Some time ago, Hsiao Hsiao clarified in response to Taiwanese media reports that she had secretly married, and said that she is currently dating a partner, but has no plans to get married yet.
Moreover, she also revealed that she needed four surgeries in a year and a half - it is reported that this was because she had a hip fracture caused by high-intensity dancing all year round, and had to be treated as a last resort.
In fact, as early as the end of 2022, when Elva Hsiao shared photos of himself on social platforms, he was found to have a pair of crutches next to him.
But after the incident became public, the public was more concerned about her emotional life than her body.
Since her debut many years ago, Elva Hsiao has dated more than ten boyfriends, but after going round and round, she still has not been able to get married at the age of 45.
Behind this, in addition to the lack of love since childhood, it may also be because of her embarrassing experience of repeated love and failure.
1. The girl who lacks love in her heart
It is rumored that Elva Hsiao has had nearly 20 boyfriends - and this was photographed by the media.
Because of this, she was labeled as the "Queen of the Sea" by the outside world. She was the "little genius in love" that everyone envied, specializing in harvesting puppies and younger brothers.
But in fact, is Elva Hsiao really happy? Not really.
She was born in 1979 into a privileged but very complicated family. Her grandmother studied in Japan in her early years. Her father Xiao Yao and mother Ye Xiuling were both among the few intellectuals of that era.
Her parents had a good relationship in their early years. Three years after she gave birth to her, they added a younger brother. The life of a family of four was ordinary and warm.
But when she was 5 years old, her father suddenly decided to go to the United States for further study, even divorcing his wife who objected.
Later, he did get a doctorate in public health from Texas State University in the United States. After completing his studies, he also served as the head of a law firm.
But for the family, Xiao's father had almost no sense of responsibility and left his two young children to his ex-wife.
Xiao’s mother had no choice but to entrust the children to her own mother and go to the mall to fight alone. She became the head of the semiconductor company Yuanchao International and was worth over 100 million, but this is all a story for another day.
Talking back to Elva Hsiao, she lived in the countryside with her grandmother and younger brother since she was a child, but her childhood was not happy.
Grandma’s education method was very strict, and she never thought that she would become a singer in the future.
During this period, her mother tried to find a new partner, but Elva Hsiao did not support it: "I don't want strangers in the house!"
Her loving mother quickly gave in and broke up with her boyfriend.
Not only does this attitude towards her mother’s boyfriend, Elva Hsiao rarely even mentions her father. She said she has no impression, “The most important people to me are my mother and younger brother.”
At the same time, she also does not approve of what her mother said The value of "girls need to get married".
When she was in elementary school, Elva Hsiao's talents in literature and sports began to show. However, when she chose high school a few years later, she still chose her favorite art major.
htmlWhen she was 117 years old, she was sent by her mother to study at an art college in Canada, majoring in fashion design.
During her time at school, Elva Hsiao finally experienced the taste of "freedom", and she would also fall in love in a completely Westernized way, that is, dating was ambiguous, and then the relationship was confirmed.
Her first boyfriend in name was a "rich second generation" international student named Zhu Fangang.
In the future, the man also entered the entertainment industry, but his achievements were not the same as hers.
In 1998, two young people participated in the Chinese Rookie Singing Competition hosted by TVB. Elva Hsiao was spotted by the musician Yao Qian.
However, this matter was strongly opposed by her mother, but she was extremely persistent and said: "I can become a singer without you!"
2. The "Queen" who has been repeatedly hurt by love
The following year, her debut of the same name The album was released and sold more than 500,000 copies in Taiwan instantly. It can be said to be an instant hit.
Compared with Jolin Tsai, Stefanie Sun and Jingru Liang who debuted at the same time, Elva Hsiao's charm lies in her full vitality, and the free and easy mood conveyed in the song also suits her image, so fans flock to her.
On the other hand, her boyfriend Zhu Fangang has not yet joined the "183club" group, and the response to his own album has been mediocre.
failed to win, so he had to return to Canada to continue working as a model. Soon after, the two regretfully broke up due to the difficulties of long-distance love.
Elva Hsiao, who was at the peak of her career since her debut, later released her second album "Red Rose", of which "One Person's Wonderfulness" is still a classic in the hearts of many fans.
During this period, she established a romantic relationship with a young artist named Long Chenhan. The man once formed acron brothers with his brother Long Kaibin to debut, but they were always tepid.
Elva Hsiao doesn’t care about her status as a celebrity, and even announced her relationship in a high-profile manner.
But what she didn't expect was that when she and her boyfriend starred in the idol drama "Sunshine Jelly" not long ago, the man would cheat on her best friend Hou Xiangting.
Things are particularly bloody. It is reported that after the filming of this drama ended, Long Chenhan and Hou Xiangting collaborated on "Moonlight Forest" again, and the two became closer and closer.
Until one time, the two were blocked by Elva Hsiao who was going to her boyfriend's home...
This was Elva Hsiao's first betrayal, but she was very decent. She only announced the breakup officially and did not say a bad word about her ex.
The bloody story between the man and Hou Xiangting became known to the public only after he was kicked out by the paparazzi.
Elva Hsiao ignored this, because her career was really booming at that time:
not only became the second Taiwanese female singer to hold a concert at the Hung Hom Stadium after Zhang Huimei, she was also rated as "the most profitable" by the outside world. female artist".
Indeed at this stage, her new album "Title Song of Love" has become a hit again.
But no matter how good her career is, it seems that there is no way for her to gain enough security. She can only keep pursuing the feeling of being loved?
In 2003, Elva Hsiao met Tian Enpei, a member of the boy band b.a.d, after being introduced by a friend.
Although the man is not a big fan, he treats her very well when they are together, and even often goes out with Xiao's mother.
For a time, the public thought that the "little diva" had finally found the right person.
But what I didn’t expect was that Tian Enpei would also have an affair with others behind Elva Hsiao’s back, and she was immediately eliminated after she found out.
Although Elva Hsiao was only 25 years old at this time, she had experienced betrayal several times early on. Perhaps from then on, she became more certain about the kind of life she would lead in the future.
Talking about relationships many years later, she said lightly: "Marriage is just a piece of paper, just an explanation to your loved ones."
Sure enough, after that, Elva Hsiao only looked for his appearance when looking for a boyfriend, and therefore became the "" Meat Harvester". In the same year that
broke up with Tian Enpei, she got together with "Taiwan's most handsome man" Wang Yangming.
Despite being severely injured before, Elva Hsiao was still very devoted to this relationship. At that time, she happened to be invited to sing in the movie "Memoirs of a Geisha", but she gave up her job in order to accompany her boyfriend who was studying abroad.
For three years, she did not release a new album and rarely appeared, resulting in a sharp decline in popularity.
Xiao Yaxuan never regretted this. When she broke up with her husband in the future, she still said in a high-profile voice: "Wang Yangming is the most unforgettable one among my many exes."
Even after many years of breaking up, she still takes great care of him. , and even helped to connect people to join their own brokerage company.
As for the reason for the breakup of the two, Elva Hsiao attributed it to "no private space", and the man clearly refused to get back together with her: "We have become more like family members!"
3. The "genius in love" who cannot stay
In 2008, the nearly 30-year-old Elva Hsiao once again attracted the attention of fans with the release of her ninth album "Three Faces of Eve". Her song "Similar to Love" made netizens shout: She must be a queen!
Just when everyone thought she was going to start her career seriously again, Elva Hsiao started the road of "overseas queen" again.
She has been having affairs with "younger brothers" such as men's basketball player Mao Jiaen, model Bai Zixuan, and Li Andreou, but there has been no conclusion.
The following year, because she fell in love with actor Li Wei at the birthday party of her friend Wu Jianhao, sparks flew between the two and they were frequently photographed.
But feelings still come and go quickly, and they become so soon.
Time soon came to 2010, which was a special year for Elva Hsiao - her mother died of illness, and she inherited an inheritance of NT$1 billion.
There is no doubt that he has been a "diva" for many years since his debut, and he also received a huge inheritance from his mother. Elva Hsiao can be called the "winner in life" that everyone envies.
But in fact, behind her glory is the loneliness and loneliness that makes her sleepless.
It seems that Xiao Yaxuan has no choice but to fall into various "bad romances" again. He is repeatedly photographed by the paparazzi dating male singers and models who are much younger than him.
Among them were Zhou Tanghao, Liang Yaoji, and Ke Moudong, who had just become famous with "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years".
But this vigorous love soon extinguished. It is said that the reason for the breakup was that the man was "too playful".
What is even more intriguing is that the two broke up unhappy, and the man even insinuated that she had a "bad personality."
But Elva Hsiao still has the previous decent style of "not stepping on his ex". His ex was later arrested for taking drugs and even said good things to him.
The reason behind this may be due to his character of daring to love and hate. Not long after
and Ke Moudong broke up, Elva Hsiao got together with Wu Jianhao's brother-in-law at the time and Singapore's rich second generation Shi Zhengxiang.
also started from this stage, and her acting career seemed to have become the "Love Gossip Award".
no longer has the limelight of classic songs that it used to do before, and can only rely on its lively love life to gain popularity.
Elva Hsiao’s most passionate love interest in the past was Huang Hao, a model 16 years younger than herself.
The man was only 24 years old at the time and was an amateur. The two met through a friend’s introduction. She thought the age difference between them was too big and had no intention of dating.
However, during the process of getting along, they found that Huang Hao was mature and loved him very much, so the two quickly matched successfully.
Elva Hsiao also tried his best to support this young boyfriend. He felt that he could be an artist based on his appearance, so he began to force him to train, and even looked for opportunities to bring him on shows to increase his popularity.
But Huang Hao didn't seem to have much idea about this. There were rumors that the two had a conflict and almost broke up because the woman was too strong and forced him to train.
However, he is the boyfriend who has stayed with Elva Hsiao the longest. The two have been in love for four years. Although they were separated and reunited in the middle, they were always in love with each other.
Until July 2021, they broke up completely, and Huang Hao completely "disappeared" from the public eye.
Two years later, Elva Hsiao revealed that she was single again, and her husband immediately announced that he was married, and the two were completely over.
In the past two years, her acting career seemed to have hit the pause button. Only last year she released the single "Love Is Not Wrong", which seemed to be telling her love experience over the years.
The reason for the rumor of hidden marriage was actually because Elva Hsiao's slightly bulging belly when participating in a certain event led to speculation that she was pregnant.
But she later denied it, saying that she was unsteady in walking because of a disease in her hip joint.
On the other hand, the media revealed last year that she was dating a rich second-generation Dutch man. The man was also much younger than her, but her agent denied it.
At present, she freely admits that she has a romantic partner, but refuses to disclose who it is.
As a "little genius in love", perhaps Elva Hsiao finally understands that if you want to start a serious relationship, you must first protect it.
Looking at his dazzling emotional experiences, we can easily come to the conclusion:
’s so-called brave pursuit of love is actually the self-rescue of a girl who lacks love.
But she seemed to have used the wrong method, and the more she struggled, the more unsuccessful she became.
In any case, I still wish Elva Hsiao to really meet someone who can be entrusted to her for life in the future. After all, being in love forever may not be the ultimate happiness for a woman in her 40s.
