In the minds of many people, "Happy Planet" undoubtedly represents childhood memories, especially Ma Jiaqi's theme song, with its magical melody and brainwashing lyrics, which has brought "Happy Planet" back to everyone's attention.
"What is Happy Planet? What is Happy Planet? If you want to know, know what Happy Planet is, now I will take you to study Happy Planet."
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Not long ago, Zhang Zhaoyi, the actor of "Ice Lemon" , officially announced the good news of their second child on Weibo. At first, she felt unwell and the pain became increasingly severe, and then she suffered an emotional breakdown.
But fortunately, her husband Brother Bao is always by her side, which undoubtedly gives Zhang Zhaoyi the greatest sense of security. In addition to worry, she felt more expectant and at ease. After seeing this news, many netizens expressed disbelief. A second child so soon?
However, more netizens sent their blessings one after another. In addition, there are many mothers in the comment area who express their feelings and express their feelings about how difficult it is to give birth to a child.
It is said that women are weak by nature, but mothers are strong. Pregnancy in ten months involves too much hardship and sadness. It's a long wait, and it's a gamble of one's life for one's life.
Miriam Yeung had a check-up when she was pregnant and found that she had uterine fibroids and was not suitable for giving birth to a child. As children grow up, uterine fibroids continue to grow. This is undoubtedly an invisible "bomb" that will explode at some point.
After being extremely entangled, Miriam Yang still kept the child. On the day of delivery, the delivery process was extremely critical. The doctor could only remove the fibroids and use forceps to take out the baby. Fortunately, the mother and baby were safe in the end.
Speaking of the experience of walking through the gate of hell, apart from Miriam Yang, Huo Siyan herself also had lingering fears.
Huo Siyan's experience of "um hum" can be described as a narrow escape from death. Due to physical reasons, she chose a caesarean section, and everything went smoothly. But on the night of the fourth day after giving birth, Huo Siyan suddenly suffered from severe bleeding and almost died.
The doctor issued a critical illness notice on the spot. There were more than 30 pieces of gauze used to stop the bleeding, covering the floor of the operating room. After a thrilling rescue, Huo Siyan was finally rescued. However, she still had lingering fears, "That was the time when I was closest to death."
When Das gave birth to her second child, due to lack of physical strength, waist cramps, and an allergy to painkillers, she suffered an epileptic seizure and instantly became comatose due to hypoxia. It took two first aids and one night of ICU observation to safely overcome the danger.
When Mei Ting gave birth to her child, she unfortunately suffered from amniotic fluid embolism and amniotic fluid reflux. The low blood pressure on the monitor was gone, and the high pressure was only over 60. She almost didn't survive the rescue.
For mothers, giving birth is the biggest adventure in life. Along the way, there are dangers everywhere. There is only a hair's breadth between life and death, it's a complete race against time.
Every life is a miracle, and every child is the friend of life and death for the mother. Those so-called maternal auras are just earned by them working hard and risking their lives. Without a little bit of luck in any aspect, the outcome would be unimaginable.
[2] There is a very popular topic on
Weibo, which asks "Do you regret after giving birth?" There is a message from a mother in the
comment area, which received high approval, "I never regret it, but I I also know clearly that life no longer leaves me any free time.”
After becoming a mother, there were of course many happy moments, but at the same time it also meant the beginning of a new battlefield.
In the show, Cai Shaofen once talked about the hardships of raising three children. She admitted that after having her children, she had not slept through the night for almost ten years.
Her youngest son often wakes up at around 4 a.m., crying and asking for milk. Even if she sleeps late, she still has to endure the sleepiness and get up to feed her child. At 5 o'clock in the morning, it is time to start making breakfast and braiding the daughters' hair.
After the two daughters went to school, it was the turn of the younger son. Cai Shaofen not only has to cook and feed him, but also goes out to play with him. From day to night, from night to day, there is never a moment of leisure.
However, this is not the only thing that makes mothers miserable. Busyness is just their standard, but what is even more torturous are the various unspeakable sequelae of childbirth.
