Zhou Xun, who rarely participates in reality shows, participated in the latest issue of "Life in Adventure". This time, Aya and Zhou Xun went to Japan to visit the elderly with Alzheimer's disease and his family. Zhou Xun is still as low-key and perceptual as ever. During the visit, he talked about love, marriage, and life, which seemed to be very macro issues, but we felt the weight of life from their short-term relationship with the elderly.
After watching this episode, my biggest feeling is that there is a kind of wisdom in life. Just as everyone faces birth, old age, sickness and death, we can face the reincarnation of the four seasons, face the yellow and fall of the trees, but sometimes we cannot face the birth, old age, sickness and death that surround us. Because when it really comes, not everyone can look calm.
Some people are worried, some people are afraid of resistance, some people are running away in a panic, so when I see the peaceful, calm and coping state of the Daozi Ms. Zhou Xun and the others visited, I see a kind of coping life from her. Attitude.
is okay, we remember that Ms.
lives in the suburbs of Aichi Prefecture, Japan. Surrounded by mountains and trees, there are more cicadas and birds singing than human voices. The house in which she lives is a traditional Japanese Japanese house with white screens. The brown futon makes this place even more of a sense of retreat. Ms. Daozi will clean the place where she lives every day, but she is not to escape the hustle and bustle of the world, but to take care of Alzheimer’s disease Her husband, this illness made her husband gradually forget her, and even all the common memories.
I remember that the first time I learned about this disease was when I watched "The Unforgettable Restaurant". This disease can make the elderly suffer from different degrees of cognitive impairment, such as a sentence I just said, turning around and forgetting; holding it in my hand I searched for what I was looking for, but I went out to throw out the trash, but the trash was forgotten at home, and with the passage of time, the memory would start to become chaotic, and the introduction would not be followed. Ms. Daozi decided to move to an old house in the country precisely because her husband could not find a way back home several times.
If all the memories are lost, what are we left?
There is such a line in "Dream Quest": Death is not the end of life, forgetting is.
So when Zhou Xun asked Ms. Daozi, Mr. Xingzhen (Daozi’s husband) had forgotten all the memories of being with his family. Isn’t it a very sad thing? Daozi replied, "It's okay, as long as we remember it, it's good to see my husband happy now."
suddenly felt that all the sweet words in this world could not match the emotions of each other. Although the words were simple, they were warm enough to be forgotten. It is scary to be forgotten.
Many people are facing the loss of memories of their loved ones. Actually, they can’t take it lightly. The difficulties in life may follow. From Ms. Taozi’s answer, we can see her optimism, including For their children, in the face of family forgetting, the relationship between the whole family has become closer, which is rare in China.
Sometimes optimism seems so important. Facing illness and facing difficulties in life, it is precisely the mentality that determines everything. Optimism is an attitude that allows people to have the courage to resist pain. Only an optimistic attitude can be calm and unhurried, and only unhurried can we deal with all the trivial things brought about by difficulties in an orderly manner. This is a cycle. Optimism is also a kind of life wisdom.
You must be happy in life. Mr. Xingzheng played the harmonica, and Ms. Daozi hummed to the side. Mr. Xingzheng stopped while blowing, suddenly singing loudly, singing and singing suddenly. Stopped and said thank you loudly, Ms. Daozi always looked at him with gentle eyes. The optimism conveyed by
eliminates all sorrows. People have a certain experience at a certain age to see through life. Ms. Daozi conveyed the mentality of enjoying the moment more than once. She said that she could spend it before she died. A good life makes me feel very happy.
Mr. Xingzhen said that he was afraid of death, so Daozi told him to enjoy life. There is nothing to let go. If you enjoy it, you earn it. Life has entered the elder years, and there is nothing that cannot be let go. Life's complacency must be used to their best.
Not everyone will have the freedom and ease of "life proud and happy", ifRegarding it as the creed of life, then there will not be so many entanglements and troubles in life. What is important? What is unimportant? Some of the things that we seem to have to do are actually things outside the body, and people will eventually come and go clean.
Direct experience is easier than asking others.
I always feel that "life" is a vocabulary that is too lofty. When it comes to life, there is always a feeling of false and empty, but a simple life is more realistic. But in real life, we can't escape "birth, old age, sickness and death". Everyone is afraid of death. Zhou Xun said that he was afraid. Mr. Xingzhen said that he didn't want to die and no one could escape.
In a limited life, how should we face life and how should we face adversity?
Recently, I watched the classic movie "Rejuvenation" again. This movie profoundly explains what it means to live up to this life. The protagonist of
, Benjamin, is a man with a peculiar body. He has been an old man since he was born. He gradually gets younger as he gets older. He always experiences life opposite to others. He first came into contact with death and parting, and then love and loneliness. He went upstream and realized a life that only he could understand.
Being a crew member, experiencing war, meeting loved ones, becoming a father, giving up wealth, and wandering around the world, he has experienced everything he should experience, love, affection, death, loneliness, not limited to age and physical limitations, and perceives the gift of life.
He said that no matter whether it is too late or too early, it will not prevent you from becoming the person you want to be. You can start at any time as long as you want, and there should be no restrictions on doing things. Sometimes things go contrary to our wishes, and we can blame others and curse fate, but at the last moment of our lives, we will all be relieved.
And Mr. Xingzhen’s answer is simpler and clearer. It is easier to experience directly than to ask others. This sentence clarified all the questions at once, and life became clear at once, combined with what I said before, life must be happy, enjoy the gift of life, experience the experience, experience what we should experience, face everything optimistically, Just live up to this life.
This issue of "Adventure in Life" really fits the word "Adventure". Visiting such a family at Zhou Xun's age is more like a journey of soul. People who originally lived in two worlds in this period During the short journey, it was really a miraculous thing to spend a few days together, talking about marriage, talking about life, talking about life and death. This program is too much like a movie that describes life's life. This time Zhou Xun faded away from the star's halo and became a witness to this drama. She must have a deeper understanding of life than ours. And we have also become witnesses of their short lives, seeing others and achieving themselves, with profound meaning.
