The romantic drama "The Second Time Is Beautiful" starring Wang Ziwen and Zhang Luyi once again touched the audience and triggered a boom in ratings. In this play: The heroine An An, played by Wang Ziwen, gets married as soon as she graduates and leads a full-time wife life that other female college graduates envy.
The husband is young and handsome, has a successful career, and has a lovely son. An An, who thought she had already "layed down", was suddenly divorced. The reason is all due to her willfulness after marriage.
1, the first appearance of love is very beautiful.
In, An An and Yu Feifan University have fallen in love. At that time, An An was innocent and lovely, liked comics and fantasy, and regarded Yu Feifan as his prince charming.
is in the ivory tower: The couple feel that they have a relaxed and comfortable time in college, no work troubles, no family trivial matters, no social pressure, and only the impulse and joy of youth.
The red roses of Valentine's Day and the romantic night on her birthday finally put An An in a happy wedding dress before graduation. With excitement and pride, she walked into the siege of marriage earlier than her classmates.
Love can be met but cannot be sought. The near perfect love between An An and Yu Feihua made her intoxicated. An An has since regarded this man as everything to him, likes him, depends on him, and always sticks to him, hoping that the sweetness of love will be around By yourself.
2, after marriage, a woman cannot be immersed in love and refuse to grow up.
After marriage, An An didn't realize any changes in the relationship between her and Yu Feifan. She was still stubborn and naive, self-willed.
It’s just that their communication is gradually decreasing: men are busy with their work and career all day long, women are immersed in the sleek and comfortable life of housewives: chasing dramas, games, and acting as monsters.
Because men’s work, women are not interested, and men are not interested in things that women like. Not many meetings each month get in exchange for just one sentence: "Have you eaten?" This symbolic greeting.
Actually, their feelings have gradually faded from then on, but An An, who has not awakened from a dream, has not noticed that she still does her own way, regardless of the occasion, regardless of the time, and even when she is not happy, she even gives her husband who is busy at work. Dozens and hundreds of calls were made madly.
When a woman is in love before marriage, the occasional savage and willful will make a man think that you are very individual and cute, and he will choose to accommodate you regardless of the consequences.
However, after entering marriage, men have to work hard in society for the family. At this time, if you do not know how to advance and retreat, and refuse to change and grow, then the man's heart will only become farther and farther away from you.
3, for the sake of love, it is not advisable to give up your dreams.
Ann An is actually a very talented girl. She has a high talent for drawing. She won many famous comic awards in college. When she graduated, many companies asked her to sign.
Although she loves comics, she decisively chose to stand on the side of love on the balance of love and dreams, and her talents and dreams have since been hidden.
It wasn't until the seven-year itch of love and divorce to find a job again. When An An saw the long lines of college students competing for a job that she dismissed, she silently felt like she was lost. Talent and dreams. Fortunately, the housewife usually has plenty of time, and An An still knows how to write and draw, but her talent is not completely abandoned. This laid some foundation for her subsequent comeback.
Many women believe in the saying, "A good study is worse than a good marriage!" So many of them don't pay attention to cultivating their hobbies and abilities. In the face of the temptation of love or wealth, they can easily throw away their ideal paintbrushes and go to the material abyss.
As everyone knows, no matter how attractive bread is, it is no better than having a pair of dexterous hands. If you have strong abilities and amazing talents, you will naturally gain lasting respect in front of men. It is also necessary to achieve a balance between love and career.
4. For children, we should learn to grow and be responsible.
After An An and Yu Feifan got married, An An was headstrong. This relationship can still last for seven years. One important point is that they have the crystallization of love-sonZidoudou.
The Doudou inlooks cute, sensible and cute. He always likes to call his mother An Sister. Maybe in his heart, his mother is like a sister who has not grown up.
Although Yu Feifan is busy with his career, he still loves his son An An. However, every day at work, when he comes home exhausted, he always sees An An who is eating snacks while playing games, while his son Doudou has fallen asleep on the sofa, and is still next to him. There are snack boxes that mother and son have eaten.
This tired man wanted to return to a warm harbor to rest for a while, but he didn't want to see it but saw such a scene. How could he not despair in his heart? Later, An An was divorced, and her son was sentenced to custody of her husband. In order to fight for the custody of her son, she began to renew the courage to enter society and the workplace. At this time, her son became her motivation to set sail again.
As the saying goes: "Women are weak, but mothers are strong." Maternal love is the greatest emotion in the world. The story of "Meng Meng's Three Moves" has been passed down for thousands of years. Mothers can become very mature and brave for their children. Even at the expense of his own life.
Women who are new mothers should make themselves better for their children, become role models for them, and let them grow up happily.
Women should know: Men in marriage are extremely impatient compared to those in love, so after entering marriage, women must change their roles, pursue their dreams, strive to grow, and make themselves better. Too great a distance from this man, always remember that equality of status in marriage will win due respect!
