Chinese love, can it be rescued?
Young people are afraid of marriage, middle-aged divorce, old divorce, love is too late to talk, and kisses are faster than love.
The whole world is saying I love you, and the whole universe is looking for a red bean. Everyone is eager for love, and everyone is afraid of being hurt by love. Love has become the last straw for mankind in this era, and it is also a peerless poison.
seems to be overnight, except for emptying the shopping cart for the lover, the Chinese have forgotten how to express their sincerity. We learned to flirt each other, but we forgot about love.
, Feng Xiaogang, this old gun, has not forgotten.
He said, “It’s winter, warm a jug of good wine, talk about the past, don’t get bored, take a sip, and drink slowly.”
is a wine brewed by a mutual love, and the fragrance of the wine spreads along the movie, love It seems that I understand everything.
How did Feng Xiaogang photograph all Chinese love?
"Only Yun Knows". In the
5G era, love comes faster than the speed of light, and the same goes for the
5G era. The next romance film only takes one second, but it lasts forever but becomes more and more luxurious.
A set of marriage data shows that the national marriage rate in 2018 was 7.2%, the lowest since 2013; the divorce rate has risen for 15 consecutive years; the divorce rate is as high as 38%. When 100 couples register for marriage, 38 couples register for divorce.
Some media came out to slap their faces, saying that the data is too one-sided and that Chinese people don't like divorce so much. At most, the divorce rate is rising and the marriage rate is declining.
still seems to be saying: Chinese love is becoming more and more unreliable.
Looking at the entertainment industry, Shuangsong got divorced this year. Gu Hye-sun and her little wolfdog husband were torn apart. It was South Korea. The domestic article Ma Yili had fallen apart. Zheng Shuang suspected of breaking up. The traffic stars were so in love with variety shows. "Pills" in the next second, and finally fulfilled the flow and cultivated love. This generation of
can use emoticons, beautiful pictures, lyrics, videos, and web links to say love you. The local love story has never existed in the past, but love is like a large-scale performance of the collapse of a set of people, and the deception of domestic violence every day. Max out the circle of friends, greatly reducing the willingness of young people to love.
blind date? Don't go. Are you married? Don't want to, it's not worth it.
Jack Ma said, "The algorithm of marriage is finally'Forget it'."
can be regarded as love as if only the algorithm is left. This generation of young people directly-love, forget it.
What is Chinese love? Feng Xiaogang realized that
connects everything, but human beings are alone. Long live love, but life is real. Life is too tired, please feel free to love.
Feng Xiaogang has already photographed this point of Chinese love. In a word,
is the love of Chinese people. Romance is the face, and reality is the inner.
Feng Xiaogang has been a comedy director in the eyes of the audience for a long time, but his well-known comedy movies, without the hilarious shell, contain the core of Chinese love.
comes to Feng Xiaogang's love flashback.
2008's "If You Are the One" talks about "love but no love". Hsu Qi's smile can't get the heart of his ex-boyfriend. Qin Fen, played by Ge You, seems to embrace the beauty, but he understands that it's just "make do" It’s not the same as everyone else.” The beautiful Hokkaido scenes of the
movie are full of shadows of the emotional hesitation of modern urban men and women. Qin Fen, who has humorously integrated into the blind date era, laughs out the real sadness for urban men and women: dating is very convenient, but love is too difficult.
Uncle Ge in 1999's "Not See or Leave" is not so sad yet.
This is a love story between two Beijingers living in the United States. Although he has been playing poor, but the warm and touching feeling makes people bathed in California's warm sun. Ge You Xu Fan's last fierce tongue kiss scene that he thought was about to crash, Xu Fan's dentures were screamed out by Xu Fan, and the audience stroked their palms. Laugh, ridiculously at ease.
This scene is reminiscent of the scene in "Party A and Party B" in which Uncle Ge and Liu Bei uncovered their heads and bit an apple at the end of their wedding. The moment their lips touched, the actors laughed.
can be received by the audience.
This is the other side of Chinese love photographed by Feng Xiaogang. Whether in Beijing or in New York, it doesn’t matter whether you are laughing or cursing, you are still happy friends who meet in peace, laughed and made trouble.In the end, our Chinese love still reveals human fireworks.
But this is not enough to understand the love in Feng Xiaogang's heart. The original intention of director
is often hidden in his debut.
In "Forever Lost My Love" released in 1994, Guo Tao, Xu Fan and Ju Xue played a tragic love story in which individual driver Su Kai happened to meet flight attendant Lin Gege, who was about to get married and found that he was terminally ill. In order not to drag his lover, he chose to break up. For many years after
, Feng Xiaogang never filmed a tragic love story again. His dedication to love is also hidden in this movie.
In the past few years, the love of Chinese people in Feng Xiaogang's films has reality, self-interest, and calculation. It is precisely because of this imperfection that it shows the true appearance of love. His jokes fell out of the hearts of Chinese people. I was a little emotionally confused, and instead of concocting the dreams of a dream day trip, I took pictures of the life situation in the love of ordinary little people.
The love puzzle of Chinese people is not that love is imperfect, but how love is in imperfection.
always feel that Feng Xiaogang still hasn't finished saying what Feng Xiaogang wants to say about love.
This time, he was pretty clear.
"Holding the hand of life and death is broad," Huang Xuan played, I understood
Feng Xiaogang's love answer sheet, which is "Only Yun Knows".
