"Chinese Restaurant" deserves to be a textbook of high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry. The latest story of
is: a bloody storm that may unfold, but in a high emotional intelligence show, it turned into a joy for everyone.
I'm talking about Su Youpeng's response to Yang Zi's loss of "Left Ear".
In the "Chinese Restaurant" aired on the evening of October 4, Yang Zi revealed that he had interviewed Su Youpeng's film "Left Ear", and both roles were praised for acting well. "I thought it would be successful, but I didn't expect to wait again. The news is that the movie has started." Hahahahaha Yang Zi is also quite unburdened by idols, and other female celebrities will never tell the embarrassment that she died, so she said it out.
However, if Su Youpeng responds badly, the possibility of being torn by fans is quite high.
As a result, Yuanzu-level idol Su Youpeng used the sentence ""Right Ear" is gone, only "Right Foot"", which proves that Changhong is not accidental.
The entertainment circle is the Shura field, the reality show is the Shura field in the Shura field, and "Chinese Restaurant" is the highest level in the reality show, because the fairy editing of the mango table is always ready, but several people were born from here. Powerful high EQ players-reality shows magnify all kinds of undercurrents by a hundred times, but they are always able to smooth the boat and make everyone feel like a spring breeze.
Is Su Youpeng the EQ king of "Chinese Restaurant"? If he doesn't count, who will count?
Su Youpeng responded that Yang Zi’s failure to select "Left Ear" can be written into the entertainment industry’s high emotional intelligence textbook.
must first praise Su Youpeng. It was the addition of this second season veteran that obviously slowed the pace of the show. Chinese restaurants should Slightly slow, and have a little leisure time. It's not like everyone rushes forward every day like chicken blood, making slow variety show a real speed.
Su Youpeng also brought Yang Zi's "Returning Bead Stem" in the show before, which are full of memories.
However, a passage in the show might have triggered a mutual tearing between fans. When Yang Zi took the initiative to find Su Youpeng chatting, he revealed that he had interviewed Su Youpeng's movie "Left Ear".
Everyone knows that the heroines of this movie are Ma Sichun, Chen Duling and Guan Xiaotong.
in the show is self-defeating and does not have the idol baggage of a female star is Yang Zi's style, so she directly "questioned" Su Youpeng, "Do you remember that I interviewed your movie before? You rejected me "When I spoke, it was a feeling that my sister was acting like a baby to her brother.
Su Youpeng's response is really high. First, he smiled and responded with the three words "Is there you?" But then the deputy director kept looking for me every time, but he didn’t expect to wait until the news was that the movie was launched again.”
Yang Zi said this sentence, hahahahaha, it was that kind of distressed and funny feeling, and Su Youpeng whispered: "We were in the mood not to hurt everyone."
After Yang Zi said, "I won't blow the air conditioner for you," he was "angrily" and walked away.
You can see that Yang Zi's passage does not really mean to ask the teacher, but it brings out a kind of girly cuteness, but the problem here is that all this happens in reality shows, and the story depends entirely on how to read it. If Su Youpeng responds to the dumping of the pot, it is very likely that the program has not been finished and has been scolded by netizens.
But he was not used as any excuse, but he and Yang Zi completed this cross talk together with Yang Zi, which is equivalent to making a cheer.
Su Youpeng comforted Yang Zi that night and said to arrange "Right Foot", Yang Zi hahaha happily. This response has been very successful.
focuses on the response the next day.
First of all, Rao Xueman, the author of "Left Ear", responded to the matter on Weibo and said: "Speaking of which, I really watched all the actors of that age in China back then. Some friends may only pretend to be amnesia in order to continue mixing in this circle. It flashed..." look at
, now it is time to understand how difficult it is for Su Youpeng to respond, because as soon as he speaks, any actress who has participated in an interview can recall her interview experience.
