When it comes to "husbands" who have a sense of husband, Baike must be on the list. Baike, who is known as the number one beta in domestic entertainment, made the public realize his sense of a husband through his role as the good husband Cheng Liang in "A Lady's Dignity". In the play, he is both reliable as a father and caring as a mother. He respects, understands and helps his wife in his stable emotional output. He successfully creates the image of a model husband who cares about the family and is considerate to women, and interprets the sense of stability and stability for the family. On the other hand, the feeling of being a husband is like a sexually modified version of the "good marriage style".
Later, he played the role of Ma Jie in "The Annual Party Can't Stop" and once again became popular with his sense of being a husband. Although he rarely interacts with his wife in the play, you can think of him happily and cautiously asking his wife if he can add some pocket money after getting a promotion or salary increase, or the Gu family preparing a little surprise on the way home from get off work. Good man. In Baike, you can't see the superiority of a "high-quality man", let alone the greasiness of a domineering president. He can show weakness and have shortcomings, and he can be more like a "high-quality" person that will actually appear in life.
《我的我》 In "Human Fireworks", Meng Yanchen, played by Wei Daxun, redefines the boss from the perspective of a husband. He presents a warm character with the temperament of a boss but without losing the feelings of a husband in front of the public, which is eye-catching. If the image of those frivolous and even slightly greasy bosses is like wine, then Meng Yanchen is like tea with its own fragrance. From the inside out, it reveals the introverted and humble Chinese cultural background, which is kind and slightly sharp, calm but not calm. Lose publicity.
Lin Zhendong, played by Hu Xianxu in "Flying Life and Love", his gender has also been officially diagnosed as husband. He can be said to be a younger brother who suddenly changed into a husband. The sexual tension between teenagers and adults completes the temperament of a husband. . Mr. Xiao Lin in the play is not a cold-blooded and tyrannical boss, but a down-to-earth, gentle and determined young talent. He is restrained without losing his emotions and desires. In the "disappearing father, the strong mother, the broken him" ” and carved out a tough and powerful path that is unique to him.
Qiao Yicheng, played by Bai Yu in "Children of the Qiao Family", is also one of the characters with a strong sense of humanity. He does not have many scenes but has a full character image. In the play, he helped his younger siblings grow up. From his childhood diet and daily life to his marriage choices when he grew up, he successfully created the image of a eldest brother like his father, showing his responsibility and responsibility as the eldest son of Qiao. Although he has experienced failures in the emotional world But he finally meets his sweetheart and finds a new role for modern men in the balance between family responsibilities and personal life.
The development and growth of different characters in different plots show different charms. By paying attention to and scrutinizing these characters, we may be able to extract the common core characteristics of human husbands and better understand and face each other. Think more deeply about the meaning and value of women's roles and real needs in family, social and emotional relationships.
Looking at different male stars and their roles, how can we have the same sense of humanity as them? When you delve deeper into the core characteristics they share, you will find that "stability" and "altruism" are the standard features of both internal and external aspects of being a husband.
When talking about the stability that a husband should have, the external image, personality, emotions and personal career are the indispensable "three stability". The deeper stability is manifested in the inner maturity and tenacity, which comes from the relationship. Respect for self and responsibility for others. This sense of responsibility is not limited to the family, but also includes responsibility for society, that is, selfless care and support for family and partners, as well as various efforts and contributions to society.
First of all, a stable external image is an important part of a man's sense of being a husband. may not be handsome but must be refreshing and clean. This unassuming yet charming external image is also a deep understanding and respect for oneself, and it can also inspire respect and trust from people around you.
Secondly, a stable personality and emotion is an important cornerstone for building a sense of humanity. must not only know how to control his own emotions, but also understand and tolerate the emotional appeals of others, provide firm support and encouragement to family members in difficult times, and not lose consciousness due to changes in the outside world. This kind of inner peace and rationality can not only make social relationships more harmonious, but also make family members and partners feel completely safe. Just like Xie Yang, played by Ren Bin in "Goodbye Hometown", he is always calm and as stable as warm water at 40 degrees Celsius.
Furthermore, stable work and financial strength are important manifestations of men's interpretation of the charm of a husband. You don’t have to be an industry elite, nor do you have to be rich, but you must have a positive attitude and serious thinking about your career path, and have the financial strength to pass the test. If stability of is hardware, then altruism is software. They always pay attention to the needs and feelings of their families. They are not only the backbone of the family, but also the strong backing of their partners, building an indestructible emotional defense line. The ability to withstand external pressure and internally provide a safe haven for the heroine.
The sense of "husband" is not the so-called superficial honesty with no ability and constant small thoughts, but a high-quality existence that can find a sense of positive value in family life. This kind of gentle, responsible and serious man may be the most popular one nowadays. A beautiful and more admirable existence.
When the feeling of being a husband has become the popular tone of the current ideal partner, one cannot help but ask: Why are these seemingly "ordinary" men so sought after, and have even become a new trend in mate selection? Is this "ordinary" really within our reach? In an era when Taiwanese puppets and Korean dramas dominate TV dramas, we used to be more inclined to pursue the character of a domineering male protagonist to satisfy our yearning for "male" security. The hegemonic narrative that tends toward machismo is more of a model of how men and women get along with each other from a male perspective.
Nowadays, female viewers are beginning to pay more and more attention to their inner feelings, and gradually realize the importance of warmth and understanding in emotional relationships, so that their mate selection needs continue to develop towards the norm while adjusting their expectations. Compared with overwhelming wealth and luxurious romance, the little bits of happiness in life and things that can bring a sense of stability may be more real.
Women have begun to realize that in order to truly achieve happiness, the most important thing is to rely on their own efforts to carve out their own rights and world in material terms, and to choose a "stable" existence that feels like a husband in their emotions. They are no longer limited to men's external characteristics and objective added value, and begin to pay more attention to inner qualities and emotional resonance. Rather than compromise and decline in aesthetics, it is better to say that the pursuit of husbandly men is a time when women are constantly aware of what is the most reasonable choice.
Therefore, the rise of husband-like images has just filled this gap. A more mature, peaceful, and intimate emotional relationship can also look like love.
In fact, the feeling of a husband did not become popular overnight. In the past, there were affordable men who were highly sought after in the blind date market, and later there were warm men who occupied a place in marriage discussions. To a certain extent, the feeling of a husband is more like It is a balance between the two, combining economic applicability and emotional value.
When we re-examine the nature of emotional relationships and the real role we play in them, we begin to realize that instead of becoming a appendage of idol drama-style romantic fantasies, it is better to become the real heroine of our own lives in a clear understanding of reality. At the same time, we also hope that film and television dramas can use an equal, open, and inclusive attitude to show us different forms of emotional expression and relationship models.
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