Author | Qian Feiyan
Editor | Xiang Wanwan
A variety show "Housework Men" made the marriage of Qin Ziyue and Nie Yuan public, which also triggered heated discussions among netizens.
I thought Zhu Dan's marriage was so humble before. Li Dan, an observer of this show, said directly to Zhu Dan: Give her your title of "Humble Dan".
However, Zhu Dan denied that he was "humble", and Qin Ziyue also denied that he was "humble"!
These two people don’t feel it themselves, so is it their delusion that they are humble?
I think of Mr. Yang Jiang’s words: Life is your own and has nothing to do with others.
The more Qin Zi knew what she wanted, the more she pursued her happiness.
It is reported that her mother-in-law dotes on her like a daughter, and Nie Yuan gives her a 7-digit pocket money every month, and there has never been any scandal.
Is this what she wants?
01
A young girl changed her life direction because of acting.
From liking to chasing her, she pursued her from elementary school to Chinese drama and then to the crew.
In 2001, after "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair" became a hit, it successively won the ratings championship in many provinces.
This TV series with only 20 episodes became a love idol drama that teenagers at that time could not forget.
At the same time, it also made Nie Yuan, Huang Yi and others popular.
At this time, Qin Ziyue was a girl from an ordinary family in Fushun, Liaoning.
Born in 1987, she was only 13 years old at the time and was in an ignorant and ignorant adolescence.
was influenced by his mother's TV drama watching, and was attracted to a young and handsome dream lover on the screen. Although there was only one screen between them, there were thousands of miles away.
Although the road is far away, we will get there if we go. Although things are difficult, we will succeed if we do.
After the girl's heart was activated, she held a belief and decided to apply for film school first, so that she could stand with the person she likes in the future.
Huangtian paid off, and the dream-chasing girl achieved her first goal. She was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama.
In 2006, during his junior year, Qin Ziyue participated in the emotional drama "Being Happy" directed by Zhang Youling and officially started his acting career.
After that, there were many film appointments, and after acting with many celebrities, Qin Ziyue became somewhat famous.
In 2011, the gear of fate really turned to the level of dreams.
In Zhang Jizhong's version of "Journey to the West", Qin Ziyue plays the jade-faced little fox and Nie Yuan plays Tang Monk. Two people walked into a play.
went from looking at each other across the screen to walking across the screen. This process took 10 years.
At this time, Nie Yuan was going through a divorce. Soon after, he retreated from being a married man to being single.
Nie Yuan and Qin Ziyue also became familiar with each other. It seemed that Qin Ziyue's dream of chasing stars became a reality.
Some people say: If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. There is no such thing as a good destiny, it is not obtained by overcoming thorns and thorns along the way.
Has Qin Ziyue's good life really come?
02
A naughty boy bent on breaking away from the constraints of his parents and embarked on the road of movies step by step. The involvement in and out of the movie was unclear.
Unlike Qin Ziyue, Nie Yuan, who is nine years older than her, has been naughty and restless since childhood, bohemian and unruly.
It is said that when I was a child, I once jumped out of the second floor window of my home in order to escape the sight of my parents and play with my friends.
In order to prevent accidents, Nie's mother could only use wooden bars and iron nails to secure the windows.
In 1992, Nie Yuan graduated from middle school. In order to escape from the control of his parents, he borrowed money to buy a train ticket and ran to Guiyang to take the art school admissions examination.
was admitted because of his talent and handsome appearance.
graduated a few years later and stayed in the song and dance troupe of the Guangzhou Military Region for 2 months. Because he was disobedient and often violated discipline, he later ran out secretly.
Nie Yuan said in an interview that he was young at the time and didn't know the heights of the world. He didn't go through the enrollment procedures, otherwise he would be in a military court.
After going round and round, Nie Yuan decided to take the exam to film school.
In 1996, he broke through the difficulty of Mandarin and took the exam at Beijing Film Academy.
For insurance, he went to Xi'an to participate in the Shanghai Theater Academy's enrollment in Xi'an.
When the results were announced, it was discovered that Nie Yuan was admitted to Beijing Film Academy and Shanghai Theater Academy at the same time.
He later chose the Shanghai Theater Academy and became classmates with Hao Lei, Yao Qianyu and others.
In 2000, he starred with Huang Yi in "The Wrong Sedan". The two worked together so well that the director was astonished. After the new drama of
was aired, the gentle and personable 23-year-old Nie Yuan became famous. It was exposed that Nie and Huang had been a couple for a long time.
Young love is easy to be vigorous and noisy. After three years together, the two sadly broke up.
Later, Nie Yuan continued to take on roles, and his emotional scenes with the heroine could not be distinguished from the inside and outside of the scenes, and his girlfriends changed one after another.