As a result, Su Youpeng wisely skipped "Left Ear" and directly praised Yang Zi as a first-line female star. This point
is the first step in responding to success. The success or failure of the audition has always been an unspeakable secret of your circle. Back then, Lee Ang’s movieI tried almost all the actresses in the Chinese film industry, and finally selected the little-known Tang Wei. Can you tell me about these things? If Su Youpeng continued along "Left Ear", no matter how he responded, it would be embarrassing. After
skipped this pit, Yang Zi invited to play "Right Ear" online, and Su Youpeng said, "The Right Ear is gone, only "Right Foot"".
This is the most interesting and most touching sentence in the entire response. Su Youpeng not only responded to the embarrassment, but also turned the incident into a joke. Then he collected online scripts from netizens, and actually played with them.
later added in the comments: "Xiao Zi is the most funny and natural young actress I have ever seen. She laughs at the Chinese restaurant every day and she fascinates ancient enterprises. She is amazing."
Hahaha, I I think the performance of Yang Zi's grievances is full of inspiration.
This is a successful summary statement, and it has further resolved the embarrassment.
finally succeeded in triggering a round of rainbow farts from Yang Zi fans, and the soldiers did not blood to resolve a potential crisis. This is the real master.
Su Youpeng really left a lot of successful demonstrations of high EQ over the years.
For example, in "Creation Camp", a student asked him if he had plastic surgery. It was at least embarrassing to change to someone else to make a black face. He responded that this was for the purpose of creating a styling for "Creation Camp 2019" and completely handed himself over to the stylist. No matter what the effect was, he could only hold back, shut himself up, and let him fix it for me.
Some students asked if the Little Tigers had ever infighted?
Su Youpeng first joked that the Thunder Tiger Wu Qilong of the "Little Tigers" really has martial arts, and he is still a black belt in judo, meaning that he is the only one who has to be beaten to fight, and then he said yes, and then everyone let himself because of himself The smallest.
This is the answer of a typical crazy marketing account, because it is seamless and there is nowhere to go black. Another classic case of
is that Guan Xiaotong participated in an event with him. Guan Xiaotong was asked by reporters whether he had watched "Return to the Pearl". Guan Xiaotong said that he hadn't read it, and he didn't know who the fifth elder brother was. The scene was very embarrassing. Got it.
As a result, Su Youpeng smiled slightly and said, "It's okay, as long as I know you, I grew up watching your play." Haha smiled, the embarrassment disappeared.
However, what is interesting is that Su Youpeng, a tenth-level scholar of high EQ, was not praised for his high EQ when he was in "Chinese Restaurant". The reason is probably-there are strong middle players in the strong?
Wow wow wow wow! These years of "Chinese Restaurant" is the second season of this high emotional intelligence textbook
Su Youpeng and the manager Zhao Wei. Of course, everyone did not think that after feeling the baptism of Mingxue this season, netizens have shouted that Zhao Wei will come back to stay in Huangdian. long.
Looking back now, Manager Zhao is simply a classic representative of a high EQ boss.
Once, Su Youpeng tried a plate of salted chicken. Zhao Wei commented, "Sure enough, people with strong learning ability can do anything." Then Wang Junkai's dishes were finally sold. Zhao Wei also immediately stepped forward to encourage him, "Congratulations. Finally stood up". Since then, the two employees have been very motivated.
has such a boss, and is surrounded by good colleagues like Wang Junkai and Bai Jugang who work hard and do not look for things. It is good to be a good employee quietly, and it is normal that there is no chance of showing high EQ. The Chinese restaurant of
this season is almost the daily display of Huang Xiaoming. Everyone asked why Mingxue couldn't perform it before. Think about it because Zhao Wei's constant suppression. On the night of the first day of the first season of
, Huang Xiaoming spoke first, saying that the food was slow, and then criticized Zhou Dongyu, saying that she had no life in her eyes and seeing that Mingxue was about to start, but Zhao Wei quickly cut off the flames and said, "I am very satisfied with your performance."
will continue to encourage everyone, “On our first day, it’s not easy to grind together like this. In fact, there’s no need to say so much. Everyone is smart and knows what others should do. If we cooperate, everything will go smoothly. ".
