People long for a public and real platform, which is not only a purposeful blind date, but also a rare self-expression for ordinary people
Recently, a blind date program "Wang Po Matchmaking" in the Long live Mountain Martial Arts City Scenic Area in Kaifeng, Henan became popular on the Internet. The man Liu was jokingly called "running for love" by netizens because he ran on the stage of "Mother-in-Law's Matchmaking", and the related video received widespread attention. During a blind date with a woman on stage, Liu said that he was willing to quit his current job in Zhengzhou and go to Sichuan "for love", and then the two parties exchanged WeChat messages.
But after the video went viral, Liu’s wife Xue appeared on an online platform that night and posted her marriage certificate, saying that she and Liu were married. After the incident, she learned from friends that her husband had a blind date on stage and that she was overseas. , the mood was very broken. The man Liu said that his original intention was to let his wife return to China as soon as possible, thinking that she would come back in a hurry once she knew it. He has now officially apologized to his wife and explained the whole story to the woman who had a blind date on the stage that day.
↑ Liu walked off the stage after a blind date
The impact of this incident was so bad that the brand name of "Wang Granny Matchmaking" was also affected. Just imagine, if this incident had not been on the news and the wife of the person involved had not discovered it, an ethical tragedy might have occurred. It is unacceptable if it is originally a pure blind date platform but ends up being taken advantage of by unscrupulous people.
But then I thought about it, this may also be the inevitable "fate" after "Wang Po's Matchmaking" became popular - as the popularity becomes higher and higher, more and more people will come with various purposes, and all kinds of tricks will and the direction may have been difficult to control. Wang Po herself also expressed such anxiety. She said in the live broadcast: "Those who bring their own scripts should not join in the fun. Leave the opportunity to those who really want to make friends."
is real and unscripted, which is exactly what "Wang Po's matchmaking" is about. important value. "Wang Po's Matchmaking" is essentially a "scene", and her performance is part of the Kaifeng Long live Mountain Martial Arts City Scenic Area; however, "Wang Po's Matchmaking" maintains a certain "truth" - blind dates and making friends are all real events. . The interplay between reality and reality in is the most interesting part of this project. This is rather like the concept of "hyper-reality" in contemporary philosophy. Queens and blind dates, reality and fiction have been seamlessly integrated. The function of making friends is very traditional, but the role-playing is very novel.
But maintaining this “hyper-reality” can be difficult. In fact, Grandma Wang had already been involved in a similar controversy a few days ago. A female tourist came on stage, but she was found to have a miniature microphone on her collar. She was considered to be an Internet celebrity who was trying to attract traffic, so she was kicked off the stage. When this kind of "unhappiness" happens many times, it becomes difficult for "Wang Po's matchmaking" to maintain the simple "truth". This requires Wang Po herself to have a sharp eye, and may cause accidental injuries and unexpected twists and turns.
As a program that was discovered by accident, the value of "Wang Po's Matchmaking" is worth cherishing. People long for a public and real platform. This is not only a purposeful blind date, but also a rare self-expression for ordinary people - some people hugged and cried with the queen on the stage, and there were also sincere expressions from widowed ladies. This should be A place for ordinary people.
Therefore, people should listen to Wang Po’s words, “Leave opportunities to those who really want to make friends.” There is no room for “scripts” on Wang Po’s blind date stage. Those with impure motives and those Internet celebrities who want to gain traffic may wish to exercise restraint and not use various tricks to ruin the reputation of "Wang Granny's matchmaking".
In addition, Mrs. Wang herself is under great pressure. She said, "I have to be interviewed every day, and my hair has turned a lot white. I am really tired. I really can't do anything. I just want to keep the pure land of the small teahouse." "Wang Po's matchmaking" has now become the signature of the scenic spot, and one can imagine the tremendous pressure on the body and mind.
At this time of frequent public opinion, it would be better to really let Mrs. Wang adjust. At the same time, the scenic spot can also improve the "prevention measures", such as signing a letter of integrity commitment when taking the stage. Firstly, it can exert a certain amount of moral pressure. Secondly, In the event of a "rollover", the scenic spot also has room for accountability.In short, the huge popularity of is certainly a good thing, but it also contains some destructive forces. Scenic spots should take precautions against uncontrollable factors and learn how to maintain themselves and their authenticity in the traffic whirlpool.
Red Star News Special Commentator Yi Zhi
Editor Zhao Yu
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