recently followed Luo Jin and Li Yitong on Youku in "Crane Huating", which was initially attracted by the exquisite service.
▲ To be honest, it was surprised by the snow scene of the heroes and heroines at the beginning. Not only the clothes are neat and tidy, but the environment is also very good. I hope that the heroes and heroines will also meet in a heavy snow.
▲There are also some elaborate costume styles in the play, such as the square-hearted curvy collar and Diao Chan crown-style official clothes worn by Zhong Shuling, which are historically documented in the Song Dynasty scrolls, and the maid’s cross-hand gift is described from The ancient murals deserve to be the art director Zhang Shuping came to do.
▲Besides the fine art, the details are also very particular. In the scroll presented by the prince to his father, the font used is dignified Zhouzheng's italics, and the script written in private for self-entertainment is a gold wrong sword derived from a thin gold body. The background of
is sometimes overcast, sometimes sunny and sometimes snowing, all of which have the effect of filming blockbusters.
In the play, people should move and be quiet. When they move, they are salutes, ordering tea, writing, and speaking. They are all graceful and elegant, each with their own rules; in the quiet, you can look at men’s crowns, women’s hair accessories, clothes, makeup, The shoes all reflect the graceful aesthetics of ancient China, and they all have their own origins.
▲This section of the details of preparing the hand stove can be called "ancient hand warmer factory process".
▲This fragment of Lu Shangshu ordering tea is that Mr. Wang Jinsong personally brought a tea set to the past. The technique is also very reminiscent of the Song Dynasty tea order: stir the tea cream, gradually increase the stroke, the hand is light, the fingers are rotated around the wrist, and the technique is harmonious The records in "Daguan Tea Theory" are exactly the same. There are many such little easter eggs in the play.
is then trapped by the plot, with a climax in five minutes, a reversal in ten minutes, and new troubles constantly appear. You all doubt whether the screenwriter is digging a hole for yourself. One ups and downs, the story goes ashore perfectly, and takes you into the next A journey.
actor played well, Luo Jin's prince Xiao Dingquan was loyal, filial and benevolent, but he was not happy with his father. The forbearance and lack in his eyes made people feel pity. Director
said that the image he set for him is a crane. The crane looks slender and delicate. In fact, it is a bird of prey, which can fight eagles. The other side of the gentleman of Qianqian is the burning power.
turned his head and looked at his father Xiao Ruijian. At a glance, he knew that he was a man who was not easily moved. The powerful man’s deterrent gaze, I dominate, and the world is my game of chess. His order will not be affected by the suffering of others. infection.
love is the glue between them.
When Xiao Dingquan knelt in the heavy snow, Xiao Ruijian asked his elder son, King Qi, to send him a leather robe, which was naturally distressed. But with this leather robe, did Xiao Dingquan take it or not?
pick it up, it's not sincere enough to repent to the king, not picking it up, it's disrespectful to his father. When family affection collides with power, it is not embarrassing or embarrassing.
This is a pair of atypical father and son. However, in ordinary family relationships, there is also power. Parent-child relationships that seem to be wrong are not uncommon in life. Why do parents and children often get in love with each other? Is there a chance of reconciliation?
"Crane Huating" can take us all the way to observe and think.
First of all, the hostility between parents and children lies in thinking the other party too strong.
Xiao Dingquan was abused by his father as soon as he appeared. Queen
died, Xiao Ruijian did not allow Xiao Dingquan to go back to the palace to go to the funeral for her mother. Xiao Dingquan slammed his fist on the closed Zhumen, blood oozing out.
He has been a filial piety for his mother for three years, and when he is over 20, Xiao Ruijian still refuses to let him "crowned in Yuanfu" and holds a coming-of-age ceremony. This means that the monarch has not yet trusted him and is not mentally prepared to let him take charge. Lu Shiyu, the teacher of the prince
, was an opinion leader among civil servants. He brought a group of ministers to kneel in the snow and asked the emperor to let the prince "get married and crowned". On the contrary, the emperor was very unhappy. Even if he did not suspect that it was the prince’s instruction, he saw the prince. Influence.