First of all, the first thing you have to deal with is your figure being out of shape. Xi Mengyao, who regards her figure as her life, once confessed, "After I gave birth, my whole body became thicker. I used to wear jeans with a waist size of 24, but now I can't fit them anymore."
What is more intuitive is that netizens showed off their postpartum belly. The tight and flat belly is gone forever, replaced by shocking stretch marks.
ella revealed her embarrassment and helplessness about suffering from postpartum incontinence.
Her uterus and bladder prolapsed due to childbirth, and she has been deeply troubled for the past three years. "My sneezing, jumping on the spot, running and other actions will cause urinary incontinence and my pants will get wet..."
She is as strong as Zhang Ziyi, and she survived the most painful period. When she was giving birth, she kept silent, but she still suffered from "physiological breast enlargement".
Mastitis, anterior pelvic tilt, pubic diastasis... Mothers have suffered too much from such unspeakable secrets. Any one of them is enough to make people collapse.
Giving birth is simple to say, but behind it is sadness. It's like a marathon, extremely hard and long. It can be said that the body of a woman who has experienced childbirth is like experiencing a catastrophe, a scar that cannot be erased despite all her efforts.
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For women, childbirth is not only a "quantitative change" in body shape, but also a physical and mental purgatory. Many times, it’s not the pain and pressure that really weighs them down. It is the neglect and indifference of those around you when you are most helpless.
read a set of interviews in which several mothers talked about their experiences of postpartum depression. Listening to wives confess their painful experiences of postpartum depression, men don't take it seriously.
In their eyes, they are all trivial things that are not worth mentioning, and they are too fussy. But for women, postpartum depression is not fragile or pretentious, but more like asking for help.
"I got sick, and no one in my family knew that I was sick, but I was indeed very sick." It’s sad, and it’s also countless helpless.
Alyssa Chia gave birth to a daughter at an advanced age in her second marriage, and her mood was very unstable after giving birth. Fortunately, Xiu Jiekai was always by her side. Every time she broke down and cried, Xiu Jiekai would comfort her, "Don't be afraid, I'm here."
When her child was born, Xiu Jiekai was on the rise in his career. But Xiu Jiekai still spends a lot of time raising children with his wife.
He can understand his wife's hard work, so he always spares no effort to help his wife. Changing diapers, dressing children, and telling stories are all at his fingertips.
In their family, when the children have something to do, they don’t always look for their mother, but often look for their father. In the process of raising children, he never made Alyssa feel that she was alone.
This is what a responsible husband should look like. Giving birth has never been taken for granted. They are betting on their lives and the world is worth it.
When Xie Na was pregnant, Zhang Jie gave up almost all his work and stayed with Xie Na wholeheartedly, giving her a sense of security. Not only does he cook delicious food himself, but he also goes out with Xie Na to get some fresh air when she has insomnia in the middle of the night.
When Zhang Xinyi faced the pressure of breastfeeding and returning to the workplace, Yuan Hong gave her the strongest support. He sees life in his eyes, shares the pressure of childcare, and firmly supports her in doing what she wants to do.
In life, many people often talk about "being strong as a mother" and require mothers to be strong, tolerant and omnipotent. But what they don't know is that the previous sentence of this sentence is "women are inherently weak."
Mothers are also ordinary people with flesh and blood. They will also be tired, in pain, sad, anxious, and desperate. The more vulnerable they are, the more they need support from their husbands. With her husband around, the wife has enough space to release her stress and grievances.
Zhan Qingyun once said this in "Qi Pa Shuo", "Why am I afraid of marriage and childbirth? Because everyone around me has shown me that the standard for treating women as superhumans has been established."
Giving birth has never been an easy task. Every step requires a great deal of time, energy, and even health.
No mother is born a god. Their situation needs to be truly seen. More importantly Yes, raising children is never an easy task. It requires two people to support it.
Only in this way can they have the strength to persevere and feel the joy of new life. This road is full of arduous tasks. far.
