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Editor | Xiang Wanwan
In the past few days, I have been swiped by Yu Hewei again.
That was a scene in the short video. A mysterious woman suddenly appeared at the funeral. She looked almost exactly the same as Yu Hewei's ex-wife.
At that time, "Uncle Liu Huang"'s expression showed not only surprise, but also a trace of deep affection and longing that could not be hidden.
Just this scene makes people curious about this drama.
This may be the strength of Yu Hewei. He can attract everyone's attention with just one look.
Moreover, in his career, there were many such scenes of and .
"I have been fighting for a lifetime, can't I enjoy it?"
"Then play music, then dance."
In the Three Kingdoms, the rebellious Uncle Liu Huang.
He is as solid as a rock, his smile can make people's hair stand on end, and he is an extremely gentle man to his daughter.
A shushing action made us all outside the screen feel the love for his daughter. The father who did not want his daughter to be frightened used his last dignity to protect his daughter.
Every character is his real weakness. His twenty-year career as an actor has made us remember the names of each of his characters, but not his.
01
In the spring of 1971, the frozen soil in the north had just melted. A boy was born to a family living in poverty in Dongzhou District, Fushun City, Liaoning Province.
He is our Uncle Liu Huang, Yu Hewei.
When Yu Hewei was born, his mother was already 45 years old, and he was the youngest child in the family. There are 8 brothers and sisters on top. The old idea is that more children bring happiness and prosperity.
When he was born, several older brothers and sisters were already able to live independently.
’s eldest sister is 24 years older than him. At that time, my sister had already started a family, my mother was old and had no milk, and there were many children in the family and no money to buy milk powder. Milk powder at that time was already considered a luxury product.
The eldest sister happened to be pregnant at that time, and the eldest sister said: "Let me feed Xiaowei."
With this short sentence, Yu Hewei later heard from other brothers and sisters that his feelings for his eldest sister were that of a eldest sister, like a mother.
Besides, he is only one year older than his niece. He always says that it is his brothers and sisters who support him. Without his eldest sister, he would not exist.
He didn't have much impression of his father, but his brothers and sisters said that his father often came home drunk.
His mother scolded him for coming back so late and drinking, and the children all lay down to sleep.
But the father smiled and remained silent, opened the bag of meat, held the meat in one hand, and patted the children's heads with the other. The children opened their eyes and opened their mouths to feed them one by one. They were fed in a row, and the last one was the mother. The mother said, "Go away." Such a beautiful family scene no longer existed when he was three years old.
His father passed away when he was three years old, and the backbone of the family was gone, which made the already poor family even worse.
At a young age, Yu Hewei and his mother went to set up street stalls to do business, and went home to collect coal with his brothers at night.
is such a family environment, but there is such a national first-class actor .
Yu Hewei said, I want to act out the scene of my father feeding meat into the play. It is said that a good actor is the most real because he has experienced the most real suffering.
No matter how poor the family is, children still need to study. Reading can change the current situation of the family. However, Yu Hewei's studies, which had placed the hopes of his whole family, were not ideal.
Yu Hewei has loved literature and art since he was a child, and he is indispensable every time there is a cultural activity in school.
After graduating from junior high school, he entered the music class of Fushun Preschool Normal School.
Three years later, he was successfully admitted to Fushun Repertory Theater. He met Song Wenjing in the drama troupe. Apart from his mother and sisters, she was the most important woman in his life.
02
Song Linjing is a dancer in the drama troupe. Yu Hewei, a co-star, saw Song Linjing at the first sight and decided to pursue this girl.
When Yu Hewei ran directly to Song Linjing to introduce himself, Song Linjing was startled, thinking that there was something wrong with this person.
later slowly followed Song Linjing in the car and took her home without saying a word, just following silently.
After a long time, Song Linjing discovered that Yu Hewei did not do anything excessive, nor did he have any malicious intentions. He just followed her home.
Slowly, the two of them started chatting. During the chat, they discovered that Yu Hewei was a very talented person who liked acting and singing. The two of them also have a lot in common.
Later, Song Linjing's parents learned about their relationship and did not agree with its development.
Although Song Linjing’s family is not a wealthy one, who wouldn’t want their daughter to marry into a family with relatively better conditions?
Yu Hewei said to Song Linjing, "Wait for me, I will make a name for you and let my family recognize me."
In order to change all this, Yu Hewei resigned from the Fushun Repertory Theater and resolutely entered the Shanghai Theater Academy.
At that time, his family did not agree with him quitting his job. A stable job is actually the best thing for many children.
But Yu Hewei can see the end of this job at a glance. He can see what kind of life he will live in the next 20 and 30 years.
He likes acting and wants to make a name for the people he likes.
At that time, his family did not have the tuition fees for him to go to Shanghai.
The young lady sold the piano at home to give it to her nephew to learn piano. A piano cost more than 4,000 yuan at the time. In order to raise the first year’s tuition for Yu Hewei, the sister gave him the 4,000 yuan from the piano sale for him to go to school. College. And tell him to study hard and the brothers and sisters will help you find a way.
In this way, Yu Hewei went to college with the support of his brother, sister and girlfriend.
When I boarded the train going south, my family was outside the car.