In the end, Gu Silin, the uncle of the prince, came to help the prince. There was no way, the enemy was in front, and the 200,000 soldiers only listened to him. Only in this way, Xiao Ruijian felt that both the civil and military sides were Xiao Dingquan's home court, and his fear was stronger.
seems to be a drama that only occurs when father and son hold a lot of power. In fact, it is not. The problem between us and our parents often lies inThe opponent thinks too strong, and can't realize the opponent's weakness.
For example, my mother and I have a lot of arrogance and prejudice against each other. She thinks that I am innocent, and I think she is too fierce and always thunderous.
Until one day, my mother fell ill. She who was lying on the hospital bed looked so weak, reminding me of her childhood similar to that of an orphan, a little girl who stumbled to this day, could not help but feel sorrowful in her heart. I would tell myself that my mother was also a lonely little girl, maybe she is still that little girl now.
and Zhu Ziqing’s "Back View", it’s not that the father said: “I’ll buy some oranges. You are here, don’t walk around.” It’s that “I” saw him go over the railway and wanted to climb. When going on the platform, "climb on it with both hands, and then retract his feet; his fat body leaned slightly to the left, showing the appearance of hard work." The powerful and irritable father of
is getting old and young at this moment. Being swallowed by time, he was still struggling to do something for his son. Seeing such a father, Zhu Ziqing's tears fell quickly.
Xiao Ruijian’s problem is that he has no chance to feel his own weakness, nor does he have the opportunity to discover the prince’s weakness.
He knew that King Qi was not a good weapon, but he still loved him, because he saw the weakness of King Qi. Such a gap made the relationship between Xiao Ruijian and Xiao Dingquan inherently flawed.
▲After the prince revealed the rebellion that the king had done, Xiao Ruijian couldn’t bear to face his two sons, so he handed over all the power of the king to the prince. When the prince ordered the king to take him down, the king of Qi confronted Xiao Ruijian. By shouting "Father", you can see the emperor's heart shake, and the prince can also see the father's paternal love from his father's eyes. It is said that Luo Jin collapsed in his heart when he was acting, and he had to sit down for two or three hours after filming every day to recover.
Second, when he discovered that his relationship with his son was out of control, Xiao Ruijian chose to continue to add chips to increase his control.
Xiao Ruijian did not hold a "crowned ceremony" for the prince, because it was a bargaining chip for him. He found that his son was getting more wings and gradually out of his control, he was not reconciled.
He is jealous of his son's teacher and uncle, but he does not intend to release his kindness. He is accustomed to using power. This time he still wants to solve the problem through power. Are you not a cow? I just don't announce that you have grown up, it depends on what you do.
▲Father was actually eating his uncle's vinegar secretly.
Xiao Ruijian This is too much, but in life, it is also the choice of many parents to solve the problem by increasing the bargaining chip-if you are rebellious, good, then I will be cold and violent; if you don’t listen to me, don’t study hard, then this Monthly pocket money is gone.
Parents have too much power when their children are young. Some parents even think that beating and scolding their children is also their right to have. They use this power as the original bargaining chip to control the children repeatedly across the border.
Zhang Ailing’s mother, Huang Suqiong, portrays herself as an adjudicator, and on behalf of the entire adult world, pronounced a sentence to Zhang Ailing, sentenced her to be clumsy and stupid, and even said to her: "I regret taking care of your typhoid fever. I would rather Watching you die, not wanting to watch you live and make yourself suffer everywhere."
Does she want to destroy her daughter? Of course not, she just wanted to press this way to shape her daughter into what she hoped, but she didn't know that where there is oppression, there will be resistance. Intimidation will always fail one day. The end result is the separation between mother and daughter. .
Parents must also learn to put power in a cage, be honest and fair, and treat them equally, in order to gain beauty and love.
