Text\Jiangzuo Meiniang
Recently, Wang Shi's remarks about protecting his wife have been on the hot search. He said that his little wife did not marry him because she liked his money, because when they met, his wife Tian Pujun was better than her. He has a lot of cash and a successful career. What he means is: It's not that she got rich, but that I met a rich woman. So, the two of us were together because of love.
Netizens were all amused by his remarks. Are his equity and real estate not money? Was Tian Pujun really more successful than him at that time? Why didn't I see it?
Yes, anyone with a discerning eye can see all kinds of loopholes in him, but he convinced himself.
I don’t know if you have noticed that old men, especially successful men, basically believe in love as long as they get divorced and get married again.
In real life, in fact, after women reach middle age, they believe in love less and less, but men do the opposite. Why? Let’s analyze it together.
01. Men believe in love, which is a kind of narcissism.
Yang Li said something that has been popular for a long time, saying that many men are "obviously ordinary, but they are so confident."
Yes, boys have received more attention than girls since childhood, and they have been less constrained than girls since childhood. , they are more likely to naturally form a confident personality, and when self-confidence is excessive, it becomes arrogance and narcissism.
A divorced elderly man can still attract women much younger than him. Although discerning people think that it is because of the man’s background, strength, money, resources, etc., this man often does not think so, because once he admits Yes, that means: The woman's love for me is no longer pure, and the woman is not with me because of love.
How vulgar this is, how uncomfortable it makes him feel!
The richer a man is, the less he wants the world to think that a woman comes for his money, because she comes for his money, not for him as a person, but only for him as a person. Only then can he prove his great wisdom and extraordinary charm.
When Foxconn CEO Terry Gou was asked by the media why he chose this wife who is 24 years younger than him, he specifically emphasized that he saw truth, goodness and beauty in Zeng Xinying, and he could not smell a trace of money in her.
On the surface, these words are to protect the character of his beloved wife, but in fact, he is showing his extraordinary charm to the world.
This is the crazy self-confidence of rich older men: What women love is my person, not my money!
But if you have no money, will he really marry you?
02 Only by believing in love can a man maintain his dignity.
If you don’t believe that you are really loved, could you be deceived?
In "Everything Is Fine", the old man Su Daqiang fell in love with the nanny, but his second son Su Mingcheng told the truth: "Then what does she want from you? Because you are older, because you don't take a shower? Picture The only thing is that after two years, you are gone and the house belongs to her!"
This makes people feel really uncomfortable to hear this, but it is the naked reality. Later, when the nanny found out that it was impossible to plan on Su Daqiang's house, she ran away. However, Su Daqiang still didn't give up and wanted to get it back.
This little nanny is not too bad, at least she has not continued to cheat, but why does Su Daqiang always keep dreaming and not want to wake up?
Even a cowardly man like Su Daqiang doesn’t want to wake up, let alone a successful man with money and resources!
Because once you wake up and believe it, you are admitting to the world that you may have been deceived.
Who will be deceived? Of course he is a fool, a person with little brains. How can a successful man admit that he is a fool? He wants to maintain his great dignity.
A man values face more than life. He would rather believe that he is doing it because of love than to believe that he is being used by others.
Isn’t Liu Luanxiong the same? He asked Gamby to be his last woman, and he was full of praise for women. He recently came out to prove that investing in Evergrande was his own choice and had nothing to do with Gamby. Gamby should help him invest in art and earn 20 billion. He is highly By evaluating her vision and ability, doesn't it prove to the world that his choice is correct and that Gumby truly loves him and is not lying to him?
03. Only when a man believes in love can he wash away his previous behavior that may have been chaotic and abandoned.
Love is a great and noble emotion. Because love is great and noble, and I married her because of love, it is sacred and blameless.
Although Wang Shi himself said that his first pot of gold was earned through his own business, everyone knows that his subsequent rise in the real estate industry is inseparable from the prominent family background of his wife Wang Jiangsui.
But the reputation of always being in trouble and finally giving up is not good. After all, it is ungrateful for a man to abandon his wife who has been with him all the way after becoming rich. But if it is because of love, it is different.
The sacred aura of love will give a golden life to a matter that was in chaos but ended up being abandoned, and will make those who come after you clear up and come to shore.
Yes, when he convinces himself that he chose to marry someone because of love, he will feel that the decision is blameless, and when love is considered to be the driving force of all actions, it will make him more noble.
Liu Luanxiong is the same. Some time ago, he held a press conference to criticize Sang and Huai, and alluded to his ex-girlfriend. In the end, it was all to beautify his relationship with Gambi and whitewash his previous behavior.
They are the real love, it is pure, a great feeling without a trace of money. Although he had countless sexual encounters when he was young, it was all because he was young and frivolous, so he would make countless mistakes. But if he had not experienced these , how could he identify this truly great love?
04. Mei Niang said
When they were young, most women believed in love, purely believed in it, and devoted themselves selflessly; while most men only believe in love when they are old. Believing in it is for self and dignity. , for profit, or to clear yourself and your new love.
Junichi Watanabe once said it brilliantly: "Only when men become soft below when they grow old, will their hearts become soft."
Yes, only at this time will they believe in love.