What he wants to talk about this time is "grow old with children" in Chinese love.
After so many years of holding back the lead, Feng Xiaogang finally got rid of all the hippie smiles, and honestly expressed the love he yearned for.
He filmed the true story of his best friend.
Zhang Shu was Feng Xiaogang's comrade in the army when he was young, and Feng Xiaogang's partner for more than ten years. Why did
shoot this true story?
Feng Xiaogang said during the road show: I am 62 years old and want to make a good movie. Not everyone has a happy marriage and love, but everyone wants a happy love.
Is the love in "Only Yun Knows" happy?
This is the most critical issue of the movie. After solving this problem, the love of Chinese people will understand. When
filmed this story, Feng Xiaogang is no longer funny. The opening sentence of
"Xiaoyun, I have been waiting for you" has shaken people's hearts.
interpreted this story by Huang Xuan and Yang Caiyu. I know, what do you think of.
When I was watching "Fang Hua", what moved me the most was the scene where Hao Shuwen showed Liu Feng a photo many years later.
Hao Shuwen and Xiao Suizi first saw Lin Dingding's blessing photos, and they were sure that Liu Feng at this time would never want to love this woman anymore.
However, Liu Feng, played by Huang Xuan, took the photo and looked at Lin Dingding, whose appearance faded, but smiled slightly, as if the photo in his hand was the one Lin Dingding fell in love with when he sang "A Big River" Look like.
I think this is why Feng Xiaogang asked Huang Xuan to play Sui Dongfeng.
A movie in which love does not arise, it needs an actor who is always affectionate. The
movie is like the sunshine of New Zealand. It slowly spreads through the sunshine and forest to the audience. A familiar but not annoying Beijing boy meets a beautiful and generous girl in red. Everything It comes so naturally, love is "I will do my best to let you live the best life. I drink boiled water, you drink wine, I eat meat, you eat bird's nest".
But the story turns here-the lover is floating away like a cloud. The
movie has also reached another level here: Sui Dongfeng’s choice tells us what Chinese love is complete.
In the story of double flashback structure, middle-aged Sui Dongfeng decides to fulfill his last wish for his deceased wife. He takes his wife's ashes and travels all the way.
sad? But Feng Xiaogang's shots and music are still faint. There is no blood, no deliberate sensation, but a warmth after parting.
Looking at the sadness and firmness on Huang Xuan's face, the audience understands what the heroine Luo Yun once said to him, "Neither the house nor the car can bring me a sense of security, only you can give me a sense of security."
Huang Xuan mentioned the prototype character Zhang Shu during the road show and was always on the scene, crying when he watched it.
"The person who stayed halfway, bitter!" Huang Xuan understood the prototype character, and that love was evolved by himIn that piece of flute music, people can't cry under the greatest grief, and need to be released through something. After making so many movies, Feng Xiaogang no longer asks why two people who love each other can’t be together. What he wants to tell the audience is what love is.
For many young people in this era, such love is silly, but for Feng Xiaogang, it is to stick to the good things to the end.
Does anyone believe it?
really does.
is a lot.
Some people are reluctant to leave. A pair of old people, after watching them, still support each other, still not enough to stop in front of the screen. The audience was photographed and put on Weibo, leaving a pair of fuzzy figures in the lower left corner of the big screen.
Someone laughed. After reading my parents, I said, "My words are serious and serious, so I can live a good life." There was a string of hahahahaha, but the typewriter might actually have been secretly crying.
Someone cried and said that the movie "Like a bowl of hot sugar in a cold winter, it warms the stomach and the heart". Some people at
were taken aback and said, "So there is such a warm and beautiful love in reality." Some people at
envied them and said, "The older you get, the more you envy those couples who keep calm years and have a warm heart."
also Someone looked at others and cried, "The grandpa sitting next to me has grayed hair. I saw it alone. He frequently took off his glasses and wiped the tears from the corner of his eyes. It may have brought back some memories."
These cried and laughed. People who have lost may have seen their love. In the
5G era, love comes and goes like lightning, but true love can't even use fate. The
movie is not just a warm love story, but starts with love, believes in love, and finally transcends love to reach the truth of love.
In an age of sweet pet love where everyone is busy sprinkling sugar, the movie seems to be an alternative, and it takes the audience to taste the indifferent and subtle beauty.
It tells the audience the truth about Chinese love: it doesn't mean that everything is perfect in love. And it is the regret and helplessness it reveals, so it is more valuable.
Everyone says that love is "too difficult". It's too hard to live.
This is also the place where the movie impresses me, which is stronger than the average romance movie.
It does not mean that love can make life easier.
says: Love makes life more meaningful.
is like Sui Dongfeng, like Zhang Shu.
What is Chinese love? It is to find a perfection in the real world fireworks.
The last tearful audience should understand that Sui Dongfeng's love is complete. Because of the so-called "grow together with children",
does not count when two people live together until they are old.
lives with the thought of a person, and it is also our Chinese growing old together. Every day counts. The "cloud" in the name of the movie
has a vague connotation, just like in the hearts of too many people, the love of modern people is erratic, but "cloud" seems to be impermanent, but in fact it is the most permanent.
When Sui Dongfeng finally asked his lover to "follow the east wind", the way for the living to prove love is not to die for love, but to live well for you.
Someone may ask, is Sui Dongfeng's love worth it?
But love is not worth it.
Feng Xiaogang's wine made with love, top!