Seeing Huang Xiaoming a little embarrassed, he turned his head and said, "You were right just now, think more about the restaurant."
Huang Xiaoming smiled bitterly and said, "Don't slap me and give me another candy."
Zhao Wei really reconciled the later Mingxue master. When she saw Huang Xiaoming made honey lemonade in a big cup and could make several small cups at a time, she immediately praised "how smart you are" .
hahahahaha, now I will watch these segmentsFalling is full of infinite joy. In the first and second seasons of
, there is also a hidden player with high EQ-Zhang Liang.
Zhao Wei asked Dongyu Zhou to make tea, and Dongyu Zhou poured the tea into the teapot and boiled it. It seemed that he had never made tea. Zhang Liang was embarrassed by the scene, and immediately said, "The new pot needs to be deodorized.
Huang Xiaoming bought the wrong vegetable, and he blames himself very much. Zhang Liang immediately relieved and said this was the "Kale King", let's make a stir-fried mustard Blue King.
has so many high EQ talents here. The first two seasons of "Chinese Restaurant" can be said to be busy and orderly, which better reflects the essence of slow variety.
In the third season, Mingxue was born, and the restaurant atmosphere Highly nervous, it’s time for newcomers with high emotional intelligence to stand out.
Now I want to talk about the king of high emotional intelligence in my mind-Wang Junkai.
didn’t feel it last season. This season Wang Junkai’s performance vividly illustrates: EQ is related to age experience. It’s really not proportional. One of the highlights of
this season is Huang Xiaoming’s daily chef Yu Lin. For example, in a program of
, the assistant bought pork ribs that the chef needs. Because of the problem of ingredients, the dishes did not satisfy the guests. Therefore, some customers suggested that the taste of this dish was not very good. At the regular dinner meeting, Huang Xiaoming, as the store manager, said directly: "The customer said this meat is not tasty, so don't make it again. "
Chef Lin is a professional craftsman who regards food as his life. When people are stunned, his eyes are red.
Wang Junkai did not immediately refute Huang Xiaoming, but after the meeting, he took the initiative to comfort Chef Lin," "Brother Lin The guests are not saying that the dishes are not delicious, but that the meat in Italy is not good for steaming and difficult to chew." Chef Lin felt relieved after listening.
said earlier that Chef Lin is very persistent in his profession, and sometimes he will be too persistent in his cooking skills. At this time, only Wang Junkai would persuade him.
customers have complained that the spicy chicken is too spicy. Chef Lin responded well to the spicy. We just want authentic Chinese food! If
is replaced by Huang Xiaoming, he will definitely say, "You don't want what you think, I want customers to think."
But Wang Junkai used to persuade him from a climate perspective, "They are too hot, and if they eat more spicy food, it will be too hot." The chef nodded immediately after listening. This is the magic of high emotional intelligence. There are many similar classic quotations to
.
For example, Qin Hailu sends out the proposition, "I look good with makeup or not with makeup", Tong Zhuo said, "They all look good", Qin Hailu said, "You are not as good as Wang Junkai in literature", the next shot Wang Junkai came in and answered the same question again. "Sister, if you don't put on makeup, you are born to be beautiful. Sister, if you put on makeup, you are a goddess." Hahahahahaha directly made Qin Hailu happy.
Wang Junkai gave me the feeling that every shot is a demonstration of high emotional intelligence.
His position this season is the lobby manager, who provides services and maintains order. In fact, he secretly maintained the atmosphere of the entire restaurant, relying on his warm heart and high emotional intelligence.
If the high EQ mentioned above is the basic. What follows is the most fascinating part of Wang Junkai's high EQ, which is why I call him the king of high EQ in Chinese restaurants.
Chef Lin couldn’t take it the first night he slept. Wang Junkai immediately understood what Chef Lin said, "Is it a camera in all directions?" Chef Lin said, "Yes," Wang Junkai said, "cover it when you sleep. Enough".
