Do you still remember the vicious mother-in-law in "The Beautiful Era of Wifes" who made people hate her to death? She is the actor Bai Han, a strong woman who has gone through many hardships in life and lost her parents and husband. The national daughter-in-law who confronts her tit-for-tat in the play is the Hai Qing we know well.
You may think that the two people are incompatible with each other in the play, and they must be inseparable outside the play. But the truth is exactly the opposite. Off-screen, they have become a pair of sisters who talk about everything! Despite the 22-year age difference, the two seem to have been friends for many years and get along very well.
Bai Han met Hai Qing when he was at the bottom of his life. They shared the pain and joy of life together and supported each other through one difficulty after another. When Bo Han won the Best Actress award for her outstanding acting skills, her life finally seemed to have seen the light of day. However, fate played tricks on her again - she unfortunately became seriously ill.
In the last moments of his life, Bo Han only saw Hai Qing. She held Hai Qing's hand tightly, her eyes full of trust and expectation. She entrusted Hai Qing to take care of her son, and handed over the person she cared about most in the world to this unrelated friend.
What kind of love made Bai Han so confident in handing over his son to Hai Qing? And will Haiqing fulfill this heavy promise?
From the trough of marriage to the peak of life, the friendship with Hai Qing and the encounter with director Han Xiaolei
When Bai Han felt that there was no one behind her, she chose to entrust her 31-year-old son Han Qing to Hai Qing. This trust and trust , stems from the deep friendship between the two.
Time goes back to 1980. At that time, Bai Han was in her youth and her acting career had just started. She also met her first husband at this time. However, this marriage did not bring happiness and warmth as she expected.
Her husband's alcoholism and indifference to the family made Bo Han, who had lacked care since childhood, once again feel the indifference of life. Shortly after giving birth to her son Han Qing, she chose to divorce, and this short marriage became a past she did not want to mention.
After the divorce, Bai Han focused all her attention on acting and raising Han Qing. She worked hard to shine on the stage and create a better future for her son. Just when she thought she would be alone for the rest of her life, fate came quietly.
In 1996, 41-year-old Bai Han met director Han Xiaolei. This leader among the fourth generation directors pointed out the shortcomings in Bo Han's performance with his unique vision and sharp comments.
It was this comment that made Bo Hanmao suddenly enlightened and found a breakthrough for his performance. The two appreciated each other during their cooperation and gradually came together. Despite the 13-year age gap between them, the two bridged the gap and came together.
Bai Han and Han Xiaolei: The path of finding sweetness in bitterness
At that time, Han Xiaolei was holding two precious drama tickets in his hands, and he thought of Bai Han who was working hard to hone his acting skills. Thus, a ticket became the starting point of their fate. On the stage of the drama, they saw all kinds of life; in reality, they found resonance in each other's hearts.
Their friendship deepened unknowingly and eventually sublimated into love. They cherish this relationship even more, because they have all experienced relationship failure, so they understand this hard-won happiness even more.
In Bai Han's heart, those seven years were the happiest time he spent with Han Xiaolei. Han Xiaolei's love and care were like warm sunshine, illuminating her once gloomy world. In those days, their laughter and happiness became the most beautiful scenery in each other's lives.
But fate always seems to like playing tricks on people. Just when Bai Han was immersed in happiness, a sudden incident broke her dream. That day, when she opened the door, what she saw was Han Xiaolei's pale and weak face. At that moment, her heart seemed to be hit by a heavy hammer, and she was so painful that she couldn't breathe.
It is not easy to find a close partner when you are old.Bai Han's happiness was cruelly taken away, and she fell into the abyss of life again.
But she did not give up, because she knew that Han Xiaolei's spirit in heaven must hope that she could live strong. Bai Han's life is like a cup of coptis water, extremely bitter. But it was this bitterness that made her cherish the sweetness she once had even more.
Cinderella's Counterattack: The Road to Acting and the Fight with Destiny
Bai Han once had a happy childhood, with a well-off family and doting parents. However, the good times did not last long, and the giant wheel of history ruthlessly crushed this warm little home.