He couldn't hold back his tears when the car started moving, but the Northeastern man was so proud that he put on his sunglasses. But he still couldn't stop crying. At that moment, a seed was planted in his heart that he must learn a certain way and let his family live a good life.
03
The eating habits in Northeast China are different from those in Shanghai. Yu Hewei is not used to eating.
But he gritted his teeth and persisted. When he was in college, he worked and studied while going to school to reduce the burden on his family.
Song Linjing's salary at that time was handed over to her family, leaving 30 yuan for herself, 20 yuan of which was given to Yu Hewei's mother to fulfill her filial piety.
My mother saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart. Every time Yu Hewei comes home, Yu's mother nags Song Linjing as a good girl and don't treat her badly.
Yu Hewei also kept it in mind.
It happened that that year, the theater directing college class was recruiting students, and it only took two years to study.
Yu Hewei asked Song Linjing to come to school, thinking that he could graduate with him and end his long-distance relationship.
Song Linjing was afraid that she would fail the exam, so Yu Hewei helped her with guidance every day. Song Linjing's exam was arranged when she returned to school.
In the end, Song Linjing passed the exam, and only then did the two end their long-distance relationship. After graduation, the two were assigned to the Nanjing Repertory Theater.
However, Yu Hewei's job did not go so smoothly after graduation, and he often had to do a side job. On the other hand, Song Linjing's work is getting better and better, she is constantly filming, and she is making a lot of money.
At that time, it was clear that he wanted to give her a good future, but the result was not as good as hers.
Look at those who debuted at the same time and have already started buying houses and cars. But he didn't have any of them, and he still had to rely on his girlfriend to survive, which was very frustrating.
At the most difficult time, Yu Hewei also thought about giving up her career as an actor. Song Linjing encouraged her and said: "Don't be anxious, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared."
Yu Hewei still insisted on one idea in his heart, no matter how hard he suffered, he would be responsible for it. Make a name for yourself in your favorite job and let your loved ones live a good life.
Maybe only what you like can persist no matter how hard it is.
04
Before the good days came, my mother passed away while filming a movie in the south.
Not long after, my eldest sister was diagnosed with cancer and passed away.
The two nurturing women were no longer here, which was a huge blow to him. The deaths of these two people made Yu Hewei hide in the bathroom on the set and cry hard.
Song Linjing was by his side to comfort him. Birth, old age, illness and death are all human nature. He still has 7 brothers and sisters, and they still have to live their lives. The two also agreed to get married after he finished filming his first movie.
finally got his first chance when he was 28 years old. From then on, he began to show his prominence with his own strength.
Yu Hewei and Song Linjing also spent 400 yuan to get married after Yu Hewei finished filming his first movie. After getting married, with the support of his wife and family, he continued to make movie appointments and became completely popular.
For a long time, everyone didn't know Yu Hewei, they only knew the roles he played. He portrayed the character so well, but he was different from the real person.
After Yu Hewei became famous, his wife took the initiative to buy a house and a car for his brothers and sisters.
When the keys were handed over to the brothers and sisters, the brothers and sisters said: "Be good to Xiaowei, not for anything else, just for Xiaowei's good."
Song Linjing knows that without these brothers and sisters, there would be no Yu Hewei today, without them This wealthy home.
During the Chinese New Year, Yu Hewei, who was already very famous at that time.
I went back early in the morning with Song Linjing to help my brother sell steamed buns. Everyone came to watch. They knew he was an actor but still couldn't name him.
My brother said disgustedly: "Hurry home and sleep, don't delay my business." He smiled and said to everyone: "This is my brother, everyone is here to support me and buy more buns to eat."
He knew that his brother was not I was afraid that he would delay his business, and I felt sorry for him because he finally had a vacation.
was filming in Hengdian once. In the video, he told his sister that it was so hot that he should turn on the air conditioner at home. In fact, my sister knew that he was on the set, so she rushed to the set to see him and brought him his favorite dumplings.
When he saw the dumplings brought by his sister, he didn't even have time to worry about the image, so he grabbed the dumplings with his hands and ate them.
He has always felt that the dumplings made by his family are the best food.
Song Linjing has been with him since she was 18 years old. She understands his feelings for his family and what he needs.
05
Because only such a simple family can raise such a simple actor, who came out of the black land with love and ideals.
His success is the result of a family of support and growth. In an interview with
, Yu Hewei said, "Every time I finish a play, I feel anxious. Is there any next play?" The host of
said, do you regret quitting such a stable job?
He smiled and replied: I don’t regret it, because I love acting.
Many actors will have scandals after becoming famous, and teacher Yu Hewei also has scandals.
Moreover, there are many beautiful female celebrities who have acted with him, among which Wang Likun has the most scandals. Because they worked together five or six times.
But Song Linjing's understanding of Hewei allowed him to cope with the temptations and crises in the entertainment industry.
It is said that behind a successful man there is a woman who silently supports him.
Song Linjing is the woman behind Yu Hewei, the woman who never gave up encouraging him when his life was at a low point, and the woman who fulfilled her filial piety for him even though she was not married.
Teacher Yu Hewei said that if one day he could be a director and make a movie that would not be outdated, I guess this movie would be a movie that would convey our love.
After all, he has a warm home and a wife who loves him and shows him the way to the future.
No matter how hard life is, as long as you persist in what you love, you will succeed one day.
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