The TV series " Rose Story " has been online for eight days, and its popularity has remained high. The number of reservations and broadcasts has repeatedly set records, and the hot drama of the year has been firmly determined. Moreover, the series and actor Liu Yifei were also named and praised by People's Daily Online, and their excellent quality has received full praise.
Among them, Liu Yifei, Tong Dawei , Wan Qian , etc. contributed a lot to the full performance. In addition, the gorgeous costumes, makeup, and heart-wrenching sugar all firmly attracted the hearts of the audience. The love story between Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong is also exciting and ups and downs. In the end, the roses let go freely and left each other alone.
Then Qingjun Xiaosheng Fang Xiewen (played by Lin Gengxin) came quietly, and everything seemed so beautiful.
With the help of the plot, let's first sort out the most representative love story in the drama, that is, the passionate love between Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong ( Peng Guanying ).
From a chance encounter, a good first impression was left; Falling in love and killing each other in a small apartment;
until they are separated by two places, the distance creates a rift;
and then a fatal blow at the drinking party, Rose stop loss and exit.
This process, full of ups and downs, can be called a model for modern love teaching between men and women.
Let’s take a closer look.
1. Love to the extreme, emotional everywhere
In the original work, Rose and Zhuang Guodong met at her seventeenth birthday party. They fell in love at first sight and immediately became passionate. It's just that Zhuang Guodong already has a fiancée, and Mei Mei, who dares to love and hate, even made a scene and smashed up Zhuang Guodong's apartment, so that his brother had no choice but to pay for it.
The series basically only left the character temperament and the famous scene of smashing the apartment. The other settings and deductions are far more exciting than the original work.
In the play, Huang Yimei is a newcomer in the workplace. In order to gain the trust and appreciation of the "devil boss" Jiang Xueqiong ( Zhu Zhu) , through intelligent dealings with the lobby manager, she successfully entered the private reception and hooked up with the collector Mr. Teng. Wire.
And Zhuang Guodong was the introducer at the cocktail party.
Rose's stunning appearance at the reception attracted the attention of all men, and Zhuang Guodong's decency and generosity also captured Rose's heart.
The two people are completely devoted to their love. Their emotions are out of control, and they are like glue. They even hug and kiss passionately at any time regardless of the occasion. handsome men and beautiful women, they are in love with each other, and their love is like fire. is eye-catching and pleasing to the eye, and it also shows pure love to the audience. The beauty of love.
In various intimate passages, Liu Yifei showed her dedication and superb acting skills.
Faced with Zhou Shihui’s wishful thinking, Huang Yimei calmly refused without getting entangled; facing her favorite Zhuang Guodong, Huang Yimei took bold action and devoted herself to love. They hugged each other when they met, and missed each other when they left. Their red lips were slightly opened, their beautiful eyes were slightly closed, and their faces were full of happiness and satisfaction, as if they were a couple melted by love.
Looking at the country, there are not many actors who can perform such a passionate kiss!
burns fiercely and warmly, and ebbs cleanly. When the fire of love burns to its peak, it's time to break up.
Rose and Zhuang Guodong are so in love with each other, why did they end up not being destined for each other and had to part ways?
2. Class differences, two places apart
Yi Shuyuan set up a fiancée as Zhuang Guodong, so his passionate love with Rose is more like an emotional affair. The
series has completed a more multi-layered and rich setting. The breakup of Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong is more like "expected" caused by the interference of reality.
Let’s look at first. The direct reason why the two broke up: they were separated by two places.
Zhuang Guodong received an offer from the French company headquarters and was about to go to work in Paris. However, seeing Rose being so emotional, he directly discussed the details of meeting his parents with him, so he suppressed the news for the time being.
Unexpectedly, this behavior angered Rose, and she staged a scene where she smashed the apartment in anger.
The temptation of the French headquarters, coupled with the urging of his mother, Zhuang Guodong finally went to Paris. The two had video chats, talked on the phone, and even Rose went directly to Paris to get close to Zhuang Guodong.
However, no amount of enthusiasm can offset the distance caused by the distance. The two have a rift and get angry over trivial arguments. After all, blazing love is short-lived, and most loves require careful management, with freshness, responsibility, dependence and habits to resist the boredom after the passion fades.
Obviously, neither Huang Yimei nor Zhuang Guodong has such ability to control the field.
