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In full swing, " Rose Story" has its finale.
Huang Yimei, played by Liu Yifei , became a "motorcycle girl" after the death of her "soul mate" Fu Jiaming. She is no longer as beautiful as before, but a little more sassy and cool.
is no longer deliberately "high-profile and bright" and "low-key and ordinary" in her dress. She is very casual. Her hair has become curly and frizzy, and her every gesture is that of a mature woman, which is wonderful and tasteful.
After her 40th birthday, Rose met Nian Xia Lian. The pilot He Xi was fascinated by her. She saw that the two people were about to have a spark of love, but Rose personally stopped the bud of love in her heart.
At the age of 40, she is no longer persistent and obsessed with love. She said to herself:
"I walk on the road easily and happily. I am healthy and free. The world is in front of me. The long brown road is in front of me, pointing to where I want to go. Anywhere.
From now on, I no longer hope for happiness, I am happiness, I like everything I meet, and everything is accepted.
From now on, I am not restricted, I make myself free, and I go where I want. Wherever I want to go, I am completely and absolutely in charge.”
sublimated the whole show at once.
"I am completely and absolutely in charge of me." Please read this sentence carefully. After you understand it, you will not say that "The Story of the Rose" is unfinished.
This is what this drama wants to tell us about women, what a truly free woman looks like.
Just as Yi Nengjing wrote a short composition for "The Story of Roses", "I am completely and absolutely in charge of me. This is not just a line, but also the epic of Huang Yimei's life. We have loved and made mistakes, we have We will redeem ourselves again and again in the midst of decline and construction. We will eventually become bystanders of the past of our lives and owners of future lives, just because women can empathize with each other and accept everything that may happen in life." .
Yi Nengjing's literary talent is so good, she really understands the spiritual core of this drama.
Some netizens said that Huang Yimei, played by Liu Yifei, is too pretentious and she really can't pursue her at all. She doesn't want her first love who has been guarding her for more than ten years, and she doesn't want her domineering CEO ex-husband to remarry her. You say whether she can do it or not. It's not realistic at all. If this were in real life, how could such an excellent first love and ex-husband still be waiting for her there. Men will dislike a woman with so much past, okay?
's remarks are quite speechless. Our cognition is not on the same level, so there is no way to discuss it.
Why did Rose completely change after Fu Jiaming's death?
It’s not that Fu Jiaming’s death had a great impact on her, but that she knew how to live for herself and what she wanted for a long time.
After Rose helped Fu Jiaming fulfill his last wish to climb the mountain, she never saw Fu Jiaming again after coming down the mountain. She attended Fu Jiaming's funeral, feeling dejected. After the funeral, she danced in her secret base in mourning clothes. Under Fu Jiaming's influence, she also signed a personal "body donation", and then she dressed like Fu Jiaming, and she relied on the motorcycle Fu Jiaming left for her to travel.
She is taking Fu Jiaming with her to continue living in this world.
The person you love is dead. No matter how much you cry, you can't save it. You can only let yourself move on.
In fact, life is a journey, experiencing and experiencing life. If you understand this level, you will not have so many worries.
Sorrows and joys, joys and sorrows, ups and downs, aren't they all what life brings to us?
Happiness and pain are real life, there is no need to complain.
At this time, Rose truly realized why she should continue to live and what she could do.
I really like the finale of the drama version of "The Story of a Rose", because the roses written by Yi Shu are still too vulgar, just a superficial vase that cannot withstand the wind and rain. The roses written by Yi Shu have never been. Once she was independent, whether it was mentally or financially, she was always dependent on others. She acted willfully, used beauty to commit crimes, relied on her better appearance to do whatever she wanted, and was too sentimental.
Because of this, I have never liked roses, and I don’t appreciate women like this. So what if they are beautiful, but they are hollow. The rose ending in the original work of
is to marry Sir Rod King, inherit a large inheritance, and play in the world. She doesn't refuse love whoever comes, because she has this strength, who makes her beautiful? The rose in the
drama version is truly her own.