In 2001, she and Shen Aojun fell in love with each other during the filming of "The Romance of the Tang Dynasty" and came together. After
, Shen Aojun gave up many shooting opportunities and spent 2 million to buy a wedding house.
Shen Aojun was obedient to him. While waiting for the other party to marry him, he discovered that someone else had broken into Nie Yuan's life.
Nie Yuan fell in love with actress Liu Yun while filming "Sweet Horse".
In 2006, when Nie Yuan was filming "Flying Fox in the Snow Mountain", Liu Yun discovered that he had many private photos of Nie Yuan and Gillian on his phone.
then discovered the difference between Nie Yuan, Xie Na and Hu Ke.
There is no name or reward for giving love. Liu Yun was so angry that she exposed Nie Yuan's "five-cornered love".
Nie Yuan's love affair came to an end because of his marriage to Wang Hui. But because both of them had personalities, they had more and more quarrels, and they parted ways within two years.
Life is not a play, you don’t need to rely on acting skills, you can live it seriously.
In his youth, Nie Yuan was handsome and unrestrained, but he was also playful and dissolute, until he met Qin Ziyue.
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A philandering idol and a nymphomaniac fan crossed the screen, and it took 14 years to finally get together
In 2011, when Nie Yuan and Qin Ziyue were filming "New Journey to the West" together, Nie Yuan was going through the torture of marriage.
Although Qin Ziyue was extremely excited to finally stand with his childhood idol, he had to control himself and could only ask for an autographed photo.
In 2012, Nie Yuan and Wang Hui separated.
Qin Ziyue also quit his original employer and joined Nie Yuan's company. The relationship between the two has further developed.
In August 2014, Qin Ziyue got her wish, she married her idol.
and became a family of three at the same time. Because before the marriage, Qin Ziyue had already given birth to Nie Yuan's daughter.
At this point in the story, some netizens commented on Qin Ziyue: a role model in the star chasing world.
She worked hard enough and was lucky enough to fulfill her dream of chasing stars, and she envied so many girls who chased stars.
Her husband Nie Yuan also changed his past love-minded attitude. He gave her a diamond ring as heavy as her birthday on March 17th at the wedding, which moved Miss Qin to tears several times at the wedding, because he said, I will give it to you for the rest of my life.
Later, when Nie Yuan was asked by Qin Ziyue's high school classmates about his family status, he said that Qin Ziyue was the chairman of their family, and the name on his phone was the chairman.
Qin Ziyue gave up everything at his best age and had the most opportunities, returned to his family, raised his husband and raised his children, and lived the life of a star wife.
Watch her share a photo collection on Xiaohongshu: Ten years, in the blink of an eye, from me to us, to a family of four.
Every smiling face in every photo looks happy. You can feel that she is happy.
In the past ten years, Nie Yuan has had no other scandals. He finally knows how to support his family and protect his wife, children and children. In the minds of
fans, from now on, they should be like a fairy tale: living happily together and having children.
However, a program pushed them to the forefront again.
04
Because of a variety show, the behind-the-scenes celebrity family life was brought to the screen and caused a lot of controversy.
In the reality show "Men Doing Housework", observers and netizens criticized Nie Yuan for resting at home while his family waited for dinner and asked for three invitations. After four calls, he appeared.
According to ordinary views, it is really humble for Qin Ziyue to do this.
So I sympathize with Qin Ziyue who has no career or income after returning to his family. This is a compromise.
Only then did observer Li Dan ask Zhu Dan to give up the title of "Humble Pill" to Qin Ziyue.
But thinking about it, in our ordinary family, if one person works outside for a long time, he will come home to rest and sleep until it is dark, day and night. Can
be forgiven?
Most people may say, don't worry about him, just relax and let him get enough sleep.
There is a scene where Nie Yuan is chopping and cooking vegetables. Qin Ziyue chases and praises the scene. Judging from Nie Yuan's proficiency, he is definitely a person who has the ability to do housework.
When Nie Yuan left the house, he called his wife Qin Ziyue and asked him, did he wear enough clothes for himself?
Qin Ziyue said: Are you wearing too much? It’s getting cold!
This should also be the happiness of relying on and being dependent on. What do you think?
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Life is your own, don’t live in other people’s mouths
Qin Ziyue and Nie Yuan’s marriage:
Some people say that Nie Yuan is not worthy of her,
Some people say that Qin Ziyue has climbed up,
Later, he said that Qin Ziyue is too much I feel wronged,
Nie Yuan, you are too chauvinistic...
Marriage is like a shoe, you know whether it fits or not.
Qin Ziyue knows how to love himself first, then give love and take care of the old and the young.
Nie Yuan took on the responsibility of supporting the family and caring for his wife, children and children.
As for the past, life was like a play, but it was no longer a play, and could not be rehearsed, reshot, or post-produced.
Let’s make peace with the past and let it go.
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