, for example, the show has to choose one of Gao Tianhe and Tong Zhuo to leave. Wang Junkai went to the street to buy them commemorative coins and gave them to two people so that neither of them would be embarrassed.
Here, the most important thing about high EQ is not tact, but attitude. Comparing the heart to the heart is more meaningful than any witty response. How does
become the EQ king of "Chinese Restaurant"?
In the face of "Chinese Restaurant", which is frequently searched on, at the Shura Field, where one word may be wrong at any time, but idols like Su Youpeng and Wang Junkai can keep the reputation of the show, what does it depend on?
talk about a case where two people met on a narrow road with high emotional intelligence. In the first issue of "Creation Camp" of
, Su Youpeng appeared in his head teacher show in black to complete a singing and dancing, and rap elements were integrated. Not only the dance is strong, but the singing skills are maintained at a level, but the lyrics of rap are also very stubborn. There is a sentence "Wang Junkai said his dad is my fan. He hasn't retired in 30 years since his debut. That's what I can do." The lyrics of
quickly caused heatYiping, Su Youpeng wrote a face-face and said, “In fact, Xiao Kai never said anything like that. Thank him for lending his father to help me complete the show. Hello, Dad Kay.”
But then, a comment by Wang Junkai once again made the story. Reverse. Wang Junkai wrote in the comment area: "But my dad is really your fan." This high emotional intelligence interaction of
is simply a classic among the classics. The two generations of top idols have a good relationship and stalking, and their emotional intelligence is as high as their facial value. Endless rainbow fart. How does
view these moments of high-profile emotional intelligence in the showbiz?
In fact, whether it is "low EQ" or "high EQ", it is the label that the marketing account or the media put on the celebrity, and it is just the side of the celebrity we see in the lens.
After years of playing in the entertainment industry, most celebrities will naturally gradually become mature, more able to speak, and will not make people embarrassing cancer.
But whether time and experience make people slick and sophisticated, or full of high emotional intelligence, is another interesting question. A simple way to judge
is: whether the high EQ only appears in front of the camera, or is it running throughout.
artists live in Zhongxingpengyue every day, and only others look at their faces and act, and they don’t need to learn to observe their words. It is rare that Su Youpeng and Wang Junkai, who became famous as a young man, can maintain such humility and sincerity. Their EQ is not exquisite and easy-going, but sincere and empathetic.
Later, due to work schedules, Wang Junkai wanted to withdraw from the program recording in the Chinese restaurant. In the final shot, he said:
"Brother Lin is very hard. Every night, I will tell him jokes to help him relax. "
" Sister Yang Zi, although she gets tired every morning, she will happily go shopping with her sister every morning. From now on, you will be the only one."
"Sister Hailu is very tired, preparing vegetables is more tiring than cooking. , Very hard work."
This is the most shining moment of his high EQ, because every sentence comes from the heart.
The entertainment industry is a place where people and talents are mixed. Everyone speaks in a mask. High EQ is the basic skill, but the most demanding thing in your circle is the audience and time. We often say who in the entertainment industry has high EQ is very powerful, but powerful It is because EQ has been so high for decades, and there is no mistake in the 24-hour follow-up of "Chinese Restaurant". In fact, it is not the matter, but the people.
Zhang Liang once said, "Chinese food is about color, aroma, and flavor, but it's not only about food, but also about people."
's momentary high EQ may be that skill is IQ, but if you want high EQ for a lifetime, you should be a warm person first.
There is a word in China called "the heart of a pure child". Many people think that this term is contrary to high EQ, but I think it may be the opposite. Only people with a pure heart can truly be high in EQ for a lifetime, and I prefer See this warm high EQ painting style being passed on from generation to generation of top artists.
responded that Su Youpeng, who was angrily praised by Yang Zi for losing "Left Ear", is regarded as the EQ king of "Chinese Restaurant"?
My answer is: there is no absolute king with high emotional intelligence, because being a man is a lifelong practice.
But there are people with high EQ abilities like Su Youpeng and Wang Junkai in the showbiz, after all, it is warmer and more interesting.