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Let’s take a look at Rose’s growth path:
When she was in her early twenties, she was so bright and dazzling. She dressed herself up as gorgeously as she wanted. She wanted all men’s eyes to follow her, and she pursued Passionate love, but Zhuang Guodong didn't like her. She went crazy and smashed his home. She couldn't understand why Zhuang Guodong couldn't focus on her.
We are all like this when we are young. We have not experienced the hardships of life, and we are even more ignorant about love. We think that when we fall in love, you will be the center.
Guan Zhizhi said, "A girl as beautiful as a rose will not suffer in love." How is this possible?
As long as you believe in love, work hard to love, and are all in, you will suffer, because the difference between ideal and reality is too big.
After breaking up with Zhuang Guodong, Rose suddenly became dim. She went to Fudan University to study psychology. She wore the most ordinary clothes that she had disdained when she was young. At this time, Rose has not yet recovered from her emotional pain. She feels that being "low-key and ordinary" can make her feel more secure.
Fang Xiewen appeared, and she fell in love again.
Unlike her love affair with Zhuang Guodong, Rose was moved by Fang Xiewen's kindness.
I thought Fang Xiewen was sincere to her, but this time she tasted the pain of marriage.
A man's kindness can be disguised. He will cater to you everywhere before marriage, but after marriage he will become a different person. For the sake of your children, you have to be patient at all times. The worried mother-in-law and the suspicious husband all thought that by being patient, they could make the marriage last, but little did they know that it was still a piece of cake.
A happy marriage is something that can only happen but cannot be sought. Rose insisted on divorcing Fang Xiewen because she found that she no longer loved him, and all her love was wasted away by the trivialities of life. Fang Xiewen's love is the love that Rose has given the most, but if you give it to the wrong person, you won't get good results.
and then with soulmate Fu Jiaming.
Fu Jiaming is the one who really understands roses.
I can completely understand why Rose fell in love with Fu Jiaming. They reached a natural tacit understanding of their souls.
's love affair with Marco Fu made Rose see through life and death in the world.
In the past, she loved blindly and wanted this or that, but in the end she realized that life is so fragile. We all come and go in vain, and we cannot deny the entirety of our own lives just because our lover’s life is short. You can only move forward, live with the expectations of the person you love for you, enjoy the rest of your life for him and see the scenery of this world.
No one knows why we should live?
The world is so miserable, but we still have to live.
Just because we don’t know, we have to live with questions. Life is an experience. How wonderful it would be for
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to reunite with his first love Zhuang Guodong.
is. Zhuang Guodong is handsome, rich, and infatuated. He has maintained his integrity for so many years.
But the problem is that the love I once had has disappeared, and I have no passion to continue with him. So what if we were together? Can you be happy? Will the conflicts that existed before no longer exist? She already knew what it was like to be in love with him, and there was no need to do it again, not to mention that Rose had Fu Jiaming in her heart at this time. How wonderful it is that
is remarried to CEO ex-husband Fang Xiewen.
is. Fang Xiewen should know that he was wrong and would not restrict her freedom.
He just took it for granted that Fang Xiewen's love was control. Even after being divorced for so long, he still couldn't help but want to ridicule Rose when he knew that Rose was having an affair with the young man He Xi. Fang Xiewen cannot be changed. There is nothing wrong with him, but the way he loves is wrong.
So if Rose gets remarried, won’t Rose just follow the same old path of marriage?
Remarriage is the most meaningless thing.
You are vainly seeking to restore the old relationship, thinking that he will cherish you, but you don't know that you are just repeating the same mistakes.
Why must people have love?
has experienced it, isn’t it better?
Life at the age of 40 also starts over. You can live boldly according to your own ideas.
Don’t be defined by the world. You must get married to feel safe. If you can’t control yourself, do you feel safe?
I envy Rose's life, she has become her true self.
What woman doesn’t envy her?
As long as we live in her direction and work hard, that will be fine.
encourage each other to become independent women in the true sense.
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Author: yibao, original emotional author, millions of emotional bloggers, marriage and family counselor, writes warm emotional things in this world through personal practice.
