Since the launch of the marriage documentary observation reality show "Goodbye Lover 4", the topics surrounding the three couples Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi, Mai Lin and Li Xingliang, Ge Xi and Liu Shuang have been hotly discussed. Recently, the topic about Mai Lin Especially conc

Since the launch of the marriage documentary observation reality show "Goodbye Lover 4", the topics surrounding Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi, Mai Lin and Li Xingliang, Ge Xi and Liu Shuang have been hotly discussed. Recently, The topic about Mai Lin is particularly focused.

Netizens think that Mai Lin is very naughty. In the program, Mai Lin verbally emphasized her love for her husband many times and admitted that she is not a materialistic person. However, in terms of behavior, she constantly intervened in her husband's work, repeatedly mentioned her sacrifice and dedication, and said that she would live a poor life without her husband. A better quality of life. When expressing her needs, Mai Lin could not accurately express her needs, and she started to find all kinds of problems after Li Xingliang made amends... This method of communication not only made Li Xingliang feel helpless, but also confused the audience: What exactly did Mai Lin do? What do you want?

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On November 9, Zhang Wanting (wife of actor Song Ningfeng), who had participated in the show and was also hotly discussed by netizens, posted multiple long posts on Weibo to express her feelings towards Li Xingliang , Mai Lin’s feelings and suggestions.

"I especially want to say to Mai Lin that you really should see more of the outside world. Don't just focus on your own three-acre field. You may find that a lot of your sorrows are not worth your sorrow." Zhang Wanting said , when I first saw Mai Lin being "exploited" by the Internet, I felt a little aggrieved for her, but after watching the recent episodes of the program, I think Mai Lin does have a problem. For example, the artist used Li Xingliang's depiction The painted Mai Lin did not make Mai Lin happy. She should directly express that she did not like being painted so ugly. “You always have to hide your inner feelings and don’t want others to notice you, and you also ask others to understand you. Since you want If you want someone to understand you, why do you have to test them in this way?"

Zhang Wanting pointed out that Mai Lin's problem is that she doesn't love herself and can't express her needs well. Zhang Wanting also encouraged Mai Lin, hoping that through these online controversies, she could re-experience and review life.

Li Xingliang

Regarding the other half of the marriage, Zhang Wanting also pointed out Li Xingliang's problem: "Li Xingliang, be nice to your wife from the bottom of your heart, instead of talking about it and being nice to yourself. Listen to her heart. Not only are you lonely, your wife is also very helpless.” Zhang Wanting believes that Mai Lin gave her best youth and all her love to Li Xingliang, and she just lost herself in marriage: “Help her find it. Come on, instead of blaming her for not having herself, because her lack of self is not caused by her alone.”

Zhang Wanting, who has also been hotly discussed by netizens, said that she once collapsed when she was hotly discussed, so she believed that Mai Lin was going through the darkest moment of her life at this moment, "I hope you (Li Xingliang) can help her. This storm, as well as the anger and grievances that may arise in her heart, can be understood and accepted "

Zhang Wanting
At the same time, she also advised netizens: The program "Goodbye Lover" has a word called "love". No matter what, every pair of guests come together because of love, and they also leave because of their persistence in love. Got here. "Discussion is good, but there is a difference between discussion and discussion, and there is also a difference between discussion and online violence. I still hope everyone can be merciful to her," Zhang Wanting wrote.

Editor Zeng Qi