a bad mood, you can quickly book air tickets and hotels. In order to be able to say proudly when meeting a good him: "You are good, I am not bad!"
is even betterPay for all your wishes and passions as much as possible, and don't depend on anyone.
z10 These are just gimmicks that businesses promote products to arouse consumers' desire to buy.
Being really good to yourself is not just to increase your material sense of superiority, but more importantly, at this precious age, you have to arm your brain with knowledge and enrich your soul with experience. The inner abundance and completeness of
has made you look confident and charming. That is the beauty that the material level cannot give you.
Bai Yansong said: "Reading does not guarantee that fate can treat you well, but reading more books can ensure that you can treat fate better."
In this anxious era, the word "fast" runs through all aspects of life.
Many people do things with too strong utilitarianism. Compared with reading books, which can't be effective in a short period of time, they are easy to give up and think reading is useless.
However, this is not the case.
All the books you have read will be integrated into your blood and life bit by bit. They may teach you to choose at an important moment in life, tell you the answer, and lead you bit by bit to the right track of life.
does not have to buy all the things you like, not every season's new products you have to have. Excessive indulgence will ruin you.
One day you will understand that the highest level of happiness in life is not indulgence, but inner peace and simplicity.
Huawei President Ren Zhengfei still chooses to take the bus when he travels. Yuan Longping is worth a hundred billion yuan but wears a 15 yuan shirt.
Zhou Runfa donated all his large amounts of property to the welfare home, while he lost his star aura, bought vegetables at the vegetable market, took the bus, and lived an ordinary life of an ordinary person.
However, they didn't see the slightest embarrassment from them, but they were respected by more people.
Frugality is to cultivate virtue, and frugality has become an advanced way of life.
After all, the tranquility rooted in the heart and the self-confidence in the face have never been a gift of material and skin.
, a popular sentence on the Internet before: "I want to have a lot of love, if not, then have a lot of money."
Because a lot of money brings you not only a more glamorous skin, a more refined life, but also a woman's thickest sense of security. It is about dignity, and it comes from independence.
Many times, money is freedom.
Many times, money is dignity.
For the rest of your life, I hope you manage yourself seriously, work hard to make money, have ambitions and aspirations, have dreams and practice.
