Some time ago, a netizen took a photo at a funeral parlor in Nanling, which instantly became popular on the Internet. Life is precious, but also short, fragile, and impermanent. Among them, the youngest deceased was a 19-year-old girl. She was in her prime, but her life

Some time ago, a netizen took a photo at a funeral parlor in Nanling, which instantly became popular on the Internet.

Life is precious, but also short, fragile, and impermanent.

Among them, the youngest deceased was a 19-year-old girl. She was in her prime, but her life was paused at this moment.

Birth, old age, illness and death, each one is as heavy as a mountain.

Netizens commented: Seeing this scene, all the unwillingness, regrets and grievances in life are relieved. Nothing is more important than living.

Yes, in the journey of life, we will face a lot of setbacks, pain and difficulties, but compared with life and death, these are so insignificant.

In this life, except for life and death, all suffering experiences can only be regarded as scratches.

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Beautiful lawyer Zhou Xi once shared her story of suffering from cancer on the "Super Speaker" program.

This 26-year-old girl spent her best years working hard and making progress. She had a family who loved her and a boy she liked.

However, fate played a big joke on her.

She called an ambulance late at night because of dysmenorrhea. She went to the hospital and took an ultrasound, which revealed ovarian cancer.

A year before she got cancer, she worked desperately, unable to put down her mobile phone, turn off her computer, and lose her job.

Sitting in the empty hospital corridor with the test results, she suddenly understood that there was nothing in life that she could not let go of.

Before we got sick, we were worried about work and wanted to earn money for a car and a house; we worked hard to make babies, hoping that our children would become dragons and phoenixes.

After taking a trip to the gate of hell, you will find that: in the face of life and death, all gains and losses seem so insignificant.

One year, writer Zhang Jiajia conducted a nationwide book signing, which lasted for more than ten hours every day.

At the same time, his partner Wong Kar-wai is preparing to shoot the movie "The Ferryman" and is busy writing scripts every day.

suffered a heart attack due to the intensity of his work and had to be rescued in the hospital for several hours.

After escaping from danger, Zhang Jiajia wrote with emotion on Weibo: In the face of all sadness and difficulties, surviving is the most important thing.

Only when a person has experienced life and death can he know how important living is.

Mai Jia also said in "The Sea of ​​Life": "Everyone will experience hardships, and more importantly, the sea of ​​life has its ups and downs, but in the end, you still have to live well." The leader scolded me, I failed the exam, I didn't sign the contract... everything is nothing compared to death.

In this life, if a person can escape natural disasters, avoid wars, not meet bad people, not get seriously ill, and have enough food and clothing, he will be very lucky.

If you can still have a harmonious family, a stable income, and good friends, that will be a huge blessing.

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Some time ago, a 40-year-old programmer shared his job search experience.

After he lost his job, he was overwhelmed by the mortgage, children's schooling, and daily expenses, and he never had a good night's sleep.

After three months of hard work, he finally found a satisfactory job, and the stone in his heart finally fell to the ground.

In fact, each of us will face this experience in life:

When I was studying, I couldn't sleep all night because of a failure in an exam.

When I was in love, I felt listless and depressed all day long because of the breakup.

html When three people reached middle age, they were suddenly laid off and unemployed. They felt that the future was gloomy.

What happens next? You will still go to college, find your ideal partner, and start a new job.

has a passage that is right:

“Whether you are in difficulty or in illness, believe in yourself, as long as you live, everything will pass.Maybe not today, not tomorrow, but there will be a day. "

Things that I once thought I couldn't get past turned into stories in my memories; hurdles that I once thought I couldn't overcome turned into jokes.

In 1976, 19-year-old Ge You After graduating from high school, he was sent to a rural commune, and his job was to raise pigs.

From building pig pens to cutting grass, feeding, picking up manure, and even delivering pigs and treating diseases, he had to do every step himself.

The work was dirty and tiring, and it seemed that he would leave it here for the rest of his life. At that time, Ge Yu felt frustrated every day.

Later, the college entrance examination system was restored. He wanted to be an actor and applied for three colleges in succession. In the end, he failed, and his life fell to the bottom again.

But in the end, he passed successfully. In the examination of the ACFTU Art Troupe, the show performed during the interview was called "Feeding the Pigs"

The days when he was devolved, when he failed in the exam and fell into confusion and helplessness, were particularly difficult at the time, but he still persevered step by step.

The poet Tsangyang Gyatso said: Besides life and death, there is nothing more. No big deal .

In this world, there is no job that will not be wronged, feelings will not be hurt, and painful troughs will not be experienced.

When you are in a bad mood, don’t embarrass yourself. Except for life and death, everything else is trivial. As long as the sun rises every day, There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome with

Don't be obsessed with things, don't be internalized, eat when you should, drink when you should, don't take everything to heart.

Do the things in front of you well, handle them well, leave the action to now, and leave the results to time.

As long as you have enough. Be strong and the sky will shine

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Mo Yan once shared a short story.

My friend’s wife passed away. When I was packing up her belongings, I found a silk scarf that I had bought without even removing the label. l4

Because this scarf was very beautiful and expensive, my wife was reluctant to use it. She wanted to wait until a special moment to use it.

As a result, she did not wear it until her death.

My friend said with emotion: You must cherish the present moment and never give up hope. Place your trust in the future.

When we were young, everyone was like this. We always felt that there was a lot of time and that the days ahead were long.

After much experience, I discovered that there is no so-called long future in life, but only the impermanence of things.

Tomorrow or accident, you never know which one will come first. All we can do is cherish the present and live well in the present.

In 1995, Taiwan's famous illustrator Jimmy suffered from "acute myeloid leukemia" without any warning.

During his hospitalization, he gained a deeper understanding of life.

He said: Life changes too fast and cruelly, and there is no time to prepare and it is unpredictable. All the good things are in the moment.

At that time, he prepared for the worst, thinking that he could only survive one day at a time.

Every day that follows, he lives a serious and good life.

He no longer regards painting as just a tool to make a living, but instead tries his best to draw every cartoon.

After work, he takes time every day to spend time with his family, chat with friends, and do the things he likes.

Just like that, more than 20 years later, Jimmy survived tenaciously.

Jia Pingwa once said this:

"Since people come to the world like ants, they are born and die, gather and disperse. In just a few decades, they can be comfortable when they should be, and be free and unrestrained when they should be. Just be cool and live your own life to the fullest. This is the whole meaning of survival. "

We cannot predict the future, nor can we go back to the past, we can only seize the present moment.

The future is about living every moment with all your strength.

Cherish the people and things in front of you, and live to the fullest every minute and every second in this life of varying lengths.

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A favorite passage: Time is coming, but we will eventually let go. It's good to live healthily, live peacefully, smile happily, and be busy appropriately.

This life cannot be repeated, please love yourself.

Don’t think about things you can’t figure out, time will give you the answer. Don't hate those you can't forget, time will help you forget.

Look far ahead in everything, see things through, see through people, and relax your mind.

Like , for the rest of your life, be more considerate and gentle to yourself.