His father was sent to the farm, his mother was laid off from work, and became mentally ill. Bai Han, who was only seven years old, was forced to end his carefree life early and began to shoulder the burden of the family.
She rushes between school and home every day, taking care of her sick mother and cleaning up the mess. Loneliness and fear became her childhood companions, and friends became a distant luxury. When he was fourteen years old, his mother chose to pass away after a brief period of sobriety, and Bo Han's world completely collapsed.
Two years later, Bai Han dropped out of school and entered the society, looking for jobs to make ends meet. However, due to family issues, she ran into obstacles everywhere. Fortunately, she found a job repairing electric meters at the Power Supply Bureau. Although it was hard work, she cherished it. It was here that she unexpectedly got the opportunity to perform on stage, and the seeds of acting in her heart quietly sprouted.
Faced with heavy pressure from family and society, Bai Han has not given up his love for acting. She studied under teachers everywhere and seized every performance opportunity. Although she was repeatedly rejected, she always believed that gold always shines. Finally, after countless attempts and failures, she gradually emerged on the stage.
However, fate did not let Bai Han go. Her father was sent home due to a serious illness, and the bad news of terminal esophageal cancer pushed her into the abyss again. Faced with the high cost of treatment and her father on the sickbed, she was powerless. Her father's death made her a real orphan.
The hard-earned acting life
In 1979, the dawn of society began to appear, and she also found the opportunity to turn around and change her life in this dawn.
That year, Bo Han shocked the judges of the National Experimental Drama with a drama "Return" that she directed and acted in. It is said that 5 or 6 of the 7 or 8 examiners at that time were moved by her performance and shed tears on the spot. . This play was created based on her own experiences. Those sufferings were like keys, knocking on the door to her acting career.
On the stage, Bo Han is a dazzling actor; in life, she is a strong mother. Although her first marriage did not bring her much happiness, it left her the most precious gift - her son Han Qing. The mother and son depended on each other, and it was not until the appearance of her second husband Han Xiaolei that she felt the long-lost happy time.
During Bai Han's acting career, she has always pursued progress and constantly improved her acting skills. Her performances are authentic and touching, and always touch the hearts of the audience.
Even in the hospital bed, she still couldn't forget about acting. She even said that if director Ang Lee came to her to play a dying patient, she would rather give up treatment and go to acting. This dedication and love for acting makes people moved.
However, fate always plays tricks on people. In the last moments of Bo Han's life, what she worried about most was still her son and acting. Her best friend Hai Qing couldn't help but shed tears every time she mentioned this.
She promised Bai Han that she would have a younger brother from now on and that she would take good care of Han Qing. This promise is not only a comfort to Bai Han, but also a testimony to her deep friendship. Now that he has passed away, the entertainment industry has lost another actor who is serious about acting!
Mother's love is like a mountain: The act of caring for an orphan and the endless affection
It is not an exaggeration to say that Bai Han is a miserable person. To her, family love is like snowflakes in the northern winter, beautiful but cold and melting at the touch of a finger. Early on, life forced her to learn to face wind, frost, rain, and snow independently.
In her first marriage, she felt like she had walked into an ice cellar without temperature.Her husband's indifference and irresponsibility prevented her from feeling any warmth in the siege of marriage. In the second marriage, although her husband was sincere to her and his stepson Han Qing, fate was unpredictable and happiness always slipped away from her fingertips like quicksand.
In this context, Bai Han has few shoulders to rely on. And Hai Qing, as her best friend, was like the starlight shining stubbornly in the darkness, giving her endless comfort and strength.
Han Qing is 31 years old. For many people, at this age he is already an upright man. But in Bo Han's eyes, he is still the child who needs care. This mother's love is as deep as the sea and as thick as the mountains, which makes people moved.
So, when Bai Han made the decision to entrust his son to Hai Qing, what else can we say? This is not a simple trust and delivery, but a warm road paved by a mother who used all her strength to pave the way for her son at the last moment of her life.
The glitz and noise of the entertainment industry quietly receded at this moment, leaving only the heavy maternal love and Bo Han's tenacity and wisdom. She made us understand that parental love is not only a warm embrace and endless dedication, but also a far-reaching strategy and selfless dedication.