Attended a cocktail party in Paris. Huang Yimei followed Zhuang Guodong to attend and met her mother and her little wolfdog boyfriend. At the same time, she also learned about Zhuang Guodong's ex-girlfriend whom she still knew well.
This cocktail party exposed a deeper rift between the two: the class gap.
Huang Yimei in the series is considered a middle-class urban family (not a wealthy family in the original book). My parents are university professors and senior intellectuals, and my brother is an entrepreneurial young man. Naturally, he has a car and a house, and has enough food and clothing, but he is not considered luxurious or wealthy.
Zhuang Guodong is a proper young man from a rich family. My father runs a business in China and has already achieved wealth and freedom; my mother is in the celebrity world in Paris, France; she has cars, houses and apartments at home, and she also has rich and diversified industries abroad. If Zhuang Guodong doesn't work hard enough, he will be forced to go home and inherit a family fortune worth hundreds of millions.
So at the beginning, Huang Yimei was attracted by Zhuang Guodong's appearance and accomplishments. His appearance is natural, but the so-called cultivated temperament and emotional value provided by a man are not all piled up with cash?
Then they went to France to experience Zhuang Guodong’s real daily life. Huang Yimei already felt that it was difficult for the two to integrate. When you are in love, you can help each other, you and I. When the tide receded and life revealed its true colors, Huang Yimei discovered that their worlds were so different.
So Huang Yimei made the right choice. The love between the two was just a chance encounter for Zhuang Guodong, a dream. It did not damage his high-end celebrity life in the slightest, and maybe it could also add chips to the young master's emotional resume.
But for Huang Yimei, this was a gamble that cost everything. She couldn't afford to gamble, let alone lose, so leaving the game in time was the best choice.
Huang Yimei, Zhou Shihui, and Zhuang Guodong still remind people of the familiar lyrics: Those who love me give everything for me, but I am willing to shed tears and sorrow for the one I love.
asked what is love in the world, always called for life and death?
3. The prosperity and decline, the secret of preservation
Like Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong, love at first sight, electric light, fire, and passionate love, can it only end with the fuel exhausted and the flame extinguished?
The so-called "beginning in chaos and ending in abandonment" is the only belonging to similar love paragraphs?
Of course not, love can burn fiercely, but there are also effective ways to keep the fire and keep it warm for a lifetime.
Just like the love between Huang and Zhuang, it started from a romantic encounter. The two fell in love at first sight, and from then on they fell in love with each other, and the flames of love were comparable to the barbecue bonfire rising in the wild in "The Boy Who Can't See a Shadow" .
When the fire gradually weakens, encountering such a transnational love affair that is far away from each other, even across half of the world; the tide recedes, and the cold and hard skeleton of real life is in front of them, Where should Huang and Zhuang go?
In fact, we can prescribe the right medicine from the two points analyzed above.
The first is to eliminate physical distance. Love is a short-term hormonal stimulation reaction. To achieve warm and long-term love, it requires more time and energy to experience together. Short-term passionate kissing and getting along cannot be achieved, and it must be accumulated in daily life.
So either Zhuang Guodong will return to China, or Huang Yimei will go to France. If this difference is not resolved, love will not last.
Time will dilute all emotions. When we are together, we are like glue and we don't want to be apart for a moment. But when you are far away, all kinds of suspicion, imagination, and resentment will breed. Zhuang Guodong arrived in Paris, had his own social life, and gradually drifted away from Rose.
What is more important is to eliminate the class gap , that is, to achieve a balance between status and voice between two people.
Once the status is imbalanced, it will be difficult for the two of them to last long.
As for how to eliminate this gap, there are many ways.
First of all, Zhuang Guodong should calm down and really want to live with Huang Yimei (not just for fun). On this basis, maintain equal communication between the two, integrate as soon as possible, and grow together.
Emotional relationships like this are easy to say, but how difficult is it to do? Therefore, there are too many crazy men and resentful women in the world. How many couples have you seen who are not "well-matched" but can achieve righteousness?
The story of Wang Xiaofei and Das, Chen Sicheng, Wen Zhang, Huang Xiaoming and so on need not be said here.
Falling in love is not easy, but staying together is even harder. Since we are destined to know each other and fall in love, we will cherish this journey of companionship and manage it carefully. You cook and I wash the dishes, and then we will write "The Story of the Rose" together.