Recently, the topic "Lu Yi's daughter Xiao Ye was accused of attacking other people's looks" has been fermented. Lu Yi published a long article to explain what happened. The entire article avoided mentioning his daughter's mistakes, which directly caused public opinion to overturn and sparked heated discussions.
Lu Yi explained that the cause of the incident was that when two children were recording a video using special effects, the children's special effects fell off. Xiao Yezi thought it was more fun, so he made the comment "The little sister's nose has always been so funny", and it was not a ridicule spread on the Internet. He has never made any comments about other people's appearance. It is just a joke among friends. It was used by some people to deliberately create public opinion. He called on everyone to protect minors. He also said, "Little Ye Zi will not want to play short video software this summer." ".
However, the actual process was not what Lu Yi stated. The root cause is that Lu Yi's daughter Xiao Zi first posted a classmate's photo in the comment area and said with a smile, "My little sister's nose is always so funny." After being asked to delete it through a private message, Xiao Zi asked her classmate to delete it herself. After the classmate deleted it, Xiao Zi continued to comment. area to repeat messages.
The prerequisite for playing and joking is to obtain the approval of both parties. If one party feels offended and stops it, but the other party continues to comment, then it is not offensive to say "bullying". Obviously, in Lu Yi's long response article, he downplayed his daughter's mistake as a big deal and trivialized it, directly ignoring the psychological situation of his classmates, and the wording of "the child involved" in the article even pointed the finger at the victim. suspicion. Xiao Yezi is already 13 years old. Parents should educate their children to distinguish the difference between jokes and malice.
What’s even more ironic is that Lu Yi believes that his daughter has no intention of attacking the appearance of her classmates, but he blocks and deletes questioning comments like a cover-up. In the comment area, some netizens questioned whether things were really as Lu Yi said, and that it should be "just post one comment instead of repeating it all the time." Lu Yi deleted such comments and blocked the netizen, leaving only Defending his daughter's comments, his heart broke.
As public opinion expanded, the fake peace in Lu Yi’s comment area could no longer be controlled. A large number of netizens defended the grievances of amateur children and questioned that Lu Yi was suspected of buying a navy to cover his mouth. He used the influence of 208 to occupy the moral high ground and complained that he had time to clarify. Why not apologize first. In this turmoil, the most harmed person was the amateur classmate. The turmoil was caused by Lu Yi's daughter. There is no apology or respect for the amateur classmate in Lu Yi's full text.
And his words, "I believe Xiao Yezi will not want to play short video software again this summer vacation," were considered threatening by netizens. In fact, in addition to threats, it is more like "retreating to advance", creating an illusion of "netizens bullying Lu Yi's daughter", thinking that the public's negative comments forced the minor to retreat.
Later, Xiao Zizi’s classmates came out and expressed that things had turned around. The fact was that Xiao Zizi was bullied by amateur classmates, and posted several screenshots of chats without context and a screenshot of an amateur classmate announcing his withdrawal from the Internet. The classmate also explained in the comment area that Xiao Zi’s behavior was just a joke, and the author felt that Xiao Zi scolded her because she had done something bad to Xiao Zi before.
However, netizens did not believe this statement and thought that the amateur student’s apology for announcing his withdrawal from the Internet was more like being forced and did not look normal at all. In the statement, Su Ren took all the responsibility on himself, saying that the misunderstanding caused by his failure to do a good job implicated other people, and he hoped that everyone would stop scolding them.
School bullying has always been a hot topic in society. Although Lu Yi said that his daughter did not intend to "attack the appearance of her classmates," in the eyes of most parents, it is the initial stage of school bullying. Now that Lu Yi has spoken out, his family education has also been questioned. Hope Lu Yi and Bao Lei can face the issue of children's education sincerely.
In addition, the influence of celebrities and amateurs is not equal, and the right to speak is also different. I hope celebrities will make good use of their influence, speak cautiously, and play a leading role!