▲Because he knows that his father is partial to his elder brother Qi Wang, the prince is also the teacher and the father to his teacher. The teacher’s birthday is coming soon. He will specially have tea and chat with the teacher, and he will tell the teacher like a child that he is recently His self-entertainment achievements, and these are tender moments that have never been between the prince and the emperor.
has a third point. Parents are never a functional identity.
In "Crane Huating", the most unbearable thing is Xiao Ruijian's eccentricity, the eccentric eldest son Qi Wang.
There is a scene where Xiao Dingquan, who was tortured to the point of being mischievous, watched Qi Wang snuggle up to his father like a bird. Not to mention that he didn’t feel uncomfortable in his heart. As an audience, I also wanted to go up and hug him.Ping: "Xiao Ruijian, can you open your titanium eyes? Obviously this son is more worthy of your love."
But Xiao Ruijian must also have a set of words back and forth to me: "I and the prince are kings and ministers, and the king of Qi is the father and son. "The words
can blow up at first sound, I have never seen such a favoritism. But thinking about it carefully, the meaning of Xiao Ruijian's words is clearly to be more important to the prince. Think of the prince as his successor, so take it seriously and don't take it lightly.
and the king of Qi? It's a little trick, a little game, nothing to expect, a must-have for home travel, the main task is to let the father enjoy the family happiness.
In other words, Xiao Ruijian's relationship with King Qi is very simple, and Xiao Dingquan is a bit complicated. He can't simply be Xiao Dingquan's father, and he has to experience him and polish him. In this way, he can't play happily.
▲It is also the son's father, Xiao Ruijian did not have the tolerance between father and son to the prince, but told him that between the two is more the responsibility of the monarch and ministers.
Although my family has no succession to the throne, I understand Xiao Ruijian's psychology very well.
When I walked and chatted with my baby hand in hand, we were Xiao Ruijian and Qi Wang. When I was tutoring the children to do homework, we were Xiao Ruijian and Xiao Dingquan.
I am not just a mother, but also a guardian, a trainer, and a functional identity. Mother must be able to pull her face down. After all, the door of the fall is always open. This is not easy to defeat. Blink of an eye.
is still the same idea: "I am all for your good." But in the end, the "good for you" is not displayed, and parents and children are not going to be better.
▲ The emperor knew the intrigue between the two brothers, but he still wanted to suppress the prince on the surface, but secretly thought of the prince. But what the prince needs is not secret care, but care on the surface. Is there really no better way for
? Of course there is. More companionship, more communication, breaking the barriers between family relationships, and making the output two-way, are better than being the manager of the family with a straight face.
is just, and it's harder. The so-called "we have responsibilities besides family relationship", in fact, adults are lazy.
In such a process, we overestimated the wearability of feelings. When the two hearts go further and further, it is impossible to pull them back.
▲ The emperor was shocked by the prince's rehabilitating himself. He thought that the prince would "give a step and go down" as he said, but instead he took Qi Wang and did not tell anyone. When the prince began to distrust his father, their father-son relationship began to grow further and further, and the relationship between the monarch and the minister began to become clearer.
It feels like going in and out of time and space when watching "Crane Huating". From the father and son, we can see that there are many last resorts in life, sometimes it is destiny set limits, sometimes it is their own limits, which makes them feel happy. Can't get close.
However, parent-child relationship is the most enjoyable chapter in the emotional world and the most enjoyable kind of interpersonal relationship. We use it to warm the world and resist the vicissitudes of life. If we lose this, how lonely life should be. Therefore, while pitying the people in the play, we will also learn from the past and think about how to avoid the emotional minefield and build a better parent-child relationship.
is to be considerate of each other’s weakness, not to set limits, to love bravely, to change hearts, to put yourself in the position, to put the identity of "parents" and "children" first, that is, to put love first, and the rest , After all retreat, each other can grow into better parents or children.
This is what "Crane Huating" can teach us, although it is a counterexample. Perceiving the limitations of human nature, thinking about what can be improved, and building one's own real life, this is the most transcendence of this drama